| Nathan 12.05.2006 13:54 |
When you guys are down in the dumps, how do you rebuild your self esteem? My self esteem and confidence in myself are completley non existent. |
| deleted user 12.05.2006 14:01 |
^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know! |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 12.05.2006 14:05 |
Nathan wrote: how do you rebuild your self esteem?Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot.... |
| Nathan 12.05.2006 14:53 |
<font color=red>EmpressOfTheUniverse wrote: ^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know!Indeed. Thing is though, I KNOW for a fact that I'm not cool. I need some advice as to how I can rise above that. |
| magicalfreddiemercury 12.05.2006 15:05 |
When you do something you're particularly proud of, you should either post a picture of it or make a note about it in a book set aside just for this. When you're down on yourself, you can take a look through this book and see all of your accomplishments in one place. That should give your self-esteem a little boost. |
| deleted user 12.05.2006 15:21 |
Nathan wrote:don't be so hard on yourself!<font color=red>EmpressOfTheUniverse wrote: ^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know!Indeed. Thing is though, I KNOW for a fact that I'm not cool. I need some advice as to how I can rise above that. |
| Whisperer 12.05.2006 15:44 |
Watching Freddie/Queen dvd's always helps :) |
| flash! 28068 12.05.2006 15:57 |
<font color="#FF00CC">its_a_hard_life wrote:Same for me too. It's just something i crave to relax and feel better...and it hasn't let me down yet!Nathan wrote: how do you rebuild your self esteem?Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot.... |
| deleted user 12.05.2006 17:10 |
Nathan wrote: When you guys are down in the dumps, how do you rebuild your self esteem? My self esteem and confidence in myself are completley non existent.When im down in the dumps I eat loads of nutella sandwiches,listen to white queen as it began over and over again and what gets me out of the dumps is a big hug of one of my friends.Need one? |
| Nathan 12.05.2006 18:06 |
Hmmm, OK, thanks. |
| deleted user 12.05.2006 18:18 |
***Big hug*** |
| Nathan 12.05.2006 18:20 |
*hugs you back* I try my best to like myself. |
| deleted user 12.05.2006 18:26 |
if you get msn we can talk loads about this GET IT! |
| Carol! the Musical 12.05.2006 19:08 |
Start doing new things. Learn something you've always wanted to know; it'll give you a sense of accomplishment. And improve the skills you already have. :-) |
| Yogurt 12.05.2006 20:45 |
I know what you are going through. I've always had low self esteem and a very low self image. What helped me the most was my "true" friends. I had a best friend that would always "help" me. She would hide my secretes from family, and cover my problems. Well, she moved away and changed. I made new friends. Now I don't have to have any secretes to hide. and when I have problems, they help me solve it instead of cover it. They have always been there for me and never let me look at the negative side of things. I say good friends are a great boost for a healthy self esteem. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 12.05.2006 23:02 |
Run a few miles or go to the weight room |
| M a t i a s M a y 12.05.2006 23:22 |
WANK TILL DEATH |
| Kensington Love 13.05.2006 01:52 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote:This is what I do too. The sound of their voices always makes me feel better;)<font color="#FF00CC">its_a_hard_life wrote:Same for me too. It's just something i crave to relax and feel better...and it hasn't let me down yet!Nathan wrote: how do you rebuild your self esteem?Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot.... |
| bohemian_queer 13.05.2006 02:13 |
perfect way to cure the blues: (Queen styled) 1. Listen to "It's a Beautiful Day" 2. Follow up by listening to "Don't Stop Me Now" 3. Completely rock out to "Killer Queen" You'll be bursting w/ happiness in no time! :D:D:D |
| M a t i a s M a y 13.05.2006 03:21 |
EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE link AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN :) |
| deleted user 13.05.2006 04:10 |
MatiasMay wrote: EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE link AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN :)bad bastard |
| Nathan 13.05.2006 04:26 |
That was tasteless. |
| flash! 28068 13.05.2006 08:16 |
MatiasMay wrote: EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE link AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN :)Hey! Leave Ben alone. He rocks! |
| Carol! the Musical 13.05.2006 12:20 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Yeah, that was mean. :-( He's cool!MatiasMay wrote: EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE link AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN :)Hey! Leave Ben alone. He rocks! |
