| lifetimefanofqueen 23.10.2010 18:45 |
when i feel down, which is all the time, always feel like takeing loads of my medication which is anti-depressants, is that normal? and shoulr i get this cheakced out because its freakin me out now, i got a REALY burning urge to go take more pills, but im scared it will turn into an uncontrolable addiction, do u think i should tell someone about this? like a shrink or a doctor? and plz dont post negative stuff on here, ive got enough beatin it up without people im askin for help makeing it 1o times worse, |
| inu-liger 23.10.2010 21:24 |
I think some of us have already told you to go seek professional help previously, but you scoffed at us for being "negative" and told us to fuck off last time we said so... |
| lifetimefanofqueen 24.10.2010 06:48 |
inu-liger wrote: I think some of us have already told you to go seek professional help previously, but you scoffed at us for being "negative" and told us to fuck off last time we said so... yeah well some people on here are nice, and i thought since there are so many people here it would be good to ask and see what people suggest, i only said fuck off because some people were annoyin me and makein me feel worse which is the last thing that i need right now |
| thomasquinn 32989 24.10.2010 07:31 |
The last thing you need right now is to hang around on a forum all day posting nonsense and self-pity. If you really think you have a problem, go see a doctor. If not, go see a doctor about your confabulations. Those are the only two options, and if you don't want to hear them, don't ask. |
| mooghead 24.10.2010 08:36 |
Why do you post this stuff here? We are not doctors. You are an attention seeker. Use what little brains you have for common sense. |
| lifetimefanofqueen 24.10.2010 11:54 |
mooghead wrote: Why do you post this stuff here? We are not doctors. You are an attention seeker. Use what little brains you have for common sense. I CANT GO SEE A DOCTOR BECAUSE ITS NOT AS EASY AS THAT, IM NOT A FUCKING ATTENTION SEEKER, IM JUST TRYING TO GET HELP GOD DAMN IT!!!!!!!!! |
| Gregsynth 24.10.2010 12:53 |
Please see a school counselor. |
| inu-liger 24.10.2010 18:57 |
Please explain to us just why it's almost impossible for you to go see a physician? Unless there's something incredibly wrong with your local health system (which wouldn't surprise me, being a Canadian and all), I don't see what's so bloody hard about picking up a phone and making an appointment with your physician! |
| Iifetimefanofqueen 24.10.2010 19:41 |
cause i cant do it help |
| Iifetimefanofqueen 24.10.2010 19:45 |
ThomasQuinn wrote: The last thing you need right now is to hang around on a forum all day posting nonsense and self-pity. If you really think you have a problem, go see a doctor. If not, go see a doctor about your confabulations. Those are the only two options, and if you don't want to hear them, don't ask. i wanna hrre their replys |
| lifetimefanofqueen 25.10.2010 14:59 |
im scared of talking on the phone, it gives me panic attacks, and its so rare that i ever talk on the phone! and im to nervous to tell a doctor because i can never bring myself to give my point of view, i can online, but its hard in person, i dont talk much, i dont even look people in the face so how the hell can i tell someone i think im addicted to my pills if i cant look them in the face or even start a converstation! |
| mooghead 25.10.2010 16:02 |
lifetimefanofqueen wrote: im scared of talking on the phone, it gives me panic attacks, and its so rare that i ever talk on the phone! and im to nervous to tell a doctor because i can never bring myself to give my point of view, i can online, but its hard in person, i dont talk much, i dont even look people in the face so how the hell can i tell someone i think im addicted to my pills if i cant look them in the face or even start a converstation! Good answer, asking people who share the same taste in music than you is obviously the best thing to do then. I feel stupid now. Ffs. How old are you? Serious question. |
| mooghead 25.10.2010 16:03 |
And... how the FUCK do you leave a line betwen the post you are quoting and your response???? |
| The Real Wizard 25.10.2010 16:18 |
Kids these days... living in a free country with food, clean water, shelter, health, and opportunity.. and they think they have problems. Who gave you medication at age 13? Was it over the counter or with a prescription? Please, see a doctor or a counselor. Tell them you have a problem and they'll help you. They see people like you every day. |
| The Real Wizard 25.10.2010 16:20 |
mooghead wrote:
And... how the FUCK do you leave a line betwen the post you are quoting and your response????The quote function has been messed up here for months. Put the word "QUOTE" (in caps) in square brackets and finish it with "/QUOTE" in square brackets. But it will undo itself if you edit your post, so you'll have to do it again. Furthermore, the first 'enter' you press doesn't skip a line. This is probably the most unstable and under-moderated forum I've ever seen. It doesn't seem like anyone takes care of this place anymore. |
| lifetimefanofqueen 25.10.2010 16:29 |
mooghead wrote: lifetimefanofqueen wrote: im scared of talking on the phone, it gives me panic attacks, and its so rare that i ever talk on the phone! and im to nervous to tell a doctor because i can never bring myself to give my point of view, i can online, but its hard in person, i dont talk much, i dont even look people in the face so how the hell can i tell someone i think im addicted to my pills if i cant look them in the face or even start a converstation! Good answer, asking people who share the same taste in music than you is obviously the best thing to do then. I feel stupid now. Ffs. How old are you? Serious question. im 13, and what dose thats Ffs thing mean? |
