ok their is this guy that i go bowling with every week. He pays for lunch and we split the cost of bowling.I dont know if we are going out or not and am very confused. He seems to like me and his mother told my aunt that he does like me. The question is should i get him a gift for christmas or not? My mom said that i should just in case he gives me one. My brother says that i shouldnt. What should i do!!!!!!!!
Do you like him, Pluto? I think if you like him (and if you think he likes you), you should get him a gift, but it shouldn't be too big. If you did that (and if you do in fact like him), he may see that as a very nice gesture and may like you even more for the sweet thought. :^)
Edit: okay, you do like him, so get him the gift. ;^) Or if you want to go the safe route, just get him a Christmas card.
If he pays for your lunch each week you can give him a present, no matter if you "go out" or not. Sharing the same hobby means you are friends and that's enough to get him a small present. Apart from that I would not trust the hearsay or family oracle, I would rather find out myself if someone likes me :)
deleted user 23.12.2004 12:59
Give him a gift! He will be so happy :) You know that he likes you and If you like him you should give him a present. Somthing that you would give a friend if you don't know If you are going out :P
He sounds like a right awkward twat.
You could buy him something, but keep the receipt. If he does'nt get you anything, then take your present back and get a refund.