QueenZone discussion #1098333

Donna13 wrote: I think your feelings are normal. It was just a shock, that's all. You will probably feel a little bit better in a few days of rest, sun if you can get it, exercise, and good food (no alcohol - it makes things worse). If you feel she is making a mistake, why not tell her. Then, at least you won't have any regrets in that respect. It was nice of her to say goodbye, in any case. Good luck.

Neinbull wrote: Get yourself together Adolfo, you'll find a better one!!! And if I may express my own opinion, about this: "Shes 19, and she is dating a 41 year old who is getting divorced and has 3 children" GOLD DIGGER

Adolfo wrote: Shes 19, and she is dating a 41 year old who is getting divorced and has 3 children.

Adolfo wrote: Shes 19, and she is dating a 41 year old who is getting divorced and has 3 children.

HistoryGirl wrote: I am sorry to hear about this, Adolfo. But she obviously has some issues, most likely dealing with self esteem and what not. The same thing happened to a good friend of mine from high school. He had a major crush on me, but I didn't feel anything but friendship for him. He totally lost it, when super-Christian and moved to Canada to marry a woman who is 35 (He was 23 at the time) who had three kids from a previous marriage. Not too long ago I heard he was getting divorced, and I got in contact with him just to tell him I was sorry and was here for him if he needed to talk. He responded back that he was going to come down to his parents house and that we should get together for coffee...or dinner...or something and told me 6 times (count them!) in the e-mail that he loved me. I responded back that I wasn't going to be able to make it down that weekend, that we could go out and have coffee some time as friends, but friends is all we would ever be. I never heard anything back after that, but I heard from his mother that he went back to this woman. I feel horrible for him, but he's obviously got issues with all of this stuff and can't accept the reality. Your ex is in the same boat...she's got herself thinking that this is going to solve all of her problems. You clearly know it isn't, but you can't force her to confront her demons. She needs to do that on her own. As hard as it is, you need to let her go and let her make her own mistakes. That is all you can do at this point. You will be fine in a couple of days. Good luck!

Adolfo wrote: My ex is leaving, shes moving to france, its been a while since we talked to each other, however I had always kept good memories bout our relationship and her personality. Yesterday she wanted to see me, so we could say goodbye to each other, which I agreed. What I found was someone who was lost, someone who looked like the person i fell for, but she wasnt there anymore. Shes 19, and she is dating a 41 year old who is getting divorced and has 3 children. I feel let down, desapointed, weird, a bit broken hearted. I know must of you dislike me, however I know there is people in here that must have a mature point of view, which I´ll appreciate. Thanks for reading

<b><font color="#FF1493">The Fairy King wrote: You're terrible in the sack dude, face it. :)

Adolfo wrote: Shes 19, and she is dating a 41 year old who is getting divorced and has 3 children.