Star* 24.02.2018 17:31 |
When i was 9 years old i discovered Queen, and when i attended secondary school most class mates mocked me as they were into Sex Pistols or The Police, but Queen were never in fashion. One lad use to mock me about Queen as calling them a pack of poofs and that they all slept with each other etc......... i was deterred and carried on my love for my fav band. i had the last laugh as in 1985 at Live Aid my beloved Queen stole the show! Did you have any situations with family and friends about Queen? |
master marathon runner 24.02.2018 17:46 |
Yes happystar, the cream always rises to the top ! |
Star* 24.02.2018 17:56 |
Master Marathon Runner: would like to explain more??? |
NastyQueenie74 24.02.2018 17:57 |
As I changed back into a Queen shirt in the locker room, the person next to me blurted out "she's a killer queeeeeen" |
Holly2003 24.02.2018 18:00 |
I was burnt in a wicker man for liking Queen. Tough school. |
master marathon runner 24.02.2018 18:43 |
Queen - the cream - rose to the top on the day (live aid ) |
Star* 24.02.2018 19:04 |
Wow harsh reactions just because we loved Freddie & the boys back then! I can recall Dj Janice Long say on radio one that she hated Queen and Tony Blackburn said in his autobiography he also did not like Queen. What with the British press giving the band a hard time and in particular Freddie , Queen were probably the most hated band from the 1970s. |
oligneisti 24.02.2018 19:24 |
I was called gay. Very often. Decided it shouldn't bother me. I know people who went the other way. Stopped listening to Queen because they didn't like the gay connection. |
Star* 24.02.2018 19:48 |
Oligneisti : Yeah back then Queen were asked in a pop magazine here in the Uk called "NO1" if they were a gay band and Roger said no there were not. We all know Freddie pushed the barriers as the years went on but he did do it with dignity and although he loved pretending he was a macho guy with the tache and leather most people loved that look to his earlier costumes of ballet suits and pumps! I think it was funny when Freddie would send people up by calling everyone "Darling" and he wasnt bothered if they were homophobic or what! He even declared he was "As gay as a daffodil" Classic Fred. