QueenZone discussion #339945
what's the worst fight you've ever been in with a friend?
| Fairyfeller 30.03.2004 06:02 |
Since last week, Roxanne and I had a slight misunderstanding, and now we've ended up in this completely out of hand fight... I hate it, because I really love her, and I hate it because I want to get things off my chest. The problem is, she's just so damn stubborn, she'll never say that she might have said things differently, and she just says these things that are so painfull and so wrong. I could post half the fight here, but there's like things in it that are basically none of your business, it's dutch, and it's ten pages long in word, with 10pt font. It's just so crappy caus' she blows things up major. I now know I should not have gone into it. It was about a question she asked me, no idea what it was, and I gave this weird answer, which just included everything or denied everything, depends on what the question was, and she was like: that's not an answer. me: yes it is, you said this and this and that, and I replied. Incredibly uselessly, but I did reply, and it was an answer. I was joking around, and she took it seriously. she told me to piss off, and blocked me (yes, it's an MSN fight...today's youth...) I asked her what the hell was going on, and she said that she'd asked me three times to answer the question. somewhere in the beginning it was like: so why do you think I'd be nagging for an answer then? me: you're always nagging ;) you know, to cut it off, and end the fight. She said she wasn'tlaughing. me: k, I'll just get the ;) off then and she starts this entire saga on her being worried about me, and how smiley's are not going to solve it. I was pissed, she was stubborn, and then one thing leads to another, and now she's doing a test and I ended the fight with: yes mom. I was about to say good luck on your test, but the bird had flown by then Ever had that too? What's the worst thing you've been in with a friend? |
| iGSM 30.03.2004 06:14 |
Hm, probably the time that I caught one of my other friends cheating in Monopoly before I did. Bastard. |
| Bob The Shrek 30.03.2004 06:37 |
I once hit my brother with a baseball bat. |
| Fairyfeller 30.03.2004 07:08 |
dear god :S, that is bad...:D |
| Josuè 30.03.2004 07:48 |
I once kicked my bro on his face. We usually have arguments, but our last hand fight was about 3 months ago. |
| Daburcor? 30.03.2004 08:35 |
Friend fights eh? I am really bad a picking friends... Most of the supposed 'friends' I've had in my life time have screwed me over BIG TIME. One even broke into his OWN house (cutting the skin off of his knuckle) and told his mother it was me! And then he thought that telling me he was sorry would make up for it. This is only one case though. As I said, It has happened a LOT. Such is why I am not quite so trusting anymore. You can only take so much. |
| deleted user 30.03.2004 09:49 |
I never tell people how I feel, so it avoids messy confrontation. ;^) Sounds funny, but I'm actually being serious. |
| Daburcor? 30.03.2004 10:00 |
"I never tell people how I feel, so it avoids messy confrontation. ;^) Sounds funny, but I'm actually being serious." You shouldn't do that Manda, It'll eat you alive! :( |
| ^wicked^ 30.03.2004 10:05 |
I haven't had a real fight with a friend since high school. She was going out with a guy who was entirely inapproprate and wouldn't talk to me for 8 months. It was made worse by an ex-friend who was carrying false messages between us. I'd like to think I've grown a lot since then. My friends from uni are wonderful and supportive, and my boyfriend is the light of my life. |
| Sir Archie 'Tiffany' Leach 30.03.2004 10:15 |
Once headbutted a mate in Ibiza, didn't talk to said mate for 18 months and told him to shove his wedding invitation up his arse. All because he pinched a chip. |
| rhapsody__87 30.03.2004 15:38 |
Fucking high school drama fights that's what I get into! My now ex-friends snuck into my journal under an alias (which I unknowingly added to my friends list), saw all the mean stuff I wrote about them (because they gave me a reason to), and emailed it to people, printed it out and made my life hell. They'd call my house at like 2 AM and pretend to be other people. Um-- NO! They'd harass me in camp and in school. This happened last June. And some crap is STILL going on. Why MUST they be so immature? So that was many months of hell and now it's ridiculous. Now they just have to GROW UP. I hate high school (that aspect at least). I really REALLY do! |
| deleted user 30.03.2004 16:06 |
A friend of mine once accused me of ripping him off. So I laid him out. In the morning he said 'You sure can hit hard for a skinny guy' I said 'and don't forget it'. We laughed, and that was the end of it. |
| Mr.Jingles 30.03.2004 18:50 |
I haven't gotten involved into a physical fight since 6th grade. However, if we talk about fights with customers when I was working in the supermarket, I have lots of stories to tell. |
| iGSM 01.04.2004 05:08 |
Keep your friends close..but your enemies closer. *steals one of Archies' chips* Yoink. |
| runy 01.04.2004 06:30 |
Well, I'm not a very clashy person, but I know what you mean about your fight with the girl. I had much fight on MSN too some time ago. Thank God it's over. So my advice is to phone her or to try to make things clear in a real time real meet, not on MSN. You see, the advantage is that she can't block you then, moreover, you can see her face and decide if she's being serious with you. On the other hand, maybe she really meant something with her question? You know, girls always mean more that they say (I'm also a girl, so I know :)). Maybe she really needed you answer? And one more possible thing is that she's madly in love with you, you see, where love is, there always fights come. :) Anyway, good luck, and you better concilliate with her. :) |
| Sir Archie 'Tiffany' Leach 01.04.2004 16:35 |
'*steals one of Archies' chips* Yoink.' Thats alright I dropped that one on the floor. |
| iGSM 02.04.2004 05:20 |
I meant leg. When I say chip I always mean leg. All the time. |
| deleted user 02.04.2004 06:02 |
fights happen, only special persons can recover the friendship after that. if a fight leads a friendship to the end, i'm releaved: that means that it wasn't so special. |
| iGSM 02.04.2004 07:17 |
I don't lose friends. I only hate people before they even try to become my friends. |