allowed to live like my X who never gave a fuck about his kid 8 yrs later but is fighting me in court for access yet my cousin who has alittle girl herself has been given 6 months to live at the young age of 32:-(
Well done Barry! I am all for Fathers being physically involved as much as possible in their childrens' lives. It can only be for the best if the Father is a good contribution and protects the children. My soon to be exhusband is a good dad when he has the kids. I do not worry about my children at all when they are with him. Unfortunately he doesn't really want to be bothered by them now. He uses lots of excuses on why he can only see them here and there. The biggest excuse he uses is his work but I work too, so do most people. He doesn't help me financially at all either. Soon he will have to though. Things will be a lot better for the kids once he contributes more.
It's a crappy situation any way you look at it. I just try and make the most out of it and look at the positives rather than the negatives.