| greaserkat 27.05.2006 00:00 |
after 2 years and 8 months, my girlfriend brke up wih me. every week i looked forward to the weekend cause thats when we got to see each other, now my weekends are going to be boring. Today i was looking up stuff on where to take her for her 21st bday and later today she broke up with me. damn, it hurts, but i guess i wasnt a good bf thats why i lost her. ive been in 3 relationships since high school. The first ended cheating on me, the second dump me after going to her prom and my prom, and the one that i thought was going to last until possibly the end ended today. I think i need a drink :-( |
| That guy who digs energy domes 27.05.2006 00:07 |
Why cant mine do the same? |
| greaserkat 27.05.2006 00:09 |
women |
| Serry... 27.05.2006 00:36 |
My girlfriend broke up with me some years ago and I'm still can't deal with that and live in another world. Don't repeat my mistakes, find another one girl! ;) |
| Bob The Shrek 27.05.2006 00:38 |
greaserkat wrote: womenCan't live with 'em, can't fucking shoot 'em. |
| greaserkat 27.05.2006 00:42 |
Bob youre back!! |
| Lisser 27.05.2006 00:42 |
Bob The Shrek wrote:BOBBBBBB!! You can shoot em here! Come on over!!!greaserkat wrote: womenCan't live with 'em, can't fucking shoot 'em. ;) |
| greaserkat 27.05.2006 00:43 |
I know what u mean Serry, but its hard you know. 3 years and all of a sudden, nothing. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 27.05.2006 00:47 |
And they pull hair |
| Queen_Rox 27.05.2006 01:00 |
I'm sorry about your break up with your girlfriend, man. I hope the Lord's ray of light, love, & hope will heal you as the weeks pass. Take it easy. |
| greaserkat 27.05.2006 01:08 |
:-), thank you |
| That guy who digs energy domes 27.05.2006 01:19 |
But where would any of us be without women to order us around? |
| Bob The Shrek 27.05.2006 01:21 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: But where would any of us be without women to order us around?In the pub watching football. |
| Slap the P 27.05.2006 06:35 |
Hey, greaserkat, that's too bad. If you are a guy who love beeing in a relationship, then you should take Serry's advice ASAP. But maybe it's a chance to try a little time on your own now? That might prove to be important later in life when you find that special someone. Ofcourse I don't know s**t about your situation, I am just giving you advice out of my own experience. Anyway; good luck! And to all you guys putting down women; It's out of frustration, right? For not beeing able to have them, squeeze them, hold them and kiss and hug them? Love to all you ladies that make grown men want to cry! |
| deleted user 27.05.2006 08:07 |
awww :( |
| magicalfreddiemercury 27.05.2006 08:45 |
Hey greaserkat, I'm really sorry. What a sucky feeling that is - especially after all that time. It doesn't mean you're a bad boyfriend, btw, it means you and she (and the others) weren't right for each other. You'll find the right one when you least expect it. Until then, a little alone time couldn't hurt - as long as you don't spend it wallowing. Start hanging out with your friends more. Rediscover yourself, then get out there again. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 27.05.2006 09:07 |
Bob The Shrek wrote:So you see, we need women to tell us what to do or we'd just spend all our time in the bar, hammered and watching football.Paul McCartney Junior wrote: But where would any of us be without women to order us around?In the pub watching football. |
| Mark_Sommers 27.05.2006 09:36 |
wat d hell do you want us to do about it? |
| AspiringPhilosophe 27.05.2006 10:26 |
Sorry to hear about that, it's rough. I was dumped like that, too. I was actually engaged to the guy, we were together for 3 years. I got the opprotunity to study abroad for 1 month, and right before I left he issued an ultimatum: Go on the trip or be with him. Since I'd been looking forward to the trip forever and didn't want to waste the cash I paid, I went, and he broke up with me in an e-mail while I was in Paris!! Time heals all wounds...or at least scabs them over pretty well. You'll find another one who's worthy of you. |
| Nathan 27.05.2006 10:57 |
We missed you Mari. Welcome back. |
| deleted user 27.05.2006 13:22 |
Sorry to hear that, greaserkat. But the best thing for you to do is move on and not blame yourself for the break-up. The same thing happened to my brother; he and his gf had dated for over a year and they were discussing marriage. His gf then dumped him through a text message and treated him shamefully. He still gets depressed over her, but she shouldn't be worth the thought. You seem like a nice person, so I imagine you'll be able to find another, better girl for yourself. It's interesting how the men here seem to believe that only women are capable of hurting the other sex, when it certainly goes both ways. Nice mentality. |
| john bodega 27.05.2006 13:30 |
