| kimmithee 09.01.2007 11:08 |
....about something....my friend asked if my boyfriend and i did anything yet.....and i wonder if its the right time to do it.. |
| Ale Solan 09.01.2007 11:13 |
The point is if your boyfriend wants to do it with you. If I was him, I wouldn't. |
| Rick 09.01.2007 12:27 |
To do what? |
| Deacon Fan 09.01.2007 12:35 |
Haha.. don't you watch Desperate Housewives? This just came up this week. Andrew's advice was: guys need sex, so if he's not getting it from you, he's getting it somewhere. hahaha But anyway, no.. don't do anything at your age. If your guy is worth keeping, he'll understand that you want to wait. If he pressures you, dump the bastard. And as for your friends.. simply tell them it's none of their business. Keep it a mystery :) And for heaven's sake, if you do lose the battle and do something.. be safe! Make him wear a condom. If not you could get some horrible disease, or worse.. a nasty little alien creature will grow inside of you until it pops out. Then it cries and shits and demands to be fed. And you're legally obligated to give up your life for 18 years to raise the thing. It's like prison, but with even less sleep. |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 09.01.2007 12:39 |
Bubbles the bunny wrote: a nasty little alien creature will grow inside of you until it pops out.LMAO!!!!! ALIENS!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D |
| Gratzi 09.01.2007 12:50 |
It's a bit too early, wouldn't you say??? At your age I would definitely say no! I am aware that there is an enormous amount of pressure... especially in The States... but if you feel ready... well... it's your life!!! Good luck - whatever you decide!!!:-) |
| AspiringPhilosophe 09.01.2007 12:59 |
OK...let's think about this here...you are 15 years old, according to your profile. First off, that's statutory rape because you aren't of the age of legal consent, so if either set of parents found out, you could get him arrested and put on a sexual offender list, even if it was consentual sex. Second...YES! YOU ARE FAR TOO YOUNG to even be THINKING about this stuff. Nothing good can come of it at your age..only ill things. Even if you are lucky enough not to get pregnant or get an STD, do you honestly think that your boyfriend will stay with you forever? When he leaves (as is inevitable probably at this age) you will be hurt because you gave him something that you can never have back, and it was a sign of trust, that he will dash to pieces. So if the physical problems with this aren't enough to convince you not to do it, think about the emotional pain that will be involved if you do that and then he leaves. Despite what popular culture likes to believe, sex is not a right of passage or something that should be given away for nothing. I'm not arguing that it needs to be relegated to the bonds of marriage, but both people need to be mature enough to understand the risks involved and, more importantly, to be able to deal with teh consequences of the actions, should they arise. No matter how mature you think you are, trust me, you aren't mature enough for this. Sex should be an act of ultimate love and trust between two people, mature enough to understand the significance of the act; this significance explains why it hurts so bad when the relationship ends if sex has occured between the two people. There is a belief out there, among people your age that everyone at your age is doing it...trust me, they aren't. It's just an illusion brought on by pop culture and the wishings of horny teenagers. Don't do it...not only is it not worth the pain and consequences that might result, but there are more important things that you should be worrying about. However, this doesn't mean that you should be worrying about what others think of you. They aren't thinking about you at all...they are too worried about what others think of them to think about others. |
| unknown 09.01.2007 13:12 |
Totally agree CMU HistoryGirl; wise words (for real). |
| sparrow 21754 09.01.2007 16:21 |
<b><font color=B22222>daria wrote: Totally agree CMU HistoryGirl; wise words (for real).highly agreed. society has taught us to be little sluts as something good, rise above the pressure! treasure what you have, its very important.plus in the end, guys respect that, and most even think its cute if youre a virgin ;-) plus its your private life, its called a private life for a reason. as someone said, if theres ANY pressure at all, hes not worth your time and effort. i hate seeing girls change their lives and everything for one boy that will more than likely leave you once he gets what he wants. its up to you tho. just be safe about it, no aliens XD. and hey you dissed my birthday, *waits for apology* :P |
| Carol! the Musical 09.01.2007 16:42 |
CMU HistoryGirl wrote: YOU ARE FAR TOO YOUNG to even be THINKING about this stuff.I agree wiv everything but this... I mean- she'd be better off thinking of it than putting the thoughts into actions at that age. Kimmithee: I don't think any bad can come from thinking about it. Just don't go get yerself knocked up. That can definetely wait. :0 |
| user name 09.01.2007 16:55 |
I'm guessing that means he didn't get anything for Christmas or his birthday. |
| deleted user 09.01.2007 17:02 |
