SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 05:15 |
I keep getting these crushes and crushes can be..well.. very crushing if they are not reciprocated. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 05:24 |
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SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 05:35 |
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SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 05:45 |
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The Mir@cle 10.05.2007 05:48 |
Ah, well... just take a dive into bed. Tomorrow there's another day to waste, in which you can try as hard as possible to reach that girl. Because you SHOULD go for it! Find out what kind of girl it is and don't be afraid of anything. With nothing left to lose, there's everything to go! |
SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 06:01 |
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Sweetie 10.05.2007 07:25 |
I love Wade...and Jase... |
magicalfreddiemercury 10.05.2007 09:57 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: I'm depressed now. Why the hell am I up at 5:30 am in the morning?Because you're obsessive and suspicious. Not the most attractive traits. IMO, early intervention would be a fantastic idea. |
eenaweena 10.05.2007 10:16 |
hormones? |
SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 12:49 |
magicalfreddiemercury wrote:What does that mean? Early intervention.SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: I'm depressed now. Why the hell am I up at 5:30 am in the morning?Because you're obsessive and suspicious. Not the most attractive traits. IMO, early intervention would be a fantastic idea. Why do you say those are bad traits? How can a person not be obsessive or suspicious? |
magicalfreddiemercury 10.05.2007 14:44 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: What does that mean? Early intervention. Why do you say those are bad traits? How can a person not be obsessive or suspicious?1. Early intervention means - speak to a professional about how you feel before you take it further than internal obsession. 2. Obsession and suspicion are bad traits for reasons you should know and if you don't, then you can learn them through counseling. 3. A person can overcome obsessive or suspicious behaviours through counseling. See a pattern? What you've described feeling in your posts is not healthy - for you or your 'love' interest. You've posted several times with similar opinions and while I don't know how sincere you are, I find it disturbing. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 10.05.2007 16:17 |
Thank you for your advice but I disagree. So I get a little love-struck. Who doesn't? But they always fade away. And being a little suspicious is not bad. It's good to be a little cautious. For instance, though you only know me from my posts, you are "suspicious" that I have some problem where I need therapy. Now, do you feel you need to see a shrink for your problem? See how ridiculous you are being? I always take words of advice especially when it pertains to medical or psychiatric with a little healthy skepticism. Too many people feel they are qualified to "diagnose" people. But thanks anyway. |
magicalfreddiemercury 10.05.2007 16:37 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Thank you for your advice but I disagree. So I get a little love-struck. Who doesn't? But they always fade away. And being a little suspicious is not bad. It's good to be a little cautious. For instance, though you only know me from my posts, you are "suspicious" that I have some problem where I need therapy. Now, do you feel you need to see a shrink for your problem? See how ridiculous you are being? I always take words of advice especially when it pertains to medical or psychiatric with a little healthy skepticism. Too many people feel they are qualified to "diagnose" people. But thanks anyway.The fact that you edited/deleted your original posts shows some level of concern on your part. As it should. I stand by my opinion. |
-fatty- 2850 10.05.2007 19:36 |
Why not take a loaded firearm to school and seeing how many classmates/teachers you can blow away before the police arrive. That's a sure fire way to impress the ladies. fatty. |
sparrow 21754 10.05.2007 22:39 |
does anyone watch dr phil? theyve had some guy on ther ewho is dangerously obsessed with his own wife....its crazy! |
SomebodyWhoLoves 11.05.2007 00:34 |
magicalfreddiemercury wrote:Please stop trying to play the shrink because you are only embarrassing yourself. So now, people who edit their posts have issues?SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Thank you for your advice but I disagree. So I get a little love-struck. Who doesn't? But they always fade away. And being a little suspicious is not bad. It's good to be a little cautious. For instance, though you only know me from my posts, you are "suspicious" that I have some problem where I need therapy. Now, do you feel you need to see a shrink for your problem? See how ridiculous you are being? I always take words of advice especially when it pertains to medical or psychiatric with a little healthy skepticism. Too many people feel they are qualified to "diagnose" people. But thanks anyway.The fact that you edited/deleted your original posts shows some level of concern on your part. As it should. I stand by my opinion. Come on! |
