Janet 26.06.2005 19:54 |
I just spoke to Bob, it is the eve of his mother's surgery. I think that some of you may know that she went into the hospital several days ago, and they first believed she had suffered a mild stroke. Well the results of some tests came back a couple of days ago, and it was learned that she hadn't had a stroke at all, but there was a tumor in her brain. Bob travelled to London this weekend so he could visit with her before her operation, and had the opportunity to speak with the surgeon. And I am afraid the news isn't good at all. He was informed that his Mum has a very aggressive form of cancer, and even with the surgery, and treatment, that her life will most likely end within 9 months. Bob in all honesty will probably not be visiting Queenzone much if at all in the next several months. His mother wished to visit America one more time, and his family are going to try to make that wish come true. I would just like to add that I have had the privilege of becoming aquainted with Robert's mother Maureen over the past couple of years, and I just want to say that not only is she a grand lady, full of life, but she is so much fun, and has a wicked sense of humor just like her son. Please keep Robert and his family in your thoughts and prayers. Thank you... |
wstüssyb 26.06.2005 19:57 |
This sucks, hate to say something like this, but I hope she does all the things she wants and has some fun in what time she has left =( |
deleted user 26.06.2005 20:02 |
Wow this is sad! :'( I hope she will enjoy her trip to America! Wishful thinking for her and her family from me! |
Victoria 26.06.2005 20:05 |
Regards for Bob's mum and family. We're here to support you, Bob. If you ever need it, just ask. |
KillerQueen840 26.06.2005 20:12 |
I am really sorry. Just keep praying is all you really can do, but that is also the most powerful way of helping. About 2-3 years ago my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer. He had a tumor that kept getting bigger and finally they decided that Radiation/Chemo Thearapy wouldn't help. The professionals said that he had no more than 6 months left to live. Well, later on the tumor completely disappeared. Then a little while later he got cancer again, but it is not spreading any more, so that's very relieving. He's still with us, today. Don't lose hope, and pray every moment you get because miracles do happen. You're probably not reading this, Bob, but I wish your mother the best and I will keep her in my prayers. I hope she's not in a lot of pain and I hope she will enjoy her percious days. Once again, don't lose faith and hope. |
Lisser 26.06.2005 21:32 |
I have spoken to Bob about this as well over the past few weeks. She's a strong lady and she's raised an excellent son. I won't be surprised if she beats this and I hope she does. All my thoughts are with you and mum Bob. She crosses my mind everyday. You know we are all here for you. Mel |
dragonzflame 26.06.2005 22:01 |
Sad news...Nobody should ever have to go through something like that. Hope the trip goes as well as possible. |
Goo 26.06.2005 22:20 |
I am very sorry to hear this, and if Bob gets the chance to read this, I would just like to offer him a small piece of advice: No matter what, keep a positive attitude about the situation. Not only will it help you feel better about everything, but it will make everything easier for your Mom if she's around people who haven't lost hope for her. It'll also ease he mind knowing that you're going ok, and keep the last chapter of her life a good one. Perhaps even more importantly, thinking positively and maintaining hope has been shown to help cure diseases like this - my Dad knows a woman who has cancer, who spends 20 minutes every day visualizing her own cells fighting off the cancerous cells. She was diagnosed 15 years ago, and she has never received any medical treatment. My thoughts, along with many others I'm sure, will be with you and your mother over the next few months. I hope for the best, and that you will all be able to get through this with the strength you need. |
geeksandgeeks 26.06.2005 22:47 |
wstüssyb wrote: This sucks, hate to say something like this, but I hope she does all the things she wants and has some fun in what time she has left =(Nothing wrong at all with that - I hope the same. Give my regards to Bob and his family. |
Saint Jiub 26.06.2005 22:57 |
Best wishes to Bob and his mum and the will to carry on ... |