This is disgusting. It really is. I'm TURNING 15 in about 20 days....and I, personally, would NEVER even CONSIDER such things! What the hell?! Sex...at 15. That is young. FAR too young. And why the hell would you seek opinions about such a personal thing HERE...on THIS FORUM!? I seriously don't understand you. and I agree with EVERYTHING that CMUHistory Girl said. You're basically, kind of throwing your life away. I'm still shocked. Thoughts like this...shouldn't even be on your MIND right now. You seriously need to focus on school more...and don't listen to friends. Friends can be SO stupid at times. UGH. |
| magicalfreddiemercury 09.01.2007 17:15 |
<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote: I'm guessing that means he didn't get anything for Christmas or his birthday.LOL! |
| Queenluv4Life 09.01.2007 17:34 |
if you ask me... i also think that you are waaaay too young. i mean your 15?! shouldnt you be worried about NORMAL teenage stuff? |
| Mr.Jingles 09.01.2007 17:40 |
CMU HistoryGirl wrote: YOU ARE FAR TOO YOUNG to even be THINKING about this stuff.I think we all thought about it when we were 15. The only problem is that back then most of us didn't have anyone to do it with. I'm going to have to agree with most girls here in this forum. 15 is indeed too soon especially if the relationship is still new. Yet, if your boyfriend seems desperate, then buy him a bottle of KY and some porn. |
| deleted user 09.01.2007 17:42 |
<fontc=hotpink>QueenLuv4life</font> wrote: if you ask me... i also think that you are waaaay too young. i mean your 15?! shouldnt you be worried about NORMAL teenage stuff?Unfortunately...some people think that sex IS a normal teenage thing. :S |
| brENsKi 09.01.2007 17:43 |
if you need to ask other people's opinion on whether you should...then you are definitely way too young... - maturity-wise...if you are not adult enough to make the decision for yourself - then you clearly are not adult enough - full stop |
| Mr.Jingles 09.01.2007 17:46 |
Bubbles the bunny wrote: And for heaven's sake, if you do lose the battle and do something.. be safe! Make him wear a condom. If not you could get some horrible disease, or worse.. a nasty little alien creature will grow inside of you until it pops out. Then it cries and shits and demands to be fed. And you're legally obligated to give up your life for 18 years to raise the thing. It's like prison, but with even less sleep.18 years of hell seem to be the appropiate punishment for 18 minutes of naughty fun. |
| deleted user 09.01.2007 18:03 |
The "everyone is doing it - why aren't I doing it yet ?" mentality is a few cards short of a castle. Let's see... it's not just a rumour - most kids in the town where I live go to "parties" and drink (and occasionally do drugs). Every year so far, one or more people have died due to something drunk-driving related. And girls go and get pregnant (accidentally, of course). My mom never put an age on when I could / should have sex. She just said it was different for everyone and I would know "when". I don't think that just because someone asked a question - that was, by the way, none of their fucking business - that you should start wondering. You're fifteen - even though with proper birth control (the pill, spermicide, condom, et cetera) - it's never 100% - ladies who have had their "tubes tied" have even got preggers (though that's an exception, really). I'm not saying this to scare you. I'm saying this because right now you are dependent on your parents, and you need to think through all the possibilities. If you're really considering "going active" - talk to your parents or a doctor if you can about getting birth control pills or something. And use a condom - they're not expensive, and if you can't afford a box of condoms, you can't afford sex (and certainly not medical treatment for an STD or a baby). I think sex is a healthy and normal thing. But it can be dangerous if you're stupid about it. Have you and your boyfriend been tested for anything ? You both may be "pretty sure", but you never know. I think you can get this done free some places, even. I mean, if you've both never had sex or done drugs (needles !), it's not likely, but it's possible. And it never hurts to be safe (unless you consider an occasional blood test to much "pain" to prevent a HUGE problem). And I agree with Brenski - if you're asking weird Internet people who don't know you if you should have sex - based on nothing more than age and what someone said to you, you're not ready. |
| Queenluv4Life 09.01.2007 18:11 |
<font color="0000FF">Thing #1<h6>hehe :D wrote:its sad that people think like that. ;_;<fontc=hotpink>QueenLuv4life</font> wrote: if you ask me... i also think that you are waaaay too young. i mean your 15?! shouldnt you be worried about NORMAL teenage stuff?Unfortunately...some people think that sex IS a normal teenage thing. :S |
| Carol! the Musical 09.01.2007 18:14 |
<fontc=hotpink>QueenLuv4life</font> wrote:Thinking about it is normal. :/<font color="0000FF">Thing #1<h6>hehe :D wrote:its sad that people think like that. ;_;<fontc=hotpink>QueenLuv4life</font> wrote: if you ask me... i also think that you are waaaay too young. i mean your 15?! shouldnt you be worried about NORMAL teenage stuff?Unfortunately...some people think that sex IS a normal teenage thing. :S |
| user name 09.01.2007 18:40 |
The rule is this: If you have to ask, then no.
