ok heres teh situation:-
my best mate, had plenty of mates in school, recentyl he left (finsihed the year) and started dating a girl whos like 5yrs younger (pedo i know! im tempted to do something)
but also recently he has been pushing all of his closest friends awya from him, including me, doesnt want us even, and all of his otehr mates hes pushed away, we all got pissed off, and we did have a plan to sort him out but i cancelled that, cos tonight me and a few otehrs finally burst on him, and told him to stay away from the school, cos he has no friends there anymore, he now only has his gf. the rest of us are still mates, his final words on his msn screen name was "fuck all ov you, iv got my own life, get over it, get on with urs" like hes tellin us to fuck off compeltely, so we have.
was this the right decision, we dont want to take him back either, hes stabbed us in the back.
but now me and two of his othere EX closest mates feel very weak, dizzy, and faint. i know i will proabbly get over it but was this right? and should i phone the pedo hotline? hes like 20yrs old, shes 14/15!!!! and hes trying to get a job at the school too! PEDO!
please help!!!
Bob The Shrek wrote: What a bunch of bullshit.
Can anyone decipher this for people over the ages of 18 please?
his friend is 20. he's got a 15 year old girlfriend. they told him it was bad. he told them to fuck off. so they did.
whole story in 5 short sentences.
FreddiesGhettoTrench wrote: That's gross, really. A 15-year-old in a relationship with a 20-year-old is being taken advantage of. Enough said.
So the same goes for a 50-year-old with a 45-year-old, I suppose?
No, because a 15-year-old has not reached emotional maturity for a relationship like that. It's the same reason that teen pregnancy is a bad thing - they have not reached physical OR emotional maturity.
I agree. We have laws in place to protect our youth from such trangressions. And, there is a HUGE emotional difference between an eighteen year old and a twenty year old, let alone a twenty and fifteen year old!
Having said that, do you really want to hang out with someone who cannot get girls his own age?
FreddiesGhettoTrench wrote: That's gross, really. A 15-year-old in a relationship with a 20-year-old is being taken advantage of. Enough said.
So the same goes for a 50-year-old with a 45-year-old, I suppose?
Well, not really... to be honest, I gotta agree with FreddiesGhettoTrench on this one. Well and not to mention that a 15 year old is underage, whereas a 45 year old isn't. =BTW I am new on here :)
FreddiesGhettoTrench wrote: That's gross, really. A 15-year-old in a relationship with a 20-year-old is being taken advantage of. Enough said.
So the same goes for a 50-year-old with a 45-year-old, I suppose?
No, because a 15-year-old has not reached emotional maturity for a relationship like that. It's the same reason that teen pregnancy is a bad thing - they have not reached physical OR emotional maturity.
I'm with FGT on this one as well - on all points, not to mention that TQ's argument is completely ridiculous and not very well thought out.
I hated seeing some of the older guys while I was in high school dating girls a couple of years below me. Really weak as though the bloke couldn't nail a bird his own age
I think it's quite poor form to date that young when you're that age.
