QueenZone discussion #638167

JamieSureWould wrote: oh of course ill be nice to them i dont think i would know what to say i would just be standing there in awe like with my arms out like i love you! Brian May's my hero!! And thank you for the best of wishes to meeting them. well since im new to this concert stalking the band members type thing ill just try and figure it out myself if no one wants to tell a 14 year old new concert goer to the Queen concert circut because they are selfish and want them to themselves. Thats pretty selfish and ide have to say im prettyy selfish and this is the only thing ive been sure of(me meeting Brian May in person its my dream ((kinda pathetic isnt that??))). but thanks deacons 1st choice that helped me have a different light on the subject and how act when they are given knowledge

zaiga wrote: - Mysterious blobs on photographs

Mr. Scully wrote: Miss Bea Haven's advice is excellent, listen to her. Basically don't behave like an idiot and run to Brian screaming "Briiiaaaan". Be calm and patient, shake hands, talk a bit. Don't give stupid presents. Don't wait at the venue - it's senseless. Find their hotel.

Lisser wrote:

Mr. Scully wrote: Miss Bea Haven's advice is excellent, listen to her. Basically don't behave like an idiot and run to Brian screaming "Briiiaaaan". Be calm and patient, shake hands, talk a bit. Don't give stupid presents. Don't wait at the venue - it's senseless. Find their hotel.

I'm going to give him my underwear. Is that a stupid present? ;)

iron eagle wrote: excellent post my dear i too have seen it and most ,out of fairness, i dont believe realize how bad it actually comes across i remember at club ivar a person stepped in front of me while i was taking to the curly one-- had three guitar face plates, several albums, several 45 sleeves and a couple mags.... that was just for B.... list was even more with R the person had so much stuff he could barely keep it in his arms... patiently,,,, it was all signed.... B said paul i am sorry i have to go... i said no problem see you soon 45 minutes later he came back.. totally frazzled from the award, the press interviews, the big wigs the fans... like second nature he held his hand out expecting me to hand him something... i said dont have a thing my friend.. how bout a rain check.... he put a big smile on his face winked at ray and said a rain check it is...

JamieSureWould wrote: russel that doesnttt helpppppppppp no for eveyone esle please answer this question seriously

Munchsack wrote: "If I meet Brian I'm stealing his hair." All of it? Do you want some help carrying it home?

Miss Bea Haven wrote: It was about a hundred years ago and we were in the same elevator. See - coincidence!

Deacons 1st Choice wrote: Yes, whatever you do don't touch his hair...or any other part of him for the matter unless : A- You are offered it ( as in a handshake..) or B-He asks for it ( as in wanting a hug, etc.) Those are some unwritten rules when it comes to "touching". I am reminded of something unsightly i experienced while attending the WWRY Las Vegas Premiere Aftershow Party. Brian was strolling about in the crowd several times during the course of the evening and was greeted by a whole spectrum of different responding fans. One of them in particular stands out in my mind to this day. There was this woman maybe in her late 20's/early 30's who followed him to a point when she had the chance to place herself in his path and then started gushing in typical amored style all the while rubbing her hands on his chest! Now THAT was uncalled for in my book...and i still get a sick feeling in my stomach when i think back to that....i felt so awful for Brian. He was no doubt slightly embarrassed by it all. The PA's and security folks who were with him had to literally prye this woman off him! Sick sick sick.... That's a extreme example....but it really helps put things into perspective when it comes to realizing what celebrities have to put up with on a daily basis. It must be a serious drag at times....i can totally understand. Brian has commented numerous times in the past about how he often does'nt enjoy experiences "..when my fame gets in the way." How true when you consider some of the extreme cases! I think we've all been "THAT Fan" in the beginning. We're so overly giddy and in some cases desperate to make a impact and meet them that we lose all sight of common sense. We've all made the same "mistakes" but with experience comes knowledge. When B and R are out doing promo work, or making appearences as themselves, then they are playing the part. They are "Brian" and "Roger" for that time being..and they are more apt to do the celeb things like pose for photos and sign bits of paper. When they are NOT doing the above, and are maybe out at a resturant for Dinner, or perhaps at the park with the family, then they are not to be bothered as they are now "regular Joe's" like us and wish not to be harrassed during there private time. So i guess you can say that your TIMING must be in tune as well if you wish to experience a memorable meet n' greet. It should be a good experience for BOTH of you basicially....keep this is mind and in general it will be a win/win situation almost everytime. I find the best advice is to "ask for nothing" and see the return. As i stated earlier, rewards come to those who ask for none. :)

Deacons 1st Choice wrote: So Jamie....how did you make out in NJ? ANy luck? You asked about the Las Vegas Aftershow...how i managed to be a part of that. Simple answer....i was invited! :) I was at the NJ Aftershow as well.