<font color=red>The Audacity of Charles wrote: Have you and your boyfriend been tested for anything?Have you been tested? The only way for a fifteen year old girl to have sex is in secret. Probably in some moldy basement after her boyfriend rides his bike (or perhaps tricycle) to her house. You can't really expect a kid like that to be able to get tested for a disease, or even to know how. Therefore, once again, the answer is no. |
| Queenluv4Life 09.01.2007 19:06 |
<font color=660066>Pomponias<h6>4711 wrote:<fontc=hotpink>QueenLuv4life</font> wrote:Thinking about it is normal. :/<font color="0000FF">Thing #1<h6>hehe :D wrote:its sad that people think like that. ;_;<fontc=hotpink>QueenLuv4life</font> wrote: if you ask me... i also think that you are waaaay too young. i mean your 15?! shouldnt you be worried about NORMAL teenage stuff?yeah but not about really doing it at the age of 15. Unfortunately...some people think that sex IS a normal teenage thing. :S |
| blerp 09.01.2007 22:17 |
<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote: Probably in some moldy basement after her boyfriend rides his bike (or perhaps tricycle) to her house.HA. sorry, i got a real bang out of that |
| Lester Burnham 09.01.2007 23:15 |
<font color=>LadyMercury wrote:You're only 16, you shouldn't be banging anything!<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote: Probably in some moldy basement after her boyfriend rides his bike (or perhaps tricycle) to her house.HA. sorry, i got a real bang out of that |
| user name 09.01.2007 23:25 |
Lester Burnham wrote:Except a hammer. THIS hammer.<font color=>LadyMercury wrote:You're only 16, you shouldn't be banging anything!<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote: Probably in some moldy basement after her boyfriend rides his bike (or perhaps tricycle) to her house.HA. sorry, i got a real bang out of that I suppose that joke doesn't work on an internet forum. |
| iGSM 10.01.2007 00:28 |
I understand. I got the joke. |
| eenaweena 10.01.2007 08:22 |
don't do it. i'm 15. you know how bad this makes other 15 year olds look? well, no, not really. but go ahead, do it. you'll regret it for the rest of your life. |
| Ale Solan 10.01.2007 09:32 |
iGSM wrote: I understand. I got the joke.No, you didn't. You... mister Jokes... Understander. |
| Freya is quietly judging you. 10.01.2007 09:42 |
Jesus, I've never met a bunch of so many anti-sex people in my life. (Just to clarify, I'm not suggesting that 15 year olds should have sex.) |
| magicalfreddiemercury 10.01.2007 09:50 |
<b><font color=009966>?Freya? wrote: Jesus, I've never met a bunch of so many anti-sex people in my life. (Just to clarify, I'm not suggesting that 15 year olds should have sex.)To me it seems less anti-sex and more do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do... or did... as the case may be. |
| Raf 10.01.2007 09:55 |
The only ones who'll know when it's time to get laid are you and your boyfriend. When both of you WANT it and feel ready for it, do it. If you're unsure, then don't do it. |
| AspiringPhilosophe 10.01.2007 10:37 |
Just by posting her thoughts on it here "is it the right time?" it proves that she's having doubts. Therefore, she isn't ready for it. |
| Rick 10.01.2007 10:51 |
Shouldn't we direct her to another place? Oh wait a sec.. Freddie Sex Nevermind, stay here. |
| kimmithee 10.01.2007 11:00 |
well i'm not sure what the hell to do because you guys are giving me all this advice and.....yeah... |
| Raf 10.01.2007 11:08 |
kimmithee wrote: well i'm not sure what the hell to do because you guys are giving me all this advice and.....yeah...Kimmy, there's no "right time" to have sex. If you're unsure whether you should do it or not, then don't do it. When both you and your boyfriend really want to do it, then do it :) And make him wear a condom, of course ;) |
| kimmithee 10.01.2007 11:10 |
so basically your saying whenever we're ready? |
| Raf 10.01.2007 11:21 |
kimmithee wrote: so basically your saying whenever we're ready?Pretty much. But if you're asking for opinions, maybe you aren't ready yet. |
| FreMe 10.01.2007 13:06 |
Bubbles the bunny wrote: But anyway, no.. don't do anything at your age.She's 15! If she feels readdy then it's time, if not then wait for god sakes. Stuff like that doesn't have a shit to do with how old you are, but if you feel readdy for it and does it for the right reasons. |
| Poo, again 10.01.2007 13:49 |
This has probably been said before, but I'll say it again just to be sure. "STDs are like Pokémon, you're not cool unless you've caught them all." - Unknown |