"It's interesting how the men here seem to believe that only women are capable of hurting the other sex, when it certainly goes both ways. Nice mentality." Nah, it just means that the majority of men who use the internet are hopeless. (Just jokes) |
| greaserkat 27.05.2006 14:44 |
Thanks for the advice people, thats what im trying to do, move on but man, it hurts. I know its going to be like that for a while but eventually one day it wont hurt at all. Today im just going to try to keep my mind busy so i wont be thinking about it. |
| RETROLOVE 27.05.2006 17:16 |
Sorry Greaserkat...break up's are tough, we've all been through it...be strong!!! |
| deleted user 28.05.2006 15:08 |
get over it. |
| Carol! the Musical 28.05.2006 15:53 |
queen4ever2 wrote: get over it.God, show some damn respect. I'm sorry about your break-up, Greaserkat. :-( I'm sure you'll find someone else. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 28.05.2006 16:09 |
My girlfriend before this one was a huge racist. |
| Carol! the Musical 28.05.2006 16:40 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: My girlfriend before this one was a huge racist.Whooa.. :S |
| Slap the P 28.05.2006 17:50 |
Hey, Paul McCartney Junior!
In the midst of greaserkat's sorrow your thread is fun:
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Why cant mine do the same? "And they pull hair" "But where would any of us be without women to order us around?" "My girlfriend before this one was a huge racist."Please continue. ;D |
| rosedewitt 28.05.2006 19:40 |
that's sad to hear greaserkat. try to forget her, go out, meet friends, and you will find the right woman for you, soon!!! :) |
| LeslieJane 28.05.2006 20:27 |
Breakups are rough. I've had some ridiculous relationships with always end in obnoxious breakups. But you have the benefit of having had a relationship in the past two years, where as I do not. *pout* |
| That guy who digs energy domes 28.05.2006 23:11 |
Slap the P wrote: Hey, Paul McCartney Junior! In the midst of greaserkat's sorrow your thread is fun:Okay, her name was Jenny and she is from Mississippi and had a general dislike for African Americans. At first we thought she was talking like that to fit in with us (A group of people in absolute racial harmony, All races making jokes about eachother equally) but 3 days before we had it out, she kept saying 'Nigger' and even Matt (from Louisiana, was thought to be the biggest racist in the city) told her to stop. She did but replaced it with 'monkey' Then later that day, we were in Matt's van going to Falls and we didnt want to stop so we made John piss in his coke bottle and he was going to put it out the window into the culvert but Jenny took a marker and wrote "Lemonade For Nigger!" On where the label was and threw it onto a street corner.Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Why cant mine do the same? "And they pull hair" "But where would any of us be without women to order us around?" "My girlfriend before this one was a huge racist."Please continue. ;D Need I say more? |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 28.05.2006 23:29 |
Shit..... |
| Slap the P 29.05.2006 04:12 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Okay, her name was Jenny and she is from Mississippi and had a general dislike for African Americans. At first we thought she was talking like that to fit in with us (A group of people in absolute racial harmony, All races making jokes about eachother equally) but 3 days before we had it out, she kept saying 'Nigger' and even Matt (from Louisiana, was thought to be the biggest racist in the city) told her to stop. She did but replaced it with 'monkey' Then later that day, we were in Matt's van going to Falls and we didnt want to stop so we made John piss in his coke bottle and he was going to put it out the window into the culvert but Jenny took a marker and wrote "Lemonade For Nigger!" On where the label was and threw it onto a street corner. Need I say more?Oouuh! Creepy! I'm sorry for you having to go through that. I hope YOU broke up with HER, though? ...And please stop riding in Matt's van if he's the biggest racist in the city. You have to take a stand and show them what you believe in. Show them how to play the pipes of peace : ) Cheers! |
| Slap the P 29.05.2006 17:24 |
greaserkat wrote: Today im just going to try to keep my mind busy so i wont be thinking about it.This thread must complicate the "not-thinking-about-it"-part... ;P |
| Mr.Jingles 29.05.2006 18:24 |
