SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 12:52 |
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rachael mae. 19.02.2006 13:45 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: |
The Fairy King 19.02.2006 14:19 |
sure! |
Music Man 19.02.2006 14:20 |
I don't get the question. |
Sonia Doris 19.02.2006 14:27 |
if he would do that, he'll have to prepare to his funeral the next day... |
deleted user 19.02.2006 14:55 |
I don't find that appealing. |
Janet 19.02.2006 15:07 |
After I hit him with a baseball bat, packed his clothes and threw them on the porch in garbage bags, and changed all the locks on the house, I might be a little turned on. |
Freya is quietly judging you. 19.02.2006 15:10 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Does this turn you on? You come home, and your bf/husband greets you by grabbing you, pushing down on a table, twists your arm behind your back pinning you down, rips off your panties, and does the act, hard, almost violently, while calling you dirty names. Does it?That would not turn me on, in fact it would definitely not turn me on. Why the question? |
Maz 19.02.2006 15:14 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Does this turn you on? You come home, and your bf/husband greets you by grabbing you, pushing down on a table, twists your arm behind your back pinning you down, rips off your panties, and does the act, hard, almost violently, while calling you dirty names. Does it?So, in short, you're asking if rape is sexually attractive? That's not sex; that's one marginalized and weak individual trying to exert power over someone else. How pathetic. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:14 |
It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it. It's just my theory. I could be wrong though. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:16 |
Nice guys don't get many dates. Women love bad boys with an edge. Subconsciously they are attracted to guys who will dominate them. This is why nice guys always lose out with women. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:17 |
Ok maybe my example was a bit extreme. But why the attack? it's just a question. |
Maz 19.02.2006 15:19 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it. It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.And it's a misogynistic, egotistcal, and male-centered theory. My God, listen to what you are saying. It's not that women want to be dominated, but that some men want to dominate and justify it accordingly. |
-luke_taylor- 28432 19.02.2006 15:20 |
either someones done that before or ive got brain damage |
Maz 19.02.2006 15:20 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: But why the attack? it's just a question.Do you know any woman who has been raped? |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:22 |
You've got braindamage. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:24 |
I love how these idiots instantly point the finger at me as though this is a real life experience. My god. it was Just a question. FYI, the reason I asked was, I was debating with a friend what women truly want. Good gawd! |
Maz 19.02.2006 15:26 |
Re-read the above posts and no one assumed that you actually did this. And, of course, some questions are just stupid. |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:28 |
Well, you can put me down as one of the women that doesn't sunconsciously want to be "dominated." Nor am I a woman that wants a bad boy. I also believe the scenario provided does constitute rape and I don't think it matters if it's a bf/husband doing it. Not all women want to be treated like porn stars. |
Janet 19.02.2006 15:29 |
Agreed. |
Freya is quietly judging you. 19.02.2006 15:30 |
Yup. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:31 |
Well I disagree. either you girls are NOT being honest or afraid to be totally honest, or you are really not women and just guys. It's been my experience that women DO NOT LIKE NICE GUYS! Women like jerks. They get turned on by Jerks. Why? Because there's something sexual to women about an angry, mean, masculine guy. He's dangerous, mean, rough, and it turns them on. This is for EVERY WOMAN. You so called women who deny it are being dishonest, or are not really women. Thank you. |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:31 |
One quick question: are YOU a woman? |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:33 |
Fact: I've experimented on this. In one case, I was totally nice to the woman. Totally polite. Totally gentlemanly. And I got turned out, rejected for a jerk. In another case: I acted like a jerk, showed little interest to her. Generally acted like a misogynistic womanizer. And this hot girl actually noticed me. Of course, me being what I am, I totally freaked out, and didn't know what to do next. But it proved my theory! Women like Jerks, bad boys. They do! They do! |
Janet 19.02.2006 15:33 |
How old are you? |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:34 |
Come on. Read between the lines. OF COURSE I'm a guy! |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:34 |