| user name 10.01.2007 15:24 |
I've said it once, and I'll say it again: If you have to ask, then no. And this is coming from a person who believes that sex is the best thing since...well, it'd have to be sex, wouldn't it? |
| Lester Burnham 10.01.2007 15:26 |
Guys hate prudes. No doubt your boyfriend will become sexually frustrated and cheat on you with a friend of his who's willing to put out. But when he forgets to use protection and she's not on the pill, you'll be honored when they ask you to be the child's godmother. |
| user name 10.01.2007 15:32 |
Lester Burnham wrote: Guys hate prudes. No doubt your boyfriend will become sexually frustrated and cheat on you with a friend of his who's willing to put out. But when he forgets to use protection and she's not on the pill, you'll be honored when they ask you to be the child's godmother.Guys hate prudes and love virgins. So act like a slut and don't have sex, and you're in the money. |
| Lester Burnham 10.01.2007 15:35 |
<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote:It's a win-win situation for everyone! Well, except for the guy who won't get any from her, which leads to blue balls and then immense depression that he wasted all his time on her when he could've been with the other girl who told him repeatedly that he likes her, but nooooooo he still remained hopeful for the first girl!!!!Lester Burnham wrote: Guys hate prudes. No doubt your boyfriend will become sexually frustrated and cheat on you with a friend of his who's willing to put out. But when he forgets to use protection and she's not on the pill, you'll be honored when they ask you to be the child's godmother.Guys hate prudes and love virgins. So act like a slut and don't have sex, and you're in the money. ...not that I know... |
| deleted user 10.01.2007 15:42 |
<font color=pink>Account Deleted wrote: This has probably been said before, but I'll say it again just to be sure. "STDs are like Pokémon, you're not cool unless you've caught them all." - Unknownmmm hmm....lol XD ....and I must say....I'm still pretty disgusted by this topic...Bottom line: It's just WAAAAY too early of an age. It'll hurt you mentally. 15.....ugh. I wouldn't... D: |
| kimmithee 11.01.2007 10:59 |
ummmm....ok......whatever i'll think about it...and....um...yeah....well i think i'm going to |
| Donna13 11.01.2007 12:09 |
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| AspiringPhilosophe 11.01.2007 12:21 |
Alink Donna13. But in the end, it's her choice. We've offered our advice, and that's the most we can do. It's her decision. As it sounds like she's going to do it anyway, then at least when she is hurt and things all go to hell in this circumstance, our conscious' will be clear because we did all we could to prevent the pain that she WILL experience through this stupidity. No sense in us worrying about it. If she comes crying to all of us if she gets pregnant, gets an STD or when her boyfriend breaks up with her, then that's it. We all tried to warn her... |
| user name 11.01.2007 13:57 |
Well, her boyfriend WILL break up with her, or vice-versa...it's just a matter of time. |
| deleted user 11.01.2007 14:32 |
Well... Just remember - in the kind of school you're in at fifteen, this can spread around (and I don't mean STDs). Sure, this never really stops when people "grow up" - but most of the people your age aren't as ready to deal with having your ex-boyfriend having told people you're bad in bed or who goes and tells his friends all about what you did. You might also want to talk to people about how sex effected their relationship. Depending on how you both "deal with it", there are a lot of people who break up because of it (or because how it "changed" something). And I'm not being hypocritical here. I'm seventeen and I haven't had sex. Funny thing is, when I was about fifteen was when I wanted to have it the most. Now, I really just don't care. Sure, I think about it, but I've been "thinking about it" since I was nine years old (and that's not me trying to be funny). I'm certainly not planning on "saving myself" for marriage. Sure, I know people much younger than myself that have had sex - and it's a chance they take, some end up fine, some end up really messed up. What am I "waiting" for ? I'm waiting for an age where I'm not legally dependant on my parents. Where I wouldn't be having sex in someone's basement or bathroom or the middle of the woods getting prickers on my bum. Basically, I'm "waiting" for a time when I won't have to worry about what my parents will think or do (because, as far as I have witnessed, they have a way of finding out, or at least suspecting). But what I DO KNOW is where to get tested for STDs, where they sell condoms (and hand out free ones), the laws in my state if I wanted to get birth-control pills, and all my options. If you're going to have sex, it's more than worth it to be prepared. Especially if you're doing it at an age when you can't really afford to have children. GET TESTED. GET CONDOMS. There's more you can do - but those are pretty easy. If you can't afford to protect yourself that way - you are NOT ready for sex. |
