ok i don't feel like posting it again but i need help and if you don't read this before the next... maybe 10 hours, screw it. don't reply. link
(btw, in case you didn't know, i'm stinky cheez)
What do YOU feel is right? In the end, It all boils down to you and what you are feeling. Judging by your posts here these past few weeks, I'd say you seem to quite like this Thomas fellow, No? Now, I know I'm not the best person to give dating advice (especially to a teenage girl) but, love is love, No matter who is feeling it. I think that if a relationship feels right, Then it needs to be given a chance to take shape. Does that make sense?Really what I'm saying is, You need to ask yourself EXACTLY what each of them means to you, And in the end, I'm sure the choice will be quite simple. Love doesn't come easily for any of us, at any time, And we aren't guaranteed to ever find it, nor the perfect person that we are looking for. But, If you find that one person, guy, girl, it doesn't matter, That makes you feel alive, special, or even just makes you smile... Don't you think you should at the very least attempt to tell that person your feelings? If there is one thing I do know, It's this...TAKE CHANCES! It's the only way you'll ever TRULY know. Good luck!
dan, i've sort of taken the chance before, but THEN he said that nothing could ever happen, but i'm starting to wonder if he's had second thoughts and thinking he was wrong... cause i mean, the last couple weeks, as i said on LW, we've been getting into all this "couple-like behavior"...
it's all just so confusing.
"Couple-like situations", eh? Well, There obviously has to be something there, unless the guy is just using you. You should have a long talk with him on all that has happened/is happening. Even if you have done it once before, You should sit him down again and get things straightened out. Usually when someone says "never" and they mean it, Then they won't comprimise. If he is a true friend, Or perhaps what you hope he is, He will gladly take the time to talk things over with you. It can't hurt. I mean, If he says he he doesn't want anything to do with you, Yet you continue to end up in a "couple-like situation", Then he quite obviously has no clue what he himself wants.
I totally agree, Dan. Angel, the only way to avoid confusion is to talk to him and get things straight. It might be a little tricky, but it's the only way. Good luck:))
Nina, considering all the things you've told me about this kid, I don't think I'd toss him off if I were you. I think it's a bit of a stretch to call it just a "friendship".
i finally did it! i asked thomas where i stand with him! AND YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAID?!?! FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DAMMIT I HATE EMOTIONS!!!!!!!! :'(
(i copied this from my post on LW.... i didn't feel like saying the same thing differently...)