Well I disagree. either you girls are NOT being honest or afraid to be totally honest, or you are really not women and just guys. It's been my experience that women DO NOT LIKE NICE GUYS! "Women like jerks. They get turned on by Jerks. Why? Because there's something sexual to women about an angry, mean, masculine guy. He's dangerous, mean, rough, and it turns them on." - Okay, so I guess I'm just not thinking straight by dating a guy (whom I plan to marry) that doesn't treat me like trash? My boyfriend would never ever even consider treating me with such disrespect and you know what? That's something *I* value. Go log that in your notes, cos I'm obviously not a typical woman by your messed up standards. |
Freya is quietly judging you. 19.02.2006 15:35 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: But it proved my theory!Repeat that test 500 times then you'll have a true theory, you can't just do the experiment the one time, it proves nothing. |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:37 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Fact: I've experimented on this. In one case, I was totally nice to the woman. Totally polite. Totally gentlemanly. And I got turned out, rejected for a jerk. In another case: I acted like a jerk, showed little interest to her. Generally acted like a misogynistic womanizer. And this hot girl actually noticed me. Of course, me being what I am, I totally freaked out, and didn't know what to do next. But it proved my theory! Women like Jerks, bad boys. They do! They do!- Wow, you have TWO experiments that really do NOT prove your theory. This is nothing more than overblown generalization. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:37 |
Oh I'm the messed up one? FYI, I'm a naturally nice guy, and I hardly get dates. It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me. I've done research on this for TWO YEARS, and my conclusions are DEAD ON! I don't think you women consciously understand why and what attracts you. It's all in the subconscious. Women desire masculine guys who display natural leadership. Women LOVE to obey guys and LOVE guys who tell women what to do. Women do not like guys who want to delegate authority. women like take charge guys in life and in the bed! I am totally not bsing you. My theories have been proven in real life! |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:37 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Fact: I've experimented on this. In one case, I was totally nice to the woman. Totally polite. Totally gentlemanly. And I got turned out, rejected for a jerk. In another case: I acted like a jerk, showed little interest to her. Generally acted like a misogynistic womanizer. And this hot girl actually noticed me. Of course, me being what I am, I totally freaked out, and didn't know what to do next. But it proved my theory! Women like Jerks, bad boys. They do! They do!- Wow, you have TWO experiments that really do NOT prove your theory. This is nothing more than an overblown generalization. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:38 |
I didn't say it's just two examples. I have hundreds of cases, both personal and from 3rd party point of views collected over a TWO year period. |
bitesthedust 19.02.2006 15:38 |
Generally I have not had a lot of luck with women but I don't believe that they do not like nice guys. I believe that comment by the thread starter is just a smokescreen to discuss this idiotic, absurd and vile topic. I completely support the ladies' comments on this matter...whatever happened to the friendly nature of this board I do not know. |
Freya is quietly judging you. 19.02.2006 15:40 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me.Wow, and he's sexist too! You've proven yourself pretty much a jerk...is this where I'm supposed to fall madly in love with you? |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:42 |
<font color=violet>Poppy wrote:Geez...this is unbelievable. Women treat me like dirt in real life, and now, also online.SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me.Wow, and he's sexist too! You've proven yourself pretty much a jerk...is this where I'm supposed to fall madly in love with you? Do I have some B.O. that I'm unaware of? Do I have some sign on my head that says, HATE ME? I must or something. |
Janet 19.02.2006 15:42 |
I have been married for nearly 22 years. My husband has always been soft spoken, polite and gentle. He is a perfect gentleman and always has been. He still holds my coat for me, opens my car door, holds doors, and pulls my chair out. It was what attracted me to him in the first place, and what still attracts me to him today. He treats me like a lady. I can assure you that I know exactly what I want, and being brutalized by a man isn't it. If your theory is true, and woman like to "date jerks", you must have a date everynight. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:44 |
I think I must've entered some alternate universe where the women here actually make sense. Or maybe being online changes women to mask their subconscious true selves. In REAL life, I'm 100% sure women like jerks. I guess the new rule is: This does NOT apply on the net. Ok note to self: Online ! = Real Life. You women are CRAZY! |