| .DeaconJohn. 11.01.2007 14:44 |
"....about something....my friend asked if my boyfriend and i did anything yet.....and i wonder if its the right time to do it.. " - if you need to ask, then it's not the right time. |
| deleted user 11.01.2007 15:14 |
CMU HistoryGirl wrote: OK...let's think about this here...you are 15 years old, according to your profile. First off, that's statutory rape because you aren't of the age of legal consent,I agree with you for the most part, but I would just like to point out that the age of legal consent is 15 and older, so it would not be considered rape. |
| magicalfreddiemercury 11.01.2007 15:20 |
<font color=space>sweden_man wrote:And if he's under the age of 18 it doesn't count as rape, either, correct? Or am I completely off track here?CMU HistoryGirl wrote: OK...let's think about this here...you are 15 years old, according to your profile. First off, that's statutory rape because you aren't of the age of legal consent,I agree with you for the most part, but I would just like to point out that the age of legal consent is 15 and older, so it would not be considered rape. |
| blerp 11.01.2007 15:46 |
kimmithee wrote: ummmm....ok......whatever i'll think about it...and....um...yeah....well i think i'm going toOnly cos you want to get something done and tell your friends Well, I'm supposing that by your slightly annoying response, I mean, you asked the damned question, so you're going to get answers. |
| deleted user 11.01.2007 16:04 |
magicalfreddiemercury wrote:It depends on where you live...<font color=space>sweden_man wrote:And if he's under the age of 18 it doesn't count as rape, either, correct? Or am I completely off track here?CMU HistoryGirl wrote: OK...let's think about this here...you are 15 years old, according to your profile. First off, that's statutory rape because you aren't of the age of legal consent,I agree with you for the most part, but I would just like to point out that the age of legal consent is 15 and older, so it would not be considered rape. link "If you and your partner are both UNDER the age of consent, neither of you can legally consent to sex and under the law, you are both committing an offence in having sex (although this type of offence is rarely charged)." I don't know what state she lives in, but she should probably look into it... --- DIRECTED AT KIMMITHEE : Age of consent list : link READ THIS : link Yeah. Whatever. There's a time when I just have to give up on people. |
| user name 11.01.2007 19:04 |
<font color=red>The Audacity of Charles wrote: There's a time when I just have to give up on people.Let's not consider it "giving up" on her. Rather, anticipating her new life as a slut! |
| AspiringPhilosophe 11.01.2007 22:59 |
<font color=space>sweden_man wrote:That depends on the state. In mine, for example, the age of consent is 16. So depending on where she is...that is statutory rapeCMU HistoryGirl wrote: OK...let's think about this here...you are 15 years old, according to your profile. First off, that's statutory rape because you aren't of the age of legal consent,I agree with you for the most part, but I would just like to point out that the age of legal consent is 15 and older, so it would not be considered rape. |
| sparrow 21754 11.01.2007 23:57 |
<font color=>LadyMercury wrote:you can tell shes not the most mature person on earth. doesnt seem like she put alot of response in. now i have to say, i think she just wants us all to keep posting on this to give her attention, by that response.kimmithee wrote: ummmm....ok......whatever i'll think about it...and....um...yeah....well i think i'm going toOnly cos you want to get something done and tell your friends Well, I'm supposing that by your slightly annoying response, I mean, you asked the damned question, so you're going to get answers. by the annoying response she definatly proved her IQ, it doesnt seem like she put much thought into it. im no longer wasting my time with this chick. she still owes an apology from my birthday thread anyway. no i havent forgotten. |