Slap the P wrote:Well, if you're part of Young Republicans there's always going to be plenty of Archie Bunker types.Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Okay, her name was Jenny and she is from Mississippi and had a general dislike for African Americans. At first we thought she was talking like that to fit in with us (A group of people in absolute racial harmony, All races making jokes about eachother equally) but 3 days before we had it out, she kept saying 'Nigger' and even Matt (from Louisiana, was thought to be the biggest racist in the city) told her to stop. She did but replaced it with 'monkey' Then later that day, we were in Matt's van going to Falls and we didnt want to stop so we made John piss in his coke bottle and he was going to put it out the window into the culvert but Jenny took a marker and wrote "Lemonade For Nigger!" On where the label was and threw it onto a street corner. Need I say more?Oouuh! Creepy! I'm sorry for you having to go through that. I hope YOU broke up with HER, though? ...And please stop riding in Matt's van if he's the biggest racist in the city. You have to take a stand and show them what you believe in. Show them how to play the pipes of peace : ) Cheers! That would be like going to a Greatful Dead concert and expect no one to smoke weed. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 29.05.2006 20:18 |
Slap the P wrote:We're all in perfect racial harmony.Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Okay, her name was Jenny and she is from Mississippi and had a general dislike for African Americans. At first we thought she was talking like that to fit in with us (A group of people in absolute racial harmony, All races making jokes about eachother equally) but 3 days before we had it out, she kept saying 'Nigger' and even Matt (from Louisiana, was thought to be the biggest racist in the city) told her to stop. She did but replaced it with 'monkey' Then later that day, we were in Matt's van going to Falls and we didnt want to stop so we made John piss in his coke bottle and he was going to put it out the window into the culvert but Jenny took a marker and wrote "Lemonade For Nigger!" On where the label was and threw it onto a street corner. Need I say more?Oouuh! Creepy! I'm sorry for you having to go through that. I hope YOU broke up with HER, though? ...And please stop riding in Matt's van if he's the biggest racist in the city. You have to take a stand and show them what you believe in. Show them how to play the pipes of peace : ) Cheers! Our table has people of all races making fun of eachother equally, which is the perfect society. Matt is nothing compared to Bobby's father, who is a locally known KKK member (who operate quite ingeniously actually) So we're either all racist or all egalitarian, you choose. |
| Slap the P 30.05.2006 04:56 |
Mr.Jingles wrote: Well, if you're part of Young Republicans there's always going to be plenty of Archie Bunker types. That would be like going to a Greatful Dead concert and expect no one to smoke weed.So John Lennon is not the only dreamer...:-) Well I still say you have to take a stand. Paul McCartney Junior wrote: We're all in perfect racial harmony. Our table has people of all races making fun of eachother equally, which is the perfect society. Matt is nothing compared to Bobby's father, who is a locally known KKK member (who operate quite ingeniously actually) So we're either all racist or all egalitarian, you choose.I'm sorry, but from what I hear can't choose. I'm thinking racist, maybe? But then again you wouldn't have been offended by your former girlfriends behaviour? But how can you be egalitarian with the KKK dancing around on your porch? Maybe it's just me not used to this kind of environment. Sorry for bursting in - telling you what to do - when I actually have no knowledge about your situation. I was just speaking from my heart. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 30.05.2006 22:43 |
Havent you heard the song? "Everyone's a little bit racist!" |
| Mr.Jingles 30.05.2006 23:43 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Havent you heard the song? "Everyone's a little bit racist!"Now it's a good time to tell you all that this board is filled with fag loving crackers. |
| Slap the P 31.05.2006 03:29 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Havent you heard the song? "Everyone's a little bit racist!"Nope... Too busy singing ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE I should stop, I know, but two questions to you first: Can you tell from my posting if I am black or white? And does it matter to you? |
| Sherwood Forest 31.05.2006 06:24 |
yea that happens sometimes |
| M a t i a s M a y 31.05.2006 07:52 |
remember mr wank is always your friend |
| That guy who digs energy domes 01.06.2006 22:27 |
Slap the P wrote:Honestly, no, my step gradfather is black and so is my half aunt. I really dont give a shit what color anyone's skin is and I didnt check your profile but if you're from the USA, you know how diverse the place is and I wish it didnt matter but racism also works both ways, we now have that congresswoman who punched a cop for stopping her on the way to capitol hill, claiming he was racist, while blaming the world's problems on middle class white men.Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Havent you heard the song? "Everyone's a little bit racist!"Nope... Too busy singing ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE I should stop, I know, but two questions to you first: Can you tell from my posting if I am black or white? And does it matter to you? And the KKK? I read one of their "Klansmen's Voice" papers out of curiosity, and the way they operate is smart but Id rather hate someone for what they do, rather than what they were born as. |