Maz 19.02.2006 15:44 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Geez...this is unbelievable. Women treat me like dirt in real life, and now, also online. Do I have some B.O. that I'm unaware of? Do I have some sign on my head that says, HATE ME? I must or something.I think that you will find ignorance is a powerful repellent. Couple that with your overwhelming delusion about women, and you have a answer. |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:46 |
I hardly find your experiments credible when you accuse us of lying to your question. I also do not hate you - why should I feel compelled to do that? I simply disagree with your theory and it ends at that. I also wonder if you are not having luck with women because your view is off. You are making the generalization that women are only easy and only want men that will treat them badly. Sure you're not going to find a nice girl if you chuck them all down to that. IMO, anyway. |
.DeaconJohn. 19.02.2006 15:46 |
To be honest you sound like someone who has been rejected and taken it rather badly. As a result of it you have ended up with this rather warped view of women. |
Freya is quietly judging you. 19.02.2006 15:48 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: I think I must've entered some alternate universe where the women here actually make sense. Or maybe being online changes women to mask their subconscious true selves. In REAL life, I'm 100% sure women like jerks. I guess the new rule is: This does NOT apply on the net. Ok note to self: Online ! = Real Life. You women are CRAZY!I'm so glad I don't know any guys like you. |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:50 |
Yeah, we are the crazy ones. And we also just happen to be the ones not getting continually sexually abused/violated by our bfs and husbands. CRAZY! |
.DeaconJohn. 19.02.2006 15:51 |
Well Janet and Miss James are crazy...but...umm...thats another story... A different KIND of crazy shall we say? ;-) |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:51 |
No, I think the explanation lies in the fact that, this is the INTERNET, and not real life. See, online, I think people will behave sensibly because they only see words and nothing else. But in real life, women are easily swayed by their senses, and do not act rationally. This is why they will totally ignore the nice guy, and go crazy over the good looking but jerky guys. It is why on a friday night, you see the girls going home with the jerks, while the nice guys are standing around alone. Ok: note to self: do NOT take internet seriously because the internet is not real life. and vice versa. People do not behave online as they would in real life. In real life, I see it all the time. Bad boys get the hot girls. The nice boys are losers. You won't convince me that I'm wrong here. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:53 |
and I am certain that these so called "girls" here understand totally what I'm saying, but won't admit to it. Women will not admit that they are attracted to the bad boy type online. |
runy 19.02.2006 15:54 |
Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust? |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 15:55 |
runy wrote: Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?Wow is that you in your pic? You've got such a beautiful neck! |
deleted user 19.02.2006 15:56 |
Oh, DJ, you know we both are completely sane. We're just a little "off" every now and again. ;-) Actually, isn't the internet more of a place to tell completely lies and to act unlike yourself? I think I see another flawed theory. |
Maz 19.02.2006 15:57 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: You won't convince me that I'm wrong here. SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: and I am certain that these so called "girls" here understand totally what I'm saying, but won't admit to it.And I hope those thoughts keep you warm at night. You'll need something. |
bitesthedust 19.02.2006 15:58 |
runy wrote: Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?providing you're willing with your partner...exactly :) |
FreeSpirit328 19.02.2006 16:11 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it. It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.I like to be dominated by men in the bedroom, but that doesn't mean I like rough sex. Actually I don't like rough sex at all. |
YourValentine 19.02.2006 16:13 |
"Women like jerks. They get turned on by Jerks. Why? Because there's something sexual to women about an angry, mean, masculine guy. He's dangerous, mean, rough, and it turns them on. This is for EVERY WOMAN. You so called women who deny it are being dishonest, or are not really women" I hope they keep you in a cage. It's the oldest excuse of a rapist to say that the woman meant "yes" when she said no and all the fighting was just a sexual game. Take it from the women on this board: There is no excuse for abusive behaviour of any kind. |
SomebodyWhoLoves 19.02.2006 16:16 |
Ok whatever. Who said anything about rape? In the example I gave, it was her bf/husband, and obviously, given the context, the woman enjoys it. It's a game. |
Music Man 19.02.2006 16:21 |