| kimmithee 12.01.2007 11:19 |
no i dont want attention!!!!i'm just askin for advice, ok?!?!?!.....and i am sorry for the what happened on your bday thread...seriously |
| user name 12.01.2007 23:27 |
kimmithee wrote: no i dont want attention!!!!i'm just askin for advice, ok?!?!?!.....and i am sorry for the what happened on your bday thread...seriouslySo...are you a slut yet? And...do you do birthday parties? |
| kimmithee 22.01.2007 11:25 |
no no and no i'm not a fucking slut! |
| sparrow 21754 22.01.2007 12:46 |
<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote:i mentioned my bday thread cuz she pretty much said she didnt care or something...tactless. it was unesessary.kimmithee wrote: no i dont want attention!!!!i'm just askin for advice, ok?!?!?!.....and i am sorry for the what happened on your bday thread...seriouslySo...are you a slut yet? And...do you do birthday parties? |
| user name 22.01.2007 12:50 |
kimmithee wrote: no no and no i'm not a fucking slut!Then you're saying you didn't do it with him yet. Or are you...LYING!? |
| sparrow 21754 22.01.2007 12:54 |
well just cuz she does it with her boyfriends doesnt mean shes a slut. a slut sleeps around with anyone. if its one person then whatever, as long as shes not stupid about it. |
| kimmithee 25.01.2007 11:26 |
just because i'm thinking bout doin sumthin with my boyfriend doesnt mean i sleep roud with every guy in my fuckin school!!!!! or around town |
| user name 25.01.2007 13:24 |
Sparrow wrote: well just cuz she does it with her boyfriends doesnt mean shes a slut. a slut sleeps around with anyone. if its one person then whatever, as long as shes not stupid about it.You seriously misunderstand the point of "busting one's chops." But as for a slut, by popular vote, a slut could be: A) Like you said, a promiscuous girl. (high potential for those who check C; B does not apply, as promiscuous girls never get in real relationships) B) A girl who has intercourse early in a relationship. (checkmark here) C) A girl who has intercourse early in her life. (checkmark here) D) A girl who has several monogamous relationships in a short amount of time, whilst having sex with each partner, or at least most of them. (high potential for those who checked B and C) E) A girl who has sex outside of a relationship. |
| deleted user 25.01.2007 19:32 |
<b><font color=666600>Music Man wrote: You seriously misunderstand the point of "busting one's chops." But as for a slut, by popular vote, a slut could be: A) Like you said, a promiscuous girl. (high potential for those who check C; B does not apply, as promiscuous girls never get in real relationships) B) A girl who has intercourse early in a relationship. (checkmark here) C) A girl who has intercourse early in her life. (checkmark here) D) A girl who has several monogamous relationships in a short amount of time, whilst having sex with each partner, or at least most of them. (high potential for those who checked B and C) E) A girl who has sex outside of a relationship.To bit a bit "philosophical" and somewhat outside of the original point of this thread... I don't see anything wrong with a woman having a sex drive. I KNOW this probably wasn't your point. And I do agree that there are some stupid things people can do ("too early" - or sleeping around when in a relationship where the other person trusts you not to). I have ideas on WHY it isn't equal for what sort of sexual promiscuity is "allowed" for women as opposed to men - the woman being the "mother" who would have to raise the children and make sure they didn't get eaten by wild things before they could fend for themselves and the man going about and boinking as many as possible to give a greater chance that some of his offspring would survive... But I still don't like it. : / I just don't like it when I read or hear guys saying, "I would date a slut - but she wouldn't be the one I would take home". Obviously, the guy has "been around" - having dated these "sluts". Why does he expect his future wife to be a virgin ? Can't girls have a period of sexual activity that will most likely "settle down". (I HAVE heard guys who have "been around" claim they would like their future wife to be a virgin). Was there a point to this ? Probably not. But I don't really want to get into any personal opinions - because I know my little brother comes to this site once in a blue moon, and I'm fairly certain he would be a little shit about it. |