| rosedewitt 13.04.2006 18:09 |
i broke up with my boyfriend, we were together about a half year, broke up for a few weeks and then came together again. and today i broke up with him definitely because he is gay! he cheated on me with another boy since four months, well and now it hurts so much, but i think so it is better as if i'd stayed. now i listen to all sentimental queen songs like "love of my life", "one year of love", etc, and i really feel a little better while listening. |
| deleted user 13.04.2006 18:11 |
aw Im really sorry to hear about that darlin!!!**BIG HUG** You keep listenin to queen and keep cheerin up!!!Turn that frown upside down =) |
| Carol! the Musical 13.04.2006 18:13 |
I'm so sorry! :-( :-( I really hope you feel better soon. |
| rosedewitt 13.04.2006 18:25 |
thank you so much for your quick and kind answers!!!! feel a little consoled. i should better have a good cry, continue listening freddies voice and go to bed, and hope that i feel better tomorrow :'( |
| Mr.Jingles 13.04.2006 18:35 |
Been there, girl. Believe me, the last thing you want to do is listen, hear, watch or do anything that reminds you of him. My best advice is... Move On. Yes, it won't be easy now, but in time you'll forget about that prick. At this moment you have to help yourself to go on with your life. Try to keep your mind off this son of a bitch by doing things you enjoy. Hang out with friends, or talk to someone you can rely on. Enjoy life even though this might be a tough moment. If that guy cheated on you it goes to proove that he ain't worth shit. You are better than that and deserve someone much better. |
| SomebodyWhoLoves 13.04.2006 19:33 |
I can't imagine anything worse than finding out your significant other has cheated on you! Unless it's finding out that he cheated with another guy! Hopefully you'll be ok! Wish you well! |
| That guy who digs energy domes 13.04.2006 20:57 |
aww, thats terrible; sorry to hear that, Im here if you need a hug |
| its_a_hard_life 26994 13.04.2006 21:01 |
You will be fine, I know you can do it. It might take abit of time but in the long run you will be yourself again. As I always say, the past is the past, shut the door, lock it and never look back. (((hugs))) |
| Winter Land Man 13.04.2006 21:08 |
rosedewitt wrote: i broke up with my boyfriend, we were together about a half year, broke up for a few weeks and then came together again. and today i broke up with him definitely because he is gay! he cheated on me with another boy since four months, well and now it hurts so much, but i think so it is better as if i'd stayed. now i listen to all sentimental queen songs like "love of my life", "one year of love", etc, and i really feel a little better while listening.My advice, never go back to him as the results made themselves public. Never go back with someone who cheated or broke up with you before, as they'll do it again. |
| wstüssyb 13.04.2006 22:32 |
Oh that sucks to break up, sucks even more when they cheat on you with the same sex! |
| user name 13.04.2006 22:32 |
Messenger Of Leah wrote:Yeah. The general rule of thumb is that exes are a bad idea.rosedewitt wrote: i broke up with my boyfriend, we were together about a half year, broke up for a few weeks and then came together again. and today i broke up with him definitely because he is gay! he cheated on me with another boy since four months, well and now it hurts so much, but i think so it is better as if i'd stayed. now i listen to all sentimental queen songs like "love of my life", "one year of love", etc, and i really feel a little better while listening.My advice, never go back to him as the results made themselves public. Never go back with someone who cheated or broke up with you before, as they'll do it again. |
| rosedewitt 14.04.2006 04:30 |
thx you all so much!! i feel really better now. it was a mistake to have a try with him a second time. and i am so afraid that i will give him another chance, when he comes again, because i know him so well, (we were best friends a whole year before we started the relationship) - he won't call me for a week maybe, and then try and try again and say he loves me and he is so sorry for all and and and.... until i say yes, ok let's try again :( what can i do against that? i know that i would be so dumb to have a relationship again with him, because he will cheat on me again and again, but i am also so afraid that i can't resist when he comes again to me :( how can i protect myself of that unfaithful guy?? |
| Winter Land Man 14.04.2006 08:20 |
rosedewitt wrote: thx you all so much!! i feel really better now. it was a mistake to have a try with him a second time. and i am so afraid that i will give him another chance, when he comes again, because i know him so well, (we were best friends a whole year before we started the relationship) - he won't call me for a week maybe, and then try and try again and say he loves me and he is so sorry for all and and and.... until i say yes, ok let's try again :( what can i do against that? i know that i would be so dumb to have a relationship again with him, because he will cheat on me again and again, but i am also so afraid that i can't resist when he comes again to me :( how can i protect myself of that unfaithful guy??Say no to him! And don't forget to play 'You Don't Fool Me'!! |
| Lester Burnham 14.04.2006 09:20 |
So... that means you're single, right? ;) hey baby |
| Lester Burnham 14.04.2006 10:10 |
<b><font color=teal>Sasha wrote: I felt the sameway when Lester went gay on me. It'll be okay. *hugs*Hey, I chose to be gay. You said you forgave me. |
| rosedewitt 14.04.2006 10:47 |
men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man. |
| Carol! the Musical 14.04.2006 11:10 |
rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.I'm very sorry about what happened, it must have been extremely shocking and quite obviously, you're very upset. I mean, who wouldn't be? However, I'll have to disagree with you on that one. Homosexuality *is* normal. There's not even that much to it. A man can't find happiness with women, so he tries relationships with men, big deal. Would you rather a man stay with a woman, no matter how miserable he is with her, just for the sake of being "normal"? No, everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and homosexuals are no exception. And homosexuality is *not* an illness. It's the way some people choose to live their life, and there's nothing wrong with it. |
