Hi Gang!
So, how do I ask out someone at work?
It's so tricky in an open plan office - at least 70 people would see me approaching her desk and know I'd have no reason to ask her anything about work.
The body language is good - I think she fancies me back, it all looks good, so what next?
You decide!
Thanks,
The Voice.
Actually, I always thought you are a woman, VOR 2003. Must be the username :)
I have no advice for your dating problem. In fact, I think it's not a good idea to date someone from your working place in the first place.
One fine June day in 1982 when I was walking to the lunch room at my place of employment, a handsome salesman at the company walked up to me and asked me out on a date. On an impulse I said yes. This September we will be married 20 years.
:-)
Cheers Guys,
Plenty of good advice -thanks for your time.
MexQueen - quite like your tag line. Reminds me of the Oscar Wilde line - 'I always pass on good advice - it is of no use to me'.
Voice of Reason 2003 wrote:
Cheers Guys,
Plenty of good advice -thanks for your time.
MexQueen - quite like your tag line. Reminds me of the Oscar Wilde line - 'I always pass on good advice - it is of no use to me'.
;) , ask her out to lunch, very informally, it'd be better if you could bring some other coworkers, that way she won't feel freaked out
Blow in her ear - her knickers will just fall off.
Works for Flashy.
Make sure you haven't got a bad cold though, or you'll get a smack in the ol' chops.
A romantic alternative would be to leave some flowers (get 'em cheap down the local cemetary, be sure to wear your Reeboks) on her desk with a note thanking her for brightening up your days.
If she says she ain't interested, or takes out an injunction, tell her you didn't like her anyway and you were only doing it for a bet. You can always slip something in her drink at the next Christmas party, sling her over your shoulder, take her back to yours and get the webcam set up. That way, not only do you get to blow your beans, but also gain some potential blackmail material for future use. Everyone's a winner.
YourValentine wrote: Actually, I always thought you are a woman, VOR 2003. Must be the username :)
Still could be. You never know these days! I tell you, those gays are everywhere!
So my advice would be: ask her while you're both in the ladies room at the same time.