SomebodyWhoLoves 11.05.2007 00:35 |
fatty wrote: Why not take a loaded firearm to school and seeing how many classmates/teachers you can blow away before the police arrive. That's a sure fire way to impress the ladies. fatty.Ordinarily "fatty" you are pretty funny guy, but that joke is just in awful taste comsidering what has transpired here in the usa. |
Deacon Fan 11.05.2007 03:34 |
I've actually been working on some issues like this in therapy. Though I don't have a problem with getting crushes really, I do tend to get clingy with one person at a time online and expect them to be equally clingy. So I'm trying to branch out and spread my awesomeness among several people instead. It can be a pain though, as with a number of contacts, I find that they tend to show up at the same time and I get stressed trying to keep everyone happy. Flashing windows and rejected Skype calls.. it's really a pain being popular. But then they all disappear at the same time too and I end up still wanting to spend time with the original object of my clingitism. But good luck and try to just relax and find activities away from whoever you're crushing on. Try to be more restrained and wait to see if they're wanting the same thing as you. Maybe you're trying to manipulate them or be extra-nice or something like that... trust me, that won't work. You'll just feel used. You cannot change others. You gotta make changes in yourself if things aren't going the way you'd like them to. |
Sweetie 11.05.2007 06:53 |
fatty wrote: Why not take a loaded firearm to school and seeing how many classmates/teachers you can blow away before the police arrive. That's a sure fire way to impress the ladies. fatty.XD Fatty is right you know :P |
iGSM 11.05.2007 07:05 |
Fatty is a cunt. Not really. Just trying to cause trouble. i heart u fatty :) THAT being said.. I like to reflect on what is said in Eternal Sunshine on the Spotless Mind when Joel (Jim Carrey's character) is acknowledged by Clementine (Kate Winslet) - "Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?". I used to feel that. Then I became bitter inside and that fixed me all up! The answer is, sadly, to become slightly bitter! And live a happy life like I do. *cries* |
SomebodyWhoLoves 11.05.2007 10:01 |
Well I am totally over "L". What a bitch. She really needs to understand that the world does not revolve around her! I can't stand people like that. Just because she's hot doesn't mean she's better than everyone else. What I need is to find someone else that is hot, but a little humble, modest. |
JoxerTheDeityPirate 11.05.2007 11:36 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Well I am totally over "L". What a bitch. She really needs to understand that the world does not revolve around her! I can't stand people like that. Just because she's hot doesn't mean she's better than everyone else. What I need is to find someone else that is hot, but a little humble, modest.you need to drop the resentment and bitterness if you want to find a "decent" woman.they wont put up with that shit one little bit. keep 'em mean keeps 'em keen but being a twat and overbearing gets you nowhere |
SomebodyWhoLoves 11.05.2007 12:54 |
Well, with that attitude, I can see a wonderful future for you as a carpet women can walk over on. Sorry pal, but I'm not built that way. I absolutely do not like women who think the world owes them a favour. I really do not ask much of women, but I will not tolerate "princesses". I'm done with them. What, do they think I am some toy to kick around? ha. And for the record, I am NOT bitter. Though I sound bitter, but I am not. I can find a hot, yet nice, and down to earth woman. I believe they exist. I will not settle for a fugly, but I also will not lower myself to take blows from a princess. |
JoxerTheDeityPirate 11.05.2007 13:20 |
no carpet here. ive got 3 on the go and they are happy with the arrangement.all 3 are hot but not super models and i keep them keen by keeping them mean but in a nice way.i treat them all with respect and with a dignity that they appreciate. you appear to want picket fences and roses and a waltons lifestyle.ive got a newsflash,that doesnt exist in the real world. you seem to want someone to mother you by the sounds of it {safe option] all the women i know hate blokes who want that.they want an independence of their own not to be a doting housewife who waits on someone hand and foot and have no life of their own,but if thats the way you'd like it then go for it coz it just means that they will take solice in a REAL man like myself. you come across as rude and arrogant and a woman hater.so if thats how you behave in front of them im not surprised you get fobbed off. out of curiosity how old are you? |
deleted user 11.05.2007 13:30 |