| Mr Mercury 25.10.2010 18:09 |
lifetimefanofqueen wrote: and what dose thats Ffs thing mean?You mean what DOES - not "dose" ffs means For Fuck Sake..... |
| Saint Jiub 29.10.2010 23:52 |
Have you thought about talking to your parents, and having them call your doctor? What about a school counselor if you don't want to talk to your parents? You need to get help from a real person in your life, not someone you sort of know on the internet. |
| emrabt 30.10.2010 02:52 |
What about a school Counsellors if you don't want to talk to your parents? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Schools in the UK don’t have Counsellors, at least they didn't 8 or 9 years ago when i was last at school. |
| lifetimefanofqueen 30.10.2010 04:17 |
emrabt wrote: What about a school Counsellors if you don't want to talk to your parents? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Schools in the UK don’t have Counsellors, at least they didn't 8 or 9 years ago when i was last at school. they do, ive been to see one once, well, twise, but it didnt help :( it just made me feel worse |
| spandan 30.10.2010 04:47 |
You seriously do need to see a doctor, IMMEDIATELY. |
| Rick 30.10.2010 07:41 |
Please take an overdose. Please. |
| Holly2003 30.10.2010 09:27 |
Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please. ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose? There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made. |
| tcc 30.10.2010 09:39 |
Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please. ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose? There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made. I don't think you have to worry that the girl will take Rick's advice - she is too smart to be a thirteen year old ;-) |
| lifetimefanofqueen 30.10.2010 10:59 |
awwwwwwwwww, thanks tcc :) <3 |
| Rick 30.10.2010 12:05 |
Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please. ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose? There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made. I have been here since 2004, so please, don't tell me to wise up. I've seen these attention seekers come and go. It's called trolling in Internet terms. |
| Holly2003 30.10.2010 13:28 |
Rick wrote: Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please. ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose? There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made. I have been here since 2004, so please, don't tell me to wise up. I've seen these attention seekers come and go. It's called trolling in Internet terms. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- And if she's not just an attention seeker? |
| lifetimefanofqueen 30.10.2010 16:22 |
im not an attention seeker, im just realy shy, so i come online to ask for help because im to scared to say the words and to someone i dont know like a doctor its scary, i dont talk much if at all, i can talk to friends, but i cant tell them in words that i might have an addiction, so how do i tell a doctor, i suck at talkin, i cant make conversation, i cant look people in the face because im to scared, not so long ago at school if i looked anyone in the face theyd totly flip out and go crazy and tell me not to look at them because they dont want my ugly face lookin at them, so i hardly ever go out places, and i cant talk to people, or have a conversation, i get scared and go totaly blank and dont know what to say or what facial expressions to pull, i just dont understand it, i wish i did, i come and ask u guys because i thought since there are SOO many Queenzoners there must be someone on here who has been through the same as me, and i thought if theyd got out of it its a great idea to ask, it aint hurtin anyone so why do u have to flip out, im asking for help not critisisation! i always talk better online because i get to plan out what i say before saying it and i dont have to worry about tone of voice, facial expressions and all that lot, im trying to be good at converstions, but its hard, u try being picked on for years to teh point where u cant look people in they face then dare have a conversation, u loose all ability to have a conversation, and it bloody sucks! |
| GratefulFan 30.10.2010 18:31 |
lifetimefanofqueen wrote: im not an attention seeker, im just realy shy, so i come online to ask for help because im to scared to say the words and to someone i dont know like a doctor its scary, i dont talk much if at all, i can talk to friends, but i cant tell them in words that i might have an addiction, so how do i tell a doctor, i suck at talkin, i cant make conversation, i cant look people in the face because im to scared, not so long ago at school if i looked anyone in the face theyd totly flip out and go crazy and tell me not to look at them because they dont want my ugly face lookin at them, so i hardly ever go out places, and i cant talk to people, or have a conversation, i get scared and go totaly blank and dont know what to say or what facial expressions to pull, i just dont understand it, i wish i did, i come and ask u guys because i thought since there are SOO many Queenzoners there must be someone on here who has been through the same as me, and i thought if theyd got out of it its a great idea to ask, it aint