| deleted user 13.05.2006 13:41 |
<font color="#FF00CC">its_a_hard_life wrote:Agreed! And god knows I feel bad about myself a lot. But I'm serious in saying this, after the night I had and meeting Brian and all those great fans from around the world, I will just laugh it off next time someone tells me I'm weird and that nobody likes Queen!Nathan wrote: how do you rebuild your self esteem?Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot.... |
| KillerQueen840 13.05.2006 16:48 |
I don't think it's possible to cure a low self esteem, or raise it up without lying to yourself. So I can't help out there, but if you're feeling upset I suggest writing it out of your system. It usually helps me a bit. Whether it's something you morph into fiction or if it's just like keeping a journal I think it might help. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 13.05.2006 19:30 |
ChinesedogTorture wrote:Dont worry, he's just mad because the big scary american was picking on Alex<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Yeah, that was mean. :-( He's cool!MatiasMay wrote: EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE link AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN :)Hey! Leave Ben alone. He rocks! |
| M a t i a s M a y 13.05.2006 21:01 |
picking on your mamma's ass cocksucker |
| Carol! the Musical 13.05.2006 22:02 |
MatiasMay wrote: picking on your mamma's ass cocksuckerSheesh, you need anger management. Take a chill pill... |
| That guy who digs energy domes 13.05.2006 22:17 |
ChinesedogTorture wrote:Thats how they say 'I love you' in his localityMatiasMay wrote: picking on your mamma's ass cocksuckerSheesh, you need anger management. Take a chill pill... |
| Carol! the Musical 13.05.2006 23:02 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote:How awkward! Well, in that case... I love you, too, MatiasMay, old pal! ;)ChinesedogTorture wrote:Thats how they say 'I love you' in his localityMatiasMay wrote: picking on your mamma's ass cocksuckerSheesh, you need anger management. Take a chill pill... |
| M a t i a s M a y 14.05.2006 01:44 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote:and this is how we say FUCK YOU in our localityChinesedogTorture wrote:Thats how they say 'I love you' in his localityMatiasMay wrote: picking on your mamma's ass cocksuckerSheesh, you need anger management. Take a chill pill... ANDATE A LA CONCHA DE TU MADRE :) |
| skiqueen 14.05.2006 10:02 |
listening, watching, or reading about queen...queen has a song for every situation, i love it |
| FreMe 14.05.2006 14:50 |
You should all feel good about yourself! Just beeing Queenfan, shows that your not a mainstreem junkie, and that you have IQ in some way.. That your an individual, that does not need to be the person, everybody else wants you to be! Cool people you are!:) (but When that doesent help me, I look at some homework I got good grade for, or a good drawing I made..) |
| The Lost Queen 15.05.2006 04:41 |
Well... I used to have very low self esteem, but I started listening to Queen, and now that's gone, I feel good and secure about myself all the time. Allthough, I'm always either very happy or very angry, but when I'm angry I just put on Death on two legs and cut of a chunk of my hair, and the anger dissapears. But, sometimes I just get really tired of everything around me, and then, listening to Queen always help. |
| DreaminQueen 16.05.2006 17:33 |
Well i struggle with it on a daily basis... And there are some great suggestions here... Queen always helps me too, and writing, but i write poetry... But ive accepted that ill never be popular and u know what, thats absolutely fine with me, im dorky and intelligent and i dance to the beat of my own drum, i have a few close friends and im totally happy with that... Because if you look at some of the "cool" people (and i use that term loosely) they really arent the best people... So start small with something about you that you do like about yourself... And remember the only one who can make ureself happier... What works for me is putting on a Queen Cd or DVD and signing at the top of my lungs and dancing like nobodies watching, because its a great release and you can have a great laugh about yourself... i do it everyday because its a great stress reliever and i feel soo good after it... or i play my piano... and sometiems talking about it too... if ure feeling down, u can email me... |
| Nathan 16.05.2006 18:40 |
You seem like a lovely person, DreaminQueen. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 17.05.2006 12:51 |
Nathan wrote: You seem like a lovely person, DreaminQueen.She is |
| AspiringPhilosophe 17.05.2006 13:02 |