pack a bag, get in the van, I'm taking you to stepford. I hear the brides are very loyal there. |
john bodega 11.05.2007 14:02 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Well, with that attitude, I can see a wonderful future for you as a carpet women can walk over on. Sorry pal, but I'm not built that way. I absolutely do not like women who think the world owes them a favour. I really do not ask much of women, but I will not tolerate "princesses". I'm done with them. What, do they think I am some toy to kick around? ha. And for the record, I am NOT bitter. Though I sound bitter, but I am not. I can find a hot, yet nice, and down to earth woman. I believe they exist. I will not settle for a fugly, but I also will not lower myself to take blows from a princess.What a silly way of looking at things. Dude... you've got to understand. When it comes down to it, they are the givers, and we are the takers. And we are always replaceable by things that vibrate. Standing up for yourself is one thing, but you're losing the plot. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 11.05.2007 15:11 |
joxerthehungoverpirate wrote: no carpet here. ive got 3 on the go and they are happy with the arrangement.all 3 are hot but not super models and i keep them keen by keeping them mean but in a nice way.i treat them all with respect and with a dignity that they appreciate. you appear to want picket fences and roses and a waltons lifestyle.ive got a newsflash,that doesnt exist in the real world. you seem to want someone to mother you by the sounds of it {safe option] all the women i know hate blokes who want that.they want an independence of their own not to be a doting housewife who waits on someone hand and foot and have no life of their own,but if thats the way you'd like it then go for it coz it just means that they will take solice in a REAL man like myself. you come across as rude and arrogant and a woman hater.so if thats how you behave in front of them im not surprised you get fobbed off. out of curiosity how old are you?I'm getting tired by these personal remark. I think I should keep my personal life off this board. I am inviting all kinds of criticism that I do not want or need. |
JoxerTheDeityPirate 11.05.2007 16:07 |
good idea.if you are gonna dump your tale of woe on a personal forum then you must expect to hear things that you dont necessarily want to hear.we tried to give you advice and show you the errors of your ways but you decided to ignore them or treat them with disdain. so it's probably best that you carry on with your head stuck firmly up your arse living in your ivory tower and oblivious to how things are in the REAL world. the life you want does not exist,deal with it. |
7 seas of Pie 11.05.2007 16:37 |
Sparrow wrote: does anyone watch dr phil? theyve had some guy on ther ewho is dangerously obsessed with his own wife....its crazy!I saw it! Jeffrey is crazy! |
sparrow 21754 11.05.2007 16:46 |
7 seas of Pie wrote:hehe hes in jail now and awaiting trial because he violated his probation!Sparrow wrote: does anyone watch dr phil? theyve had some guy on ther ewho is dangerously obsessed with his own wife....its crazy!I saw it! Jeffrey is crazy! |
7 seas of Pie 11.05.2007 17:12 |
Sparrow wrote:lol...its on tv right now7 seas of Pie wrote:hehe hes in jail now and awaiting trial because he violated his probation!Sparrow wrote: does anyone watch dr phil? theyve had some guy on ther ewho is dangerously obsessed with his own wife....its crazy!I saw it! Jeffrey is crazy! |
SomebodyWhoLoves 12.05.2007 01:35 |
joxerthehungoverpirate wrote: good idea.if you are gonna dump your tale of woe on a personal forum then you must expect to hear things that you dont necessarily want to hear.we tried to give you advice and show you the errors of your ways but you decided to ignore them or treat them with disdain. so it's probably best that you carry on with your head stuck firmly up your arse living in your ivory tower and oblivious to how things are in the REAL world. the life you want does not exist,deal with it.Fair enough. But do not also make silly comments like you're a real man because you claim to have "3 women who are hot but not models". I dont know whether your claims are true or not, but even if they were true, having 3 women at your beck and call doesn't make you a true man. Now, most likely your three women are your left hand, right hand, and possibly some toy of some kind that you call Lucy, but that is definitely none of my business. Ick. Now, I will go back to my so called "ivory tower" and lose myself in my fantasy world. Yeah..right. I had a date tonight, but I won't share the details because too many damn armchair psychologists here. |
Deacon Fan 12.05.2007 05:27 |
I think there's always a way to suggest things nicely rather than potentially having the other party take it as a personal attack. For example, I could say either: I think a certain former bunny admirer has appeared slightly cranky in this thread actually. or I could try: Both sides have a point. Maybe someone was a little cranky and someone else took something too personal. |