hurtin anyone so why do u have to flip out, im asking for help not critisisation! i always talk better online because i get to plan out what i say before saying it and i dont have to worry about tone of voice, facial expressions and all that lot, im trying to be good at converstions, but its hard, u try being picked on for years to teh point where u cant look people in they face then dare have a conversation, u loose all ability to have a conversation, and it bloody sucks! ================================= The people here who rightly point out that they're unqualified to give you medical advice would do well to remember they're equally unqualified to diagnose you as 'an attention seeker'. I've never thought of you as that ever, and I genuinely like and appreciate most of your contributions here. I think those contributions are very often unique and interesting and fun, and in so much that all of our posts reflect us as people, that makes you unique and interesting and fun as well. Don't ever forget that. But some topics are just not usually very good for the internet, and unfortunately this is one of them. I do understand why it feels like a good idea from your perspective as you explained it beautifully, but asking about medication and use of it that sounds dangerous is going to make people really nervous and uneasy. It would be really, really irresponsible for any of us to attempt to advise you about something like this, and even though I know you don't mean to Julia, even asking puts us all in a bit of a bad spot. Both answering and not answering feels wrong, and the fact that you are young and we are adults makes it scarier because we really could get in a lot of trouble for doing or saying what turned out to be the wrong thing. I hope you might be able to trust me that while your question was really, really important, and needs to be asked for sure to one of the adults in your life at home, asking it here is just not a good idea for either you or for us. Why don't your write your question and your feelings about it in a letter form for your doctor or your parents? That way you've had a good part of the conversation already in a way that you're good at. It might make you smile to know that whether you're 13 like you, or 43 like me, there are always going to be things that are hard to do because they make you feel scared or shy or nervous. And you know what? It's never as bad as you think it's going to be and you're almost always really glad you did it. Anyway, I think it's OK for me to say that no matter what you decide to do about communicating, it's really, really important that you only use your medication exactly as it was prescribed. And if you feel it's not really helping you as prescribed, well that would be an important thing to include in your letter too. Keep rockin' Queen girl :) |
| lifetimefanofqueen 30.10.2010 20:06 |
awww, thank you greatfulfan :) some of the people on here are realy realy nice, and you are one of them along with some others who commented, thank you for the help and advise :) i realy appreatiate it so much, daym im actualy lost for words :') |
| Rick 31.10.2010 06:46 |
Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please. ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose? There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made. I have been here since 2004, so please, don't tell me to wise up. I've seen these attention seekers come and go. It's called trolling in Internet terms. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- And if she's not just an attention seeker? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Than I will take my words back. If this girl is really this instable as she implies, then she better go look for real-life help instead of starting umpteen topics in which she announces her problems. QZ is simply not he right place for psychological matters like these. Of course, she might find other people's replies helpful, although they won't solve her problem(s). In my opinion she needs people of flesh and bone in order to fully understand her situation. A shoulder to cry on. |
| thomasquinn 32989 31.10.2010 08:53 |
Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please. ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose? There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made. I have been here since 2004, so please, don't tell me to wise up. I've seen these attention seekers come and go. It's called trolling in Internet terms. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- And if she's not just an attention seeker? ====== To put it bluntly, if she wasn't an attention-seeker, she'd have killed herself weeks ago at the latest. Like Rick said, this is all such by-the-book trolling that I'm no more inclined to believe in it than in the hollow-earth theory. But, to return the original question to you, "how would you like your 13-year-old daughter to be posting sh*t like this on a web-forum?". I'll be the last to deny that this girl has issues, but they have nothing to do with substance abuse or being suicidal. The best thing that QZ can do to help her is delete her account. |
| Saint Jiub 31.10.2010 08:58 |
Please, please take Grateful Fan's advice and write a letter to your doctor or parents. |
| lifetimefanofqueen 31.10.2010 09:56 |