| Coxy 02.06.2006 03:56 |
I know what ur goin through m8, try to forget and move. It damn hurts (I Know)but its the best thing for it. Just take it easy and now u can look at porn :) without worrying |
| Slap the P 02.06.2006 03:57 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote: Honestly, no, my step gradfather is black and so is my half aunt. I really dont give a shit what color anyone's skin is and I didnt check your profile but if you're from the USA, you know how diverse the place is and I wish it didnt matter but racism also works both ways, we now have that congresswoman who punched a cop for stopping her on the way to capitol hill, claiming he was racist, while blaming the world's problems on middle class white men. And the KKK? I read one of their "Klansmen's Voice" papers out of curiosity, and the way they operate is smart but Id rather hate someone for what they do, rather than what they were born as.Ok, Macca! Thank you for answering honestly. Once again sorry for bursting in. I understand it's a different environment you live in. I mean; I would love to tell you to "forget that hate and racism, concentrate on the positive" (because somewhere I hear you saying:"they are racists so I have to be that to"), but I guess that's just from my dreaming perspective. I could really go on about this subject, though. But I won't. Since it's just me ramblin' I get the feeling noone else really cares. Therefore I rest my case. |
| deleted user 02.06.2006 07:16 |
I care. But you dreaming, Slap the P. Reality not like that. People not all good. Hello greaserkat. I am sorry. Feeling better now? |
| Mr.Jingles 02.06.2006 10:46 |
See things from the positive side... Now every single penny you earn will be spent on yourself. |
| deleted user 02.06.2006 10:52 |
well said ben **claps** |
| Erin 02.06.2006 11:45 |
Mr.Jingles wrote: Now it's a good time to tell you all that this board is filled with fag loving crackers.LOL!! |
| Poo, again 02.06.2006 11:53 |
I wish I looked like Roger. Then I could probably have any girl. Or whatever. And I wouldn't be a loser like the creator of this thread and pretty much everybody else. |
| flash! 28068 02.06.2006 13:39 |
<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: I wish I looked like Roger. Then I could probably have any girl. Or whatever. And I wouldn't be a loser like the creator of this thread and pretty much everybody else.I'm sure that if you were Roger or looked like him you would have me, amongst many others on here chasing after you with handcuffs! |
| FreMe 02.06.2006 13:46 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Flash you scare me :/<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: I wish I looked like Roger. Then I could probably have any girl. Or whatever. And I wouldn't be a loser like the creator of this thread and pretty much everybody else.I'm sure that if you were Roger or looked like him you would have me, amongst many others on here chasing after you with handcuffs! |
| flash! 28068 02.06.2006 13:50 |
<font color=FFFFOO>FreMe<h6>Get Down!!!! wrote:I'm not saying i would like to chase Millionaire with handcuffs! Only if he transformed into darling Roger. :/<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Flash you scare me :/<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: I wish I looked like Roger. Then I could probably have any girl. Or whatever. And I wouldn't be a loser like the creator of this thread and pretty much everybody else.I'm sure that if you were Roger or looked like him you would have me, amongst many others on here chasing after you with handcuffs! |
| FreMe 02.06.2006 14:10 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote:And I was joking darling ;).. Mayby I should not use the "serious-smiley" when im joking :-o.. Not to my self, e.t.c e.t.c<font color=FFFFOO>FreMe<h6>Get Down!!!! wrote:I'm not saying i would like to chase Millionaire with handcuffs! Only if he transformed into darling Roger. :/<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Flash you scare me :/<font color=pink>The Millionaire Waltz wrote: I wish I looked like Roger. Then I could probably have any girl. Or whatever. And I wouldn't be a loser like the creator of this thread and pretty much everybody else.I'm sure that if you were Roger or looked like him you would have me, amongst many others on here chasing after you with handcuffs! |
| Poo, again 02.06.2006 14:14 |
Flashy, dear, I wouldn't mind you chasing me with handcuffs... not at all. |