It was the photo they were using on the news after his death; also it was displayed at his wake (which I went to).
I know how close the two of you were, especially after he wore those shorts that were modeled after yours, but I was a bit surprised that you wore yours to the wake, but the bright yellow color did liven the place up a bit. Stay strong, Z.
People will always say that John looks old, simply because it's twenty years since we last regularly saw pics of him. If you hadn't seen Roger in twenty years and then saw a pic, you'd go 'fuck me he's aged'. It's the same with your own kids/family/friends - cos you see them everyday you don't notice them change, but they do, drastically in most cases.