You are trying to ask women their opinions on the function of their subconscious. This, by definition, is completely stupid. It is somewhat acknowledged that many women have a tendency to fall for "arrogant jerks" rather than "nice guys" when seeking a short-term partner. In fact, when seeking a long-term partner, it's quite the opposite. But these terms are extremely vague, and obviously this is not a blanket theory that can always be applied. Psychology is not like physics, where force will always equal mass times acceleration. Every human mind is unique, each shaped by past experiences and inherited characteristics. While men and women do have "trends," nothing is ever written in stone. Also, first impressions (such as when you would court someone in a bar) are also very different from encounters within a social group (such as when you would court a classmate, or a friend). How many times have I heard that you can't get a good friend of yours to date you? And how many times have I seen it happen? Don't be stupid and think one glove fits everybody. Now, we've all heard those same dating tips. "Women like men to be arrogant, but not overbearing. They like confidence and prestige. They like a guy with social status, but that's not important if you know how to play her feelings. She will be naturally attracted to what you might consider to be a 'jerk-like' attitude." Well, what would you know if that if you got that down, it would work 90% of the time. What people who give these tips don't realize, is the correlation between this type of attraction and the type of girls it attracts. A beautiful girl at a bar, at a club, etc. will probably fall for this routine. Why? Well, my conjecture is that a certain type of girl frequents such establishments. If you want to go work your mojo in a bar, go right ahead. It won't necessarily work on a Queenzone forum, in a high school, or in a book club. Maybe it will? Who knows. But one thing I and everybody else knows, is that it won't work all the time. Guaranteed. |
FreddiesGhettoTrench 19.02.2006 16:56 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it. It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.The thing is, if the woman WAS into it, then she would have told the husband/bf ahead of time and it would not be NC, it'd be more like a role play, therefore different than asked in the question. |
FreddiesGhettoTrench 19.02.2006 16:58 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Oh I'm the messed up one? FYI, I'm a naturally nice guy, and I hardly get dates. It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me. I've done research on this for TWO YEARS, and my conclusions are DEAD ON! I don't think you women consciously understand why and what attracts you. It's all in the subconscious. Women desire masculine guys who display natural leadership. Women LOVE to obey guys and LOVE guys who tell women what to do. Women do not like guys who want to delegate authority. women like take charge guys in life and in the bed! I am totally not bsing you. My theories have been proven in real life!Well, as a "nice girl", I say the same thing happens with guys. If you're nice to guys, they're not interested in you. If you treat them like dirt, they crawl back for more. Who knows why? *shrugs* |
FreddiesGhettoTrench 19.02.2006 17:04 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: In real life, I see it all the time. Bad boys get the hot girls. The nice boys are losers. You won't convince me that I'm wrong here.Well, I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't like bad boys. Well, at least not generally. I guess Mark Fuhrman is an exception ;) But generally, I like the Nick Berg/Ron Goldman/John Edwards type... The gentleman ^_^ |
-luke_taylor- 28432 19.02.2006 17:17 |
cadburys roses.... its all going on in the street i dunno where this is going but somebodywholoves is wrong, all women are different, so some women would like the idea that you said, the others wont, we're all different, as long as your grateful for what you get, i say that, because my gf said to me, "have you been having sex behind my back?" i said course i have, who the fucking hell did you think it was, also it wouldnt hurt if you turned round every once in a while to check on how im doing. |
Robin 19.02.2006 17:30 |
Well, I am a woman, I have no reason to lie about what I like subconcious or otherwise. I am married to a gentleman and that's why we are still married. He knows how to treat a lady and I would not tolerate being treated the way your sick scenerio plays out. Maybe that IS some people's cup of tea.....definately not mine. |
Lisser 19.02.2006 19:08 |
runy wrote: Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?This is how I feel as well. I like adventure and new things, but I do not want to be physically hurt, or emotionally hurt either. However, something out of the ordinary is nice!!! I'm not in to the violence thing or disrespectful thing. I wouldn't want to be called dirty names but I like new and exotic things. I'm not lying either. I'll always tell the truth. |
deleted user 19.02.2006 20:00 |
Janet wrote: After I hit him with a baseball bat, packed his clothes and threw them on the porch in garbage bags, and changed all the locks on the house, I might be a little turned on.LMAO!!! Only you Janet... |
