| PersianPopinjay 15.06.2009 11:18 |
Hi, I know none of you know me but I used to be on here all the time a few years ago. Anyway, I could really use some advice. Okay so there is a guy (lets call him Fabio) that I really really like and I don't know how he feels about me. (sorry if i sound like the stereotypical teenage girl). We had a class together last year and we got along pretty well. We have a mutual friend (lets call him Butthead) who told Fabio I liked him, although he promised me he wouldnt. So then we had a homecoming dance at school and Fabio asked me to dance and I was insanely happy. Butthead kept asking Fabio if he was going to ask me out and he kept saying maybe. Fabio is really shy and never ask a girl out before. So eventually Butthead kept asking him and he was like "no, I only like her a little bit". So then I was really sad for a while. Then one day I stayed after school with my friend (lets call her Alice) and Fabio randomly came up to us and started talking to us for 15 minutes even though he was suppose to go home (he lives right next to the school). When I got home, I saw that he emailed me asking whats up and we have been emailing back and forth ever since. Well yesterday, Alice had a pool party and invited Fabio and Butthead. Fabio and I were together all night and we were partners playing chicken (I got to sit on his shoulders *faints*) We had so much fun and I saw him check me out a few times (or maybe that was just in my head but I don't think it was). Well anyway, if you read all of this thank you and I'm sorry for boring the crap out of you. If anyone has any advice or comments to offer up that would be very much appreciated. |
| john bodega 15.06.2009 11:28 |
I missed the 'trouble' part. |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 15.06.2009 11:39 |
Zebonka12 wrote: I missed the 'trouble' part.its 9 months from now.. |
| PersianPopinjay 15.06.2009 11:57 |
I just don't know if he likes me or how to get him to ask me out |
| Micrówave 15.06.2009 12:01 |
Asking an internet forum about dating advice? I guess the counselors at the Star Trek Convention were too busy for you. |
| PersianPopinjay 15.06.2009 12:17 |
I've talked it over with my friends. I just want to get a perspective from someone who doesn't know me. |
| john bodega 15.06.2009 12:22 |
PersianPopinjay wrote: I've talked it over with my friends. I just want to get a perspective from someone who doesn't know me.Think of it like this; in 100 years, who's going to give a toss! This guy (clearly) is not that great. Use him up, learn what you can and move on. |
| PersianPopinjay 15.06.2009 12:25 |
There is something really special about him though. I know he doesn't like talking to girls so I feel like that might be part of it. I don't want to give up. |
| inu-liger 15.06.2009 12:58 |
Hi Jake |
| Sergei. 15.06.2009 13:29 |
There's this girl at my school who liked me for about a day. She wasn't ugly, either. And then I don't know what happened because I've never talked to her before and I haven't heard anything about the situation since. It made me sad. Nobody's ever liked me in my life. R.I.P. |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 15.06.2009 13:51 |
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| Micrówave 15.06.2009 14:58 |
I know he doesn't like talking to girls Kinda like Freddie. (hint hint) |
| PersianPopinjay 15.06.2009 15:11 |
Micrówave wrote:I know he doesn't like talking to girlsKinda like Freddie. (hint hint) Oh crap, I hope not. He has a masculine personality though. I really hope he likes the ladies. |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 15.06.2009 15:53 |
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| Mr Mercury 15.06.2009 17:00 |
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| FriedChicken 15.06.2009 17:27 |
Micrówave wrote: Asking an internet forum about dating advice? I guess the counselors at the Star Trek Convention were too busy for you. Indeed, it's like asking a construction worker how nuclear fusion works. |
| Micrówave 15.06.2009 18:00 |
PersianPopinjay wrote:Micrówave wrote:Oh crap, I hope not. He has a masculine personality though. I really hope he likes the ladies.I know he doesn't like talking to girlsKinda like Freddie. (hint hint) Actually, there's a guy here on Queenzone that I think you'd be better suited to. He's VERY masculine, likes the ladies, has an enormous Queen spending budget... the guy is loaded. Why he hasn't been scooped up by now is beyond all of us. PLUS, he's a Songwriter. |
| Mr.Jingles 15.06.2009 18:22 |
PersianPopinjay wrote: Hi, I know none of you know me but I used to be on here all the time a few years ago. Anyway, I could really use some advice. Okay so there is a guy (lets call him Fabio) that I really really like and I don't know how he feels about me. This Fabio? link |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 15.06.2009 18:29 |
^for a minute i thought that was me :-p |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 15.06.2009 20:12 |
JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-p LMFAO. O______O |
| i-Fred 15.06.2009 22:36 |
funny how love is |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 16.06.2009 08:54 |
its_a_hard_life wrote:i got better hair though :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-pLMFAO. O______O |
| The Mir@cle 16.06.2009 09:49 |
JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote:its_a_hard_life wrote:i got better hair though :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-pLMFAO. O______O That's where you stopped comparing as well, right? :P |
| Philly Guy 16.06.2009 11:47 |