Maz 26.06.2005 23:51 |
Cheers, Bob. |
Mr.Jingles 27.06.2005 00:13 |
My Bbest wishes Shreky. Have faith, be strong, and hope for the best. |
Lester Burnham 27.06.2005 00:49 |
All the best, Bob. |
Daburcor? 27.06.2005 01:20 |
Bob, My friend, I don't know what to say. I wish your mother, yourself and family all the best. You'll be in my thoughts as ever. |
Fenderek 27.06.2005 03:27 |
All the best, dude... Really sorry to hear all this... |
Erin 27.06.2005 09:40 |
Cancer is a horrible thing. I lost my dad in February, so I know the feeling of being told that a parent has X amount of months to live..:-( Enjoy the time you have left, Bob. Make it special. |
deleted user 27.06.2005 09:50 |
***Prays*** God Bless your Mum Bob!! we keep Praying!.. Rik |
PieterMC 27.06.2005 09:53 |
My thoughts are with you Bob. |
bitesthedust 27.06.2005 12:47 |
My thoughts are also with you Bob, sorry to hear about this. |
deleted user 27.06.2005 13:23 |
We Keep our Fingers **Crossed** |
deleted user 27.06.2005 14:42 |
I am very sorry to hear this news. Though I have never directly spoken to Bob's mother, I have heard plenty of stories that would endear anyone towards her. I know she is a wonderful woman. Bob, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. You know you have all of my best wishes. |
iron eagle 27.06.2005 15:12 |
bob we will be thinking about you and the family if by chance atlanta becomes a destintion--the home is always open for you and the family |
Flashman 27.06.2005 15:31 |
Thoughts and best wishes from all at the Towers. If she's 'owt like you Bob, she must be a grand 'un. |
eggy 27.06.2005 15:35 |
Best wishes Bob and family from me. Take care of yourselves. |
YourValentine 27.06.2005 16:56 |
I am very sorry to hear that. Watching a family member die from cancer is an experience we could do without. Sending you all my good wishes, Bob. |
Mr Mercury 27.06.2005 19:17 |
What can I say, except I wish Bob and his family including his mother can enjoy what time they have left together. Take care Bob and try and be strong. Dave |
Lisser 27.06.2005 22:34 |
iron eagle wrote: bob we will be thinking about you and the family if by chance atlanta becomes a destintion--the home is always open for you and the familyYou know this is true at my house as well Bob. We'd love to have you and your family. |
Krizzy 28.06.2005 09:12 |
So sorry to hear such awful news...my heart & prayers are with Bob and his family. All my love and hopes, Kriz :^( |
Robin 28.06.2005 11:27 |
Prayers and good thoughts going out to you and your family, Bob. |
Mrs Taylor 05 28.06.2005 12:34 |
thats such a shame. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you're family Bob. lots of love Mrs Taylor 05 xxx xxx |
Bob The Shrek 29.06.2005 04:46 |
Just popped on to say thank you for all your kind words at this difficult time. Mum had a 2 hour surgery Monday morning, they were able to remove a fair amount of the tumor and were pleased with how the procedure went and her recovery. Within 5 mins of coming out of theatre Mum was awake and asking for a McDonalds McFlurry, within an hour she was being fed that McFlurry by my brother!!! Mum has a Category 4 tumor which is very aggressive and will continue to grown into her brain quite quickly. They could not remove it all because it was too high a risk of damaging her brain. All they have done is bought her a little time. As Janet said, the original prognosis was 6-9 months and after witnessing my Mum's recovery after the op, they say that she is strong and she may last up to a year. So, no miracle this time. Mum doesn't know how little time she has, we want her to recover from the procedure as best as possible before finding out. That will happen next week when she sees the <insert medical title ending in -ologist> next week. Thank you all again. I won't bore you with continual updates and probably won't be around too much either - I have a year long party to help organise. |
Lisser 29.06.2005 18:59 |
Very good news. Things are going as well as can be expected. Please let me know how I can help. Miss ya Bob. |
Daburcor? 29.06.2005 19:17 |
I'm happy to hear that it went well, Bob! Good luck with the party! |
Bob The Shrek 02.07.2005 09:02 |
'Please let me know how I can help.' Find a cure for aggressive type 4 brain tumours - you've got less than a year. |
Lisser 02.07.2005 09:27 |
I wish Bob, you know I do. big hugs ok....miss you. :) |