deleted user 19.02.2006 20:05 |
Janet wrote: I have been married for nearly 22 years. My husband has always been soft spoken, polite and gentle. He is a perfect gentleman and always has been. He still holds my coat for me, opens my car door, holds doors, and pulls my chair out. It was what attracted me to him in the first place, and what still attracts me to him today. He treats me like a lady. I can assure you that I know exactly what I want, and being brutalized by a man isn't it. If your theory is true, and woman like to "date jerks", you must have a date everynight.As it should be. Women are to be treated with kindness and care. Not like a rubber fuck doll at the man's whim or fancy. I have always treated women with respect and love. And was never thought of as being a jerk because of it. At least I don't think I was... |
Music Man 19.02.2006 20:18 |
FreddiesGhettoTrench wrote:Actually, guys are more interested in physical attraction and personality. Would you say you are physically appealing? If not, no matter what your personality is, it will just naturally be difficult for you. Likewise, if you have a crappy personality, it will be very difficult to have a long, meaningful relationship, although the guy may be initially interested in your looks.SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Oh I'm the messed up one? FYI, I'm a naturally nice guy, and I hardly get dates. It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me. I've done research on this for TWO YEARS, and my conclusions are DEAD ON! I don't think you women consciously understand why and what attracts you. It's all in the subconscious. Women desire masculine guys who display natural leadership. Women LOVE to obey guys and LOVE guys who tell women what to do. Women do not like guys who want to delegate authority. women like take charge guys in life and in the bed! I am totally not bsing you. My theories have been proven in real life!Well, as a "nice girl", I say the same thing happens with guys. If you're nice to guys, they're not interested in you. If you treat them like dirt, they crawl back for more. Who knows why? *shrugs* |
Sherwood Forest 19.02.2006 20:33 |
ok this is what i hate to hear, i love nice guys i HATE bad boys " " like your talking about. I like tall, goofy, smart guys. I dont like the muscle guys at all with the slang and bad boy attitude, as a matter a fact i hate them. I much rather have a tall, skinny smart kid. and with what you wrote yea i think that would turn me on, sometimes. when i say sometimes i mean like sometimes i want a sweet guy and sometimes i would want one who takes charge ;) and thats the honest to god truth |
Janet 19.02.2006 22:04 |
<font color=green> M@tt wrote:It had to be said.Janet wrote: After I hit him with a baseball bat, packed his clothes and threw them on the porch in garbage bags, and changed all the locks on the house, I might be a little turned on.LMAO!!! Only you Janet... ;-) |
Music Man 20.02.2006 00:11 |
Ravenetta wrote: so to answer your question, i wouldnt want that.That's not what you said last night. |
Mr.Jingles 20.02.2006 09:10 |
JamieSureWould<br><font size=1>QOQOW wrote: ok this is what i hate to hear, i love nice guys i HATE bad boys " " like your talking about. I like tall, goofy, smart guys. I dont like the muscle guys at all with the slang and bad boy attitude, as a matter a fact i hate them. I much rather have a tall, skinny smart kid.Honestly I laugh at girls who like BAD BOYS, because they're just fuckin' stupid. For someone reason they find all that toughness, attitude, and arrogance atractive. However, when they find out that the boyfriend was cheating on them they start crying endlessly. It's hilarious, because the reason why a BAD BOY is a BAD BOY is because at some point on the relationship he's going to cheat. Don't blame the guy, blame the girl. BAD BOYS are not meant to be faithful, and whoever believes that they could, is a fuckin' moron. |
deleted user 20.02.2006 12:35 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: collected over a TWO year period.have you considered hiring a prostitute? |
Sherwood Forest 20.02.2006 12:57 |
Mr.Jingles wrote:EXACTLY!JamieSureWould<br><font size=1>QOQOW wrote: ok this is what i hate to hear, i love nice guys i HATE bad boys " " like your talking about. I like tall, goofy, smart guys. I dont like the muscle guys at all with the slang and bad boy attitude, as a matter a fact i hate them. I much rather have a tall, skinny smart kid.Honestly I laugh at girls who like BAD BOYS, because they're just fuckin' stupid. For someone reason they find all that toughness, attitude, and arrogance atractive. However, when they find out that the boyfriend was cheating on them they start crying endlessly. It's hilarious, because the reason why a BAD BOY is a BAD BOY is because at some point on the relationship he's going to cheat. Don't blame the guy, blame the girl. BAD BOYS are not meant to be faithful, and whoever believes that they could, is a fuckin' moron. and when you live in NY you see A LOT of this and hear a lot of stories- even when your in schools. You hear that the young thugs are cheating on their girlzz" (or boos) whichever you please. And i sit there and laugh at them because first off when your my age you shouldn't be doing anything with girls or boys where it counts as being cheated on. so idk w/e gimme a tall goof anyday specially a british one ;) |