I get the feeling that it's not that he doesn't like talking to girls. I would say he's afraid or otherwise shy around the ladies. Anyway. This is the 21st century. You're allowed to ask him out. If he likes you, he'll say yes. Don't be surprised if he doesn't know what to do once you have him alone. lol. Have fun! |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 16.06.2009 12:50 |
The Mir@cle wrote:yeah,i cant help being this wonderful lolJoxerTheDeityPirate wrote:That's where you stopped comparing as well, right? :Pits_a_hard_life wrote:i got better hair though :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-pLMFAO. O______O |
| PersianPopinjay 16.06.2009 13:26 |
Philly Guy wrote: I get the feeling that it's not that he doesn't like talking to girls. I would say he's afraid or otherwise shy around the ladies. Anyway. This is the 21st century. You're allowed to ask him out. If he likes you, he'll say yes. Don't be surprised if he doesn't know what to do once you have him alone. lol. Have fun! Thanks, that was really helpful. Lets just hope I can muster up the courage to actually ask him. |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 16.06.2009 15:35 |
JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote:its_a_hard_life wrote:i got better hair though :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-pLMFAO. O______O Don't get a body like his... IT'S DISGUSTING. XD |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 16.06.2009 17:43 |
its_a_hard_life wrote:*blows raspberry at Tijn*JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote:Don't get a body like his... IT'S DISGUSTING. XDits_a_hard_life wrote:i got better hair though :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-pLMFAO. O______O see what i mean about me being wonderful lol i need more mirrors,i obviously dont have enough :-] |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 17.06.2009 11:13 |
JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote:its_a_hard_life wrote:*blows raspberry at Tijn* see what i mean about me being wonderful lol i need more mirrors,i obviously dont have enough :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote:Don't get a body like his... IT'S DISGUSTING. XDits_a_hard_life wrote:i got better hair though :-]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: ^for a minute i thought that was me :-pLMFAO. O______O *________* |
| Philly Guy 17.06.2009 11:26 |
PersianPopinjay wrote:Philly Guy wrote: I get the feeling that it's not that he doesn't like talking to girls. I would say he's afraid or otherwise shy around the ladies. Anyway. This is the 21st century. You're allowed to ask him out. If he likes you, he'll say yes. Don't be surprised if he doesn't know what to do once you have him alone. lol. Have fun!Thanks, that was really helpful. Lets just hope I can muster up the courage to actually ask him. He's already your friend. No need to worry. He probably won't bite unless you tell him to. Good luck! |
| PersianPopinjay 17.06.2009 11:35 |
Philly Guy wrote:PersianPopinjay wrote:He's already your friend. No need to worry. He probably won't bite unless you tell him to. Good luck!Philly Guy wrote: I get the feeling that it's not that he doesn't like talking to girls. I would say he's afraid or otherwise shy around the ladies. Anyway. This is the 21st century. You're allowed to ask him out. If he likes you, he'll say yes. Don't be surprised if he doesn't know what to do once you have him alone. lol. Have fun!Thanks, that was really helpful. Lets just hope I can muster up the courage to actually ask him. Hahaha thanks |
| Rick 17.06.2009 15:57 |
Post a pic and we will estimate your chances. |
| Micrówave 17.06.2009 16:24 |
Rick just wants to see your cans. Post that as soon as you can, please. For Rick. |
| john bodega 19.06.2009 03:53 |
You've got nothing to worry about. You might not have even laid a finger on the guy yet but you've got him by the balls. He's the bitch in this relationship, never forget it. He might act all tough but he'll be the one crying on the phone at 1 in the morning because he wants to see you. |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 19.06.2009 06:17 |
Zebonka12 wrote: You've got nothing to worry about. You might not have even laid a finger on the guy yet but you've got him by the balls. He's the bitch in this relationship, never forget it. He might act all tough but he'll be the one crying on the phone at 1 in the morning because he wants to see you. is that the voice of experience? lol ;-] |
| john bodega 20.06.2009 09:09 |
Don't be fucking RIDICULOUS. I hang up before I start crying. |
| thomasquinn 32989 20.06.2009 09:25 |
Zebonka12 wrote: Don't be fucking RIDICULOUS.I hang up before I start crying. Unless, of course, she beats you to it. |
| john bodega 20.06.2009 09:49 |
That's absurd, I have the fastest phone hand in the West. |
| Mr Mercury 27.06.2009 06:06 |
JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: *blows raspberry at Tijn* see what i mean about me being wonderful lol i need more mirrors,i obviously dont have enough :-] Mac Davis must have wrote this song about you then Joxer Oh Lord Its Hard To Be Humble LOL |
| Mr Mercury 27.06.2009 06:07 |
ooooops!! |
| Mr Mercury 27.06.2009 06:08 |
Double oopssss!! |
| JoxerTheDeityPirate 27.06.2009 07:05 |
Mr Mercury wrote:but im doing the best that i can..JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: *blows raspberry at Tijn* see what i mean about me being wonderful lol i need more mirrors,i obviously dont have enough :-]Mac Davis must have wrote this song about you then Joxer Oh Lord Its Hard To Be Humble LOL its the burden i must live with :-] |