Deacons 1st Choice wrote: When you have been in the spotlight for as long as Brian has, signing things gets very tedious after so many years of scribbling! He usually does not like to sign things before a show ( wears too heavily on his delicate playing hand) and quite often the act of signing leaves him cold. In his mind, it puts a distance between him and the individual he is meeting....instead of actually "meeting" someone, it has become nothing more but a "gimmie" fest. I'm not saying ALL signing experiences are like this....just the majority when it comes to meeting him in public.

MyHammerIsFalling wrote: My opinion...just admire from the sidelines, enjoy the music, and let that be that...to be honest, it would be memorable for me if I knew once I met him he would remember me and our chat, but with so many fans, he can't possibly, so let the magic be as it will by enjoying the concert...

Deacons 1st Choice wrote:

MyHammerIsFalling wrote: My opinion...just admire from the sidelines, enjoy the music, and let that be that...to be honest, it would be memorable for me if I knew once I met him he would remember me and our chat, but with so many fans, he can't possibly, so let the magic be as it will by enjoying the concert...

Well said....and you have a good point. Many times i hear of people meeting "celebrties" and being dissapointed. They discover that the person they percieved as being a certain character turns out to be nothing like they were expecting. I've heard of this many times....and it leads you to beleive that in some cases perhaps it's best to just that: look from the sidelines. I am sure some Queen fans have had similar experiences with B and R over the years. There will always be things that they will be "expected" to do by some folks, but in all honesty there is no way B and R live up to everyones possible expectations. no offense ment to them at all...they are both wonderful with the fans they meet. It's usually the "fans" that don't know how to behave that get disspaointed. They expect too much...or go in thinking they are the only ones. I know the feeling....i was there once. There is no real answer i guess.... My advice is to use your head, and just remember that they are just like us "commoners". I think this is a healthy way of approaching it. I know quite often they prefer to be on the same level as fans, and not "above" them on some sort of pedestal. Brian is a good example. I think he would rather have a quiet drink and a small chat with someone then be behind a velvet rope with the spotlight glaring at him. Just my thoughts.....:)

Deacons 1st Choice wrote: Paul....nice story. Thanks for sharing. Yes, i can see exactly where you are coming from...such a tough choice! Personally if it was me, i would have probably stayed backstage and tried to make some sort of arrangement to view the show from there if at all possible. My thinking would have been that here's a opportunity not many get and seeing a show from the front is more common...though in the case of the 4664 show, that was indeed a one-off! Very hard choice.....i'm glad you made the right desicion for yourself. My story...well, forgive me if i seem secretive, but then again us Deacons' would'nt be a Deacon without our little secrets now would we be? :) In all seriousness.....what i stated in a previous post pretty much says it all- Ask for nothing and you often end up with wonders. I have had a few experiences that were very special to me. I felt honoured to be a part of them. I was at the WWRY Las Vegas Premiere last year which was probably one of the most incredible experiences i have ever had to date. As a guest i was witness to the wonderful show, as well as the aftershow party where Brian, Roger and many famous friends put on a amazing intimate gig. I have many, many special memories of that night. There's so much i could say right now but it's probably best that i don't. It's not really something i talk about...it's a private thing in a way. Hope you understand, it's nothing personal or anything! Being there at the right time helps....and getting involved within the Queen network of fans can help you as well. Getting to know serious Queen enthusiests is a plus...you can learn so much from them. Some have much to tell but will only share this info with those they deem "worthy". Get to know some folks....you will enjoy the company! Part of the fun of being a Queen Fan is meeting the other fans! My story? Well, hard to answer but put simply over many years time i have been involved in the Queen community here and there. I've met a lot of people in my travels and some of them have shared valuable insight and information with me. I am grateful to them, one person in particular, for they helped me achieve a personal dream. Things start small, but when properly nurtured, they can grow into something wonderful. Keep reaching for that dream and you will make it happen. Remember, you can't keep wishing and hoping your dream will come true...you have to MAKE it happen! :)