flash! 28068 20.02.2006 13:02 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Does this turn you on? You come home, and your bf/husband greets you by grabbing you, pushing down on a table, twists your arm behind your back pinning you down, rips off your panties, and does the act, hard, almost violently, while calling you dirty names. Does it?WHAT THE HELL! Do you REALLY think women would get turned on by that?? Thats rather sick, my dear! |
deleted user 20.02.2006 13:10 |
Umm definitly not |
flash! 28068 20.02.2006 13:28 |
Ravenetta wrote:Please, dears...not in public!!!Music Man wrote:*gasp!* you werent supposed to tell! ;-)Ravenetta wrote: so to answer your question, i wouldnt want that.That's not what you said last night. |
Music Man 20.02.2006 13:36 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Oh my, we didn't do it in public! I mean...we didn't do it at all! Erm...Ravenetta wrote:Please, dears...not in public!!!Music Man wrote:*gasp!* you werent supposed to tell! ;-)Ravenetta wrote: so to answer your question, i wouldnt want that.That's not what you said last night. |
flash! 28068 20.02.2006 13:43 |
Music Man wrote:Whatever... you sound panicked...thats a sign you're lying! lol jk<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Oh my, we didn't do it in public! I mean...we didn't do it at all! Erm...Ravenetta wrote:Please, dears...not in public!!!Music Man wrote:*gasp!* you werent supposed to tell! ;-)Ravenetta wrote: so to answer your question, i wouldnt want that.That's not what you said last night. |
Music Man 20.02.2006 13:44 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Panicked!? Me!? What!? Look over there! It's a quail!Music Man wrote:Whatever... you sound panicked...thats a sign you're lying! lol jk<font color=red>Flash! wrote:Oh my, we didn't do it in public! I mean...we didn't do it at all! Erm...Ravenetta wrote:Please, dears...not in public!!!Music Man wrote:*gasp!* you werent supposed to tell! ;-)Ravenetta wrote: so to answer your question, i wouldnt want that.That's not what you said last night. |
flash! 28068 20.02.2006 13:47 |
Quial! where??? **shots** oh...shit! Sorry man! |
john bodega 20.02.2006 21:30 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it. It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.Hahaha. You crack me up. I think you're wrong though. |
Kensington Love 21.02.2006 00:10 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote: Quial! where??? **shots** oh...shit! Sorry man!LOL! |
john bodega 21.02.2006 09:43 |
"Well I disagree. either you girls are NOT being honest or afraid to be totally honest, or you are really not women and just guys. It's been my experience that women DO NOT LIKE NICE GUYS! Women like jerks. They get turned on by Jerks. Why? Because there's something sexual to women about an angry, mean, masculine guy. He's dangerous, mean, rough, and it turns them on. This is for EVERY WOMAN. You so called women who deny it are being dishonest, or are not really women. Thank you." Your exaggerated and ridiculous take on the phrase 'nice guys come last' is laughable. The fact is, I reckon there's a faint element of truth to it all, I'm pretty nice in real life and look where the fuck it's gotten me? I never wolf whistle, I never call out 'YEAH' when I see a hot girl, but every other guy I know who does that is *crawling* with pussy. It sucks but there you have it. But your initial post... that crap about the rape fantasy, is INSANE. And this last bit from you... "You so called women who deny it are being dishonest, or are not really women." I think you're latent. What you want is for a big masculine man to come into your house and do you up the arse. You practically outlined it in your first post, I reckon you're just projecting onto women because you have a hard time coping. Man, I think I'll become a psychiatrist! |
FreeSpirit328 21.02.2006 10:28 |
Look, I might be able to understand what your saying, but that doesn't mean it's true with all women. I think you might just be feeling down because your approach isn't working. I know how that feels because my "nice girl" approach doesn't work for me either. I personally can admit to being attracted to "bad guys, even though it's what I like, that doesn't mean it's what I need. I was involved with a "bad guy"...actually a couple of times, and I got hurt really bad both physically and emotionally. So I need to find a "nice guy." I also don't see any reason why I wouldn't be attracted to a "nice guy" either. A man can be assertive without being abusive. I have to say though, just because someone might be attracted to a dominant personality, that doesn't mean the dominant person has to be abusive. Being a leader does not mean causing pain or anythihng like that. It just means that they are assertive and in reality I think maybe that's what some women are attracted to. Also some women put up with the abuse because they have low self-esteme issues etc. |
jcrawford79 21.02.2006 10:54 |