This may not work for guys...in fact it probably won't. But when I'm feeling down in the dumps I listen to this new song by Pink called "Stupid Girls" and remind myself how glad I am that I'm not one of them. There are too many of them on this college campus, that's for sure.... |
| Nathan 17.05.2006 13:57 |
When life gets me down, I always listen to Diana Ross' 'If We Hold On Together'. WHile it often moves me to tears, the lyrics always pick me up and every time I hear that song I feel like I'm in Heaven. |
| DreaminQueen 17.05.2006 21:21 |
Paul McCartney Junior wrote:Thanks Guys...Nathan wrote: You seem like a lovely person, DreaminQueen.She is That really made my day actually, i havent been feeling that way lately... :D And you guys are great too :D I wish i could meet more REAL people like ya'll around here... |
| DreaminQueen 17.05.2006 21:24 |
CMU HistoryGirl wrote: This may not work for guys...in fact it probably won't. But when I'm feeling down in the dumps I listen to this new song by Pink called "Stupid Girls" and remind myself how glad I am that I'm not one of them. There are too many of them on this college campus, that's for sure....Thats a great song! Makes me feel better too... because its got a message... It really helped me one day when i was like why am i not "Cool" and then i realized o yea, i have a brain and a pulse... not just boobs and a need for attention... |
| DreaminQueen 17.05.2006 21:31 |
Nathan wrote: When life gets me down, I always listen to Diana Ross' 'If We Hold On Together'. WHile it often moves me to tears, the lyrics always pick me up and every time I hear that song I feel like I'm in Heaven.Ive never heard that one... ill have to look that one up... Thats soo beautiful :') Its those moments and songs that really can put things in perspective and help you feel up lifted... just think of that song when you're feeling down, even if it doesnt do the complete job right away, it can ameliorate it... seriously though, try the dance like no ones watching and sing thing, its really really fun! And i dont think anyone will ever have all the answers unless you can be in the 4th dimension...and thats not a joke... we had a discussion about that today in one of my classes and apparently my math teacher experienced it once, but you cant really explain what its like, but he said that he understood the meaning of life and just knew everything...but only for that moment, and you are able to WATCH TIME as its HAPPENING... isnt that mind boggling?? |
| Death on 3 legs 18.05.2006 15:45 |
normaly i would listin to music or carve me name into my arm (thats a jk) but ide listin to Cypress Hill-A man, bout the only real rap i like cause its heavy but the lyrics in it are just brill. other than that i would listin too at the drive in cause i love them. |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 18.05.2006 16:52 |
"Smart Thinking" - Frank Mcginty I have started reading this book today and it's quite good. Check it out in your local library or on the net. |
| Yogurt 19.05.2006 21:37 |
<font color=lime>KillerQueen840 wrote: I don't think it's possible to cure a low self esteem, or raise it up without lying to yourself. So I can't help out there, but if you're feeling upset I suggest writing it out of your system. It usually helps me a bit. Whether it's something you morph into fiction or if it's just like keeping a journal I think it might help.I love you Jess, but I disagree with you on this one. I had very low self esteem. It's gone higher to a healthier self esteem now. It may be not normal or high, but its a lot better. And I didn't take any medications. I believe that if you really want high self esteem, you can get better. All you need is a little boost. |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 06.07.2006 02:16 |
Levante-se para ele que você acredita em!!! Stand up for what you believe in!!! |
| 7 seas of Rhye 06.07.2006 09:02 |
Sometimes the people around me can be so mean. I've been called a lot of names. But it doesn't bother me at all. I have a strategy. I just think "What kind of person wastes their time insulting people for fun? The answer: A moron." Why would I care what a moron has to say. Also when something bad happens and I feel horrible I have a five-step-method: 1. take a shower 2. have vanilla ice cream 3. listen to Seaside Rendevous and Lazing On A Sunday Afternoon 4. watch a Johnny Depp movie 5. talk to someone, even if its just my dog, I feel better after I tell someone |
| great king rat 1138 06.07.2006 09:08 |
+++MatiasMay+++<h6><i>The Rainmaker wrote: WANK TILL DEATHIt certainly used to work for me! Now I just get wasted! |
| deleted user 06.07.2006 09:10 |
great king rat 1138 wrote:getting wasted can work at times+++MatiasMay+++<h6><i>The Rainmaker wrote: WANK TILL DEATHIt certainly used to work for me! Now I just get wasted! |
