QueenZone discussion #863332

<font color=gold>SMI<font color=1>TTY™ wrote: Depends on if it's illegal...

Haystacks Calhounski wrote: As long as both are over 18.....no.

<font color="#FF00FF">its_a_hard_life wrote:

Haystacks Calhounski wrote: As long as both are over 18.....no.

16 is the legal age in the UK.

Haystacks Calhounski wrote: As long as both are over 18.....no.

Mircrowave! wrote:

Haystacks Calhounski wrote: As long as both are over 18.....no.

But if one's 18 and the other is 64, that's just plain sad... and wrinkly.

<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: Heard of something called common sense? Use it.

<font color=orangered>ORGASMIC CHILD wrote: Should age matter in a relashionship?? Well should it???

<font color=gold>SMI<font color=1>TTY™ wrote:

<font color=orangered>ORGASMIC CHILD wrote:

<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: Heard of something called common sense? Use it.

I know but i can't help it if i like an older guy!!!

Well, how old?

<font color=orangered>ORGASMIC CHILD wrote:

<font color=gold>SMI<font color=1>TTY™ wrote:

<font color=orangered>ORGASMIC CHILD wrote:

<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: Heard of something called common sense? Use it.

I know but i can't help it if i like an older guy!!!

Well, how old?

He only 3 years older then me.... But when your a teenager age is such a big issue.... And he thinks I'm WAY OLDER then 14.....

Music Man wrote: First of all, you are a 14-year-old whose internet handle is "Orgasmic Child." Something tells me you might make easy prey for a 17-year-old guy.

<font color=orangered>ORGASMIC CHILD wrote:

<font color=gold>SMI<font color=1>TTY™ wrote:

<font color=orangered>ORGASMIC CHILD wrote:

<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: Heard of something called common sense? Use it.

I know but i can't help it if i like an older guy!!!

Well, how old?

He only 3 years older then me.... But when your a teenager age is such a big issue.... And he thinks I'm WAY OLDER then 14.....

<font color=dark red>WhiteQueen wrote: Im only 16 and my bf is 18,ive more sense than he does so I really dont think age matters,once you both love each other then why should age stop you?

<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote:

<font color="#FF00FF">its_a_hard_life wrote:

Haystacks Calhounski wrote: As long as both are over 18.....no.

16 is the legal age in the UK.

However, 18 year olds are far more dependable to make informed, rational decisions about relationships than 16 year olds. The two years does make a big difference. And even if they can't at that point in time, they are adults and they should begin to take responsibility for themselves at this point anyway.

Mircrowave! wrote:

Music Man wrote: First of all, you are a 14-year-old whose internet handle is "Orgasmic Child." Something tells me you might make easy prey for a 17-year-old guy.

***RIGHT ON!!! With an 11 year old daughter at home, something tells me you need to have your computer taken away and learn to respect yourself a lot more. I'm sure Mom and Dad know all about your internet name, right? Dad must be especially proud. But then I laugh when you kids get pregnant at 16, drop out of school, and blame the world for your problems. Besides Mom and Dad can always raise your baby, right?

CMU HistoryGirl wrote: After the legal age of consent (no matter where you are...they vary from country to country) age is nothing but a number. It's your mental and emotional maturity that matter. I've met some 16 year olds who are as mature as me, and I've also met some 23 year olds who are as immature as my 5 year old niece. It's more about finding someone who matches your stage of development. My parents are close to 7 years apart, and one of my friends from high school's grandparents are 16 years apart. It's the maturity you need, not the number (after both have reached legal age). That said....remember that no matter how mature you feel you are still very young. Heck, I'm 23 and feel a heck of a lot more mature, but there are still times I get that pang of "Jeeze, I'm pretty young yet". You can't be in a proper relationship until you know yourself thoroughly, and know what you want. My guess is that at 14 you think you know yourself better than you actually do (I'm still learning about myself). You'll never know yourself completely, but give it some time.

<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote:

Mircrowave! wrote:

Haystacks Calhounski wrote: As long as both are over 18.....no.

But if one's 18 and the other is 64, that's just plain sad... and wrinkly.

Apparently 90% of the females on QZ would disagree with you. I'll just say this: Roger Taylor...Brian May...Paul McCartney. For the record, I agree with you.

wstüssyb wrote: I dont think so, when I'm 60, I"ll marry my 18 Year old Girlfriend.

<font color=lime>KillerQueen840 wrote: If you're Anna Nicole Smith it doesn't. :-P Personally, I think it does to some extent. I think your partner should at least be your PEER, not someone old enough to be your parent.

<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote:

<font color=dark red>WhiteQueen wrote: Im only 16 and my bf is 18,ive more sense than he does so I really dont think age matters,once you both love each other then why should age stop you?

Because you never really know for sure (especially at such a young age) if you're truly in mutually loving relationship or not until either A) it ends (i.e. no) or B) many years down the road when you're still together (i.e. yes). By the way, to any who are wondering...no, ten months is not equivalent to many years down the road. However, the illusion of love is a very useful tool for older predatory males who like to go for the impressionable young girls. Or maybe you get lucky and you end up in love, which results in a long, happy marriage. Who knows? Love's a gamble, anyway. But do you really need to put all your chips on the table at 14?

Lisser wrote:

CMU HistoryGirl wrote: After the legal age of consent (no matter where you are...they vary from country to country) age is nothing but a number. It's your mental and emotional maturity that matter. I've met some 16 year olds who are as mature as me, and I've also met some 23 year olds who are as immature as my 5 year old niece. It's more about finding someone who matches your stage of development. My parents are close to 7 years apart, and one of my friends from high school's grandparents are 16 years apart. It's the maturity you need, not the number (after both have reached legal age). That said....remember that no matter how mature you feel you are still very young. Heck, I'm 23 and feel a heck of a lot more mature, but there are still times I get that pang of "Jeeze, I'm pretty young yet". You can't be in a proper relationship until you know yourself thoroughly, and know what you want. My guess is that at 14 you think you know yourself better than you actually do (I'm still learning about myself). You'll never know yourself completely, but give it some time.

I feel the same way. I'm so glad you post on here CMUhistorygirl!!!! Your posts are always great. :)