| Winter Land Man 14.04.2006 16:02 |
rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.Angry Queen fans are going to be awaiting on your door step! And if he'd cheat with a guy, he'd probably cheat on you with a boy. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 14.04.2006 16:05 |
rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.so thats why butt-babies dont work... |
| rosedewitt 14.04.2006 16:11 |
i know the guy with whom he cheated on me. well, i still think homosexuality is an illness. but it doesn't matter for me, i also fall in love with gay men... |
| Lester Burnham 14.04.2006 16:13 |
I sure hope they find a cure for gay soon. |
| Freya is quietly judging you. 14.04.2006 16:17 |
Lester Burnham wrote: I sure hope they find a cure for gay soon.You always manage to make me laugh. |
| That guy who digs energy domes 14.04.2006 16:23 |
Alex Solan wrote:I wasnt aware that I worked at Taco Bell but you could use the jobQueen Of Wrestling<h6>Jamie's Louvre wrote:What makes you think that you're not? You work in a pathetic place like Taco Bell. That's the same for nothing. ;-)rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.so thats why butt-babies dont work... |
| That guy who digs energy domes 14.04.2006 16:25 |
<b><font color=teal>Sasha wrote:heterosexuality is a bougourise concept, you cannot hope to understand itQueen Of Wrestling<h6>Jamie's Louvre wrote:If butt babies don't work, how do your parents explain you?rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.so thats why butt-babies dont work... |
| bitesthedust 14.04.2006 16:29 |
rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.I appreciate your upset but don't tar us all with the same brush, not all men are cruel. |
| SomebodyWhoLoves 14.04.2006 16:50 |
rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.I agree with you rosedewitt. Homosexuality is a perversion of the natural order. It is sick. Rosedewitt, do NOT go back to this guy. He's gay! If I had a gf that even thought about another girl, I'd dump her right away! |
| That guy who digs energy domes 14.04.2006 17:03 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:I agreerosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.I agree with you rosedewitt. Homosexuality is a perversion of the natural order. It is sick. Rosedewitt, do NOT go back to this guy. He's gay! If I had a gf that even thought about another girl, I'd dump her right away! |
| rosedewitt 14.04.2006 17:05 |
@bitesthedust: sorry, i didn't mean "all" men of course, just the gay men who kid girls who are in love with them. |
| Mr.Jingles 14.04.2006 17:31 |
rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.OK, now you're taking things too far. Take a chill pill, because I know how horrible it is to be broken hearted by someone you love. Look, as I said before I know what you're going through because my first girlfriend did the same thing to me. We were together for a year, and I started to get suspicious of her going out with someone else, until I got a hold of her e-mail account and her password and I found out that I was not wrong. Because she was my first girlfriend and I was so in love, I thought she was going to be the first and last person in my life. WRONG! She was all sweet and seemingly perfect in the beginning, but over time the bitch started to show her true colors. I was a young and naive teenager dumbass, so I put up with a lot of shit she was giving me. Somewhat, after things were getting worse and worse I believed I could get her to change, instead I only made things worse. The worst part is that even after breaking up, I still believed that I could get her to come back to me. The fuckin' cunt started to take advantage of me and still kept asking me for favors, and meanwhile I was doing everything she asked me to do for her. I can't believe I was such a fuckin' idiot. It wasn't until later on that I realized that I had to get away from her to stop being her very own personal slave. I then changed by phone number and e-mail address and never again got in contact with her. The truth of the matter is... homosexual or heterosexual, male or female. Infidelity is wrong, and I wouldn't recommend to ANYONE to go back to someone who has cheated on you. |
| Carol! the Musical 14.04.2006 17:47 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:You're a perversion of the natural order, SomebodyWhoLoves.rosedewitt wrote: men, how can you be so cruel? imagine you are in love with the most beautiful and cutest woman you ever met, and she says she can't love you because she's lesbian! homosexuality isn't normal!!!!! just because so many are homosexual today doesn't mean, that it is normal, - it's still an illness, - man+woman is natural, not man+man.Homosexuality is a perversion of the natural order. It is sick. |
| Poo, again 14.04.2006 17:53 |
Indeed. |
| Lester Burnham 14.04.2006 18:25 |
<font color=Violet>Poppy wrote:The illness of gay is no laughing matter.Lester Burnham wrote: I sure hope they find a cure for gay soon.You always manage to make me laugh. |
| Freya is quietly judging you. 14.04.2006 18:37 |
Lester Burnham wrote:Indeed not, I apologise.<font color=Violet>Poppy wrote:The illness of gay is no laughing matter.Lester Burnham wrote: I sure hope they find a cure for gay soon.You always manage to make me laugh. |
| Lester Burnham 14.04.2006 18:42 |
<font color=Violet>Poppy wrote:It's ok, just don't let it happen again. Those afflicted with gay don't like to be laughed at, I'm sure everyone here can understand that.Lester Burnham wrote:Indeed not, I apologise.<font color=Violet>Poppy wrote:The illness of gay is no laughing matter.Lester Burnham wrote: I sure hope they find a cure for gay soon.You always manage to make me laugh. |
| Freya is quietly judging you. 14.04.2006 18:55 |
Lester Burnham wrote:I see your point. Gayness is an awful illness to have, I shall not mock the afflicted.<font color=Violet>Poppy wrote:It's ok, just don't let it happen again. Those afflicted with gay don't like to be laughed at, I'm sure everyone here can understand that.Lester Burnham wrote:Indeed not, I apologise.<font color=Violet>Poppy wrote:The illness of gay is no laughing matter.Lester Burnham wrote: I sure hope they find a cure for gay soon.You always manage to make me laugh. |