what the hell have i done to desreve to get my account deleted!?!?!!?!?!?!?! im just askin for help damn it!!!!!!! im not the one telling a 13 year old to kill herself am i!!!!!!!!! some of you can just be so fucking stuburn and just hear and believe what they want to hear, if u cant accept the truth that i am askin for help here then sod off, my little cry for help isnt hurting you is it, if u dont like it then tough, i dont know what else to do! why dont u read what i put and actualy listen to the real story in hand, how many times must i say this, i do not like talking to people i cant even look people in the face or have a conversation, i can talk better on here thats why i made this thread, if its realy that bad to u that u want to delete my account just grow up! |
| Rick 31.10.2010 10:41 |
I'm willing to help. My first advice: punctuation. Really, overusing exclamation marks won't make your replies more convincing whatsoever. |
| Holly2003 31.10.2010 11:33 |
Panchgani wrote: Please, please take Grateful Fan's advice and write a letter to your doctor or parents. 100% agree. |
| mooghead 31.10.2010 14:16 |
And if you carry on writing attention seeking crap on these boards expect the vitriol you deserve. Talk to Frank, ring the Samaritans, NHS Direct.... theres loads of stuff out there where you dont have to be face to face Use your brains!! (Cant believe I bit) :-( |
| lifetimefanofqueen 31.10.2010 16:30 |
a friend of mine went onto childline because we both were being bullied, (hasnt changed) and she got help from it, but because i didnt know how to use it or anythin like that, she couldnt show me at school because the school blocked the site, idk why, so i asked my mom if it would be a good idea to go on there and ask for help about the bullying like lauren did, and she said no and wouldnt let me go on there, tahts why i come here! i was worried shed check the history on my computer and be pissed off at me for it, so this was the safest thing i could think of |
| -fatty- 2850 31.10.2010 16:45 |
You can call childline from a public telephone. The number is 0800 11 11. It's free and confidential and they really can help you more than anyone on Queenzone. fatty |
| inu-liger 01.11.2010 14:47 |
I support GratefulFan's suggestion to write a letter to your doctor and parents. My girlfriend did that to someone in her family when they wouldn't give her a chance to explain stuff in person, so she wrote them an e-mail instead, and her reasoning for that was "they would be forced to listen by reading what I have to say" So there you go And P.S. For the love of god, please get a blog :-( |
| catqueen 03.11.2010 14:15 |
lifetimefan is not a troll and i dont think she's attention seeking either. She is young and vulnerable. And Rick, you can get into trouble for net bullying and abuse esp regarding minors. There is a person behind the typing and as you know lifetime fan already struggles with various issues, the last thing she needs is for an adult to tell her something like that. I mean seriously get a grip! Do you remember being 13? And how would you have felt if someone treated you with that level of contempt! I was about to say obviously it would not bother you now if someone said something like that to you, but i suspect it would -- when someone criticised your comment you came back straight away with a retort -- a response that i presume was based on an emotion that was created by that persons comment. Even if that emotion was mild annoyance, you have a way to deal with it -- you fired back a response. A 13 year old does not necessarily have the life experiences to be sure of themselves and how they are worthwhile and right. And a 13 year old has not yet developed either a thick enough skin or else a way to cope (such as your immediate response to criticism). I work with kids and frankly if i would hear someone make a comment like this to a minor in real life, either in work or in general life, id report them. And just because its the net doesnt make 'smart' comments like that either funny or harmless. |
| emrabt 03.11.2010 15:08 |
catqueen wrote: I work with kids and frankly if i would hear someone make a comment like this to a minor in real life, either in work or in general life, id report them. And just because its the net doesnt make 'smart' comments like that either funny or harmless. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The thing is, it's life, people WILL and DO give bad, stupid advice, lifetimequeenfan will choice to listen to whoever she wants, She has been given good advice on here, if she can't tell the difference that's her own fault. You should give her more credit. you can learn from not taking bad advice aswell you know. Hiding the wrong advice from someone is stupid, they will never learn if they don't make the choice. she’s obviously been fine with it because she’s still here and posted 5 or 10 more threads. It’s the crys for help people DON'T give that are the problems, when they feel they really have no one to Listen. Is lifetimefanofqueen a troll? Yes, but not in the way people think, she’s being over enthusiastic because it’s a defence mechanism, an act because she’s lonely, she’s lonely because she likes to be different, and isn’t comfortable with real people. everyone has felt like this at some point, those with aspersers can really relate. unfortunately the only person who can help her, is herself, deep down she knows she must face her fears. posting on queenzone will not help, it's doesn't get easier, but you learn to build up an act so you can do these things. Agoraphobia Can only be beat by being strong taking deep breaths and getting on a bus ETC. |
| lifetimefanofqueen 03.11.2010 17:45 |
thank you emrabt, catqueen, greatfulfan and everyone else who actualy helped, its realy appreatiated :) |