FreddiesGhettoTrench wrote:That may be the strangest statement I've ever read.SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: In real life, I see it all the time. Bad boys get the hot girls. The nice boys are losers. You won't convince me that I'm wrong here.But generally, I like the Nick Berg/Ron Goldman/John Edwards type |
deleted user 21.02.2006 17:44 |
this was next ot save the whales today when i woke up so ithought it said Sex The Whales eeeewwwwwwww no thanks |
Sharon G. 21.02.2006 19:14 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Does this turn you on? You come home, and your bf/husband greets you by grabbing you, pushing down on a table, twists your arm behind your back pinning you down, rips off your panties, and does the act, hard, almost violently, while calling you dirty names. Does it?Only if my husband was Freddie. |
iron eagle 21.02.2006 22:45 |
beat me beat me call me ethel make me write bad checks |
The Real Wizard 24.02.2006 02:31 |
Zebonka12 wrote: The fact is, I reckon there's a faint element of truth to it all, I'm pretty nice in real life and look where the fuck it's gotten me? I never wolf whistle, I never call out 'YEAH' when I see a hot girl, but every other guy I know who does that is *crawling* with pussy. It sucks but there you have it.Sure, but keep in mind, the bad boys don't get anything in the long term. It will catch up with them! What you want is for a big masculine man to come into your house and do you up the arse. You practically outlined it in your first post, I reckon you're just projecting onto women because you have a hard time coping.SWL is a fundamentalist born-again Christian, so his religious belief is that homosexuals are evil. If this is indeed a battle with his sexuality, then multiply the battle by about ten. |
KEVPAR 24.02.2006 06:19 |
well it does ME rarrr lol Kev x |
KEVPAR 27.02.2006 05:20 |
well that killed the conversation lol Kev x |
flash! 28068 27.02.2006 13:29 |
KEVPAR wrote: well that killed the conversation lol Kev xIt did rather, yeah.... lol |
john bodega 28.02.2006 10:26 |
"SWL is a fundamentalist born-again Christian," OH you mean an 'idiot', right? |
KEVPAR 01.03.2006 09:36 |
is he really a fundamentalist christian? seriously?? hehe Kev x |
Winter Land Man 01.03.2006 12:24 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: Does this turn you on? You come home, and your bf/husband greets you by grabbing you, pushing down on a table, twists your arm behind your back pinning you down, rips off your panties, and does the act, hard, almost violently, while calling you dirty names. Does it?If it turned a girl on, it wouldn't be forced. Some women are into that kind of thing, but the majority are not. One of my friends said she likes being chocked during intercourse. As for the bad boy thing, you're going into the teens a bit. Teen girls may like bad guys, but they mature and grow up eventually. |
Hooligan's Holiday 03.04.2006 19:56 |
Fuck no, it doesn't. that's sick. |
its_a_hard_life 26994 03.04.2006 19:57 |
<font color=red>Flash! wrote: Quial! where??? **shots** oh...shit! Sorry man!HAHAHAHA!! Nice one Flash! |
blerp 03.04.2006 20:30 |
Yes, we like bad boys but not ones that will do that. Not all 'edgey' men commit violent sexual acts. It is called respect towards women, limits, boundaries, etc. I don't think any female would want to be in a relationship with a hardheaded jerk...Unless you're saying that all women are useless without a strong male partner. You're going into sexist matters, and I (as well as other people) hate that. It's definitely not a turn-on, more scary than pleasurable. |
Carol! the Musical 03.04.2006 21:51 |
SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it. It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.You are wrong. |
boca 04.04.2006 12:30 |
Maybe you're right with theory, but my advice is to behave normally, not to be such a jerk nor biggest geek in school. The hardest thing is to pretend that you're someone who you're not. If you're polite, that's what girls like, but when you're biggest geek in school, no matter how you're kind, you'll not attract them, generally. But I'll say once more, it varies from person to person. Don't take it like offense or something, I just want to help you, but how old are you? |
rosedewitt 05.04.2006 11:03 |
i would fell like raped, - not very erotic imagination... well when i am in the mood to have such hard sex i provoke it while dressing nasty and behave like that. but in normal mood, - well i would be scared by such a sex attack. |
-luke_taylor- 28432 06.04.2006 11:42 |
<font color=lime>KillerKing840 wrote: SomebodyWhoLoves should have a cactus up his arseok lets change the question Does this turn you on? You come home, and your bf/husband greets you by grabbing you, pushing down on a table, twists your arm behind your back pinning you down, rips off your panties, and does the act AND STICKS A CACTUS UP YOUR ARSE, hard, almost violently, while calling you dirty names THEN TWISTS IT. Does it? Yep it certainly does for me |
user name 06.04.2006 11:53 |
You could use a porcupine, head first. The best part is, due to the alignment of the quills - well, let's just say that the poor critter's egress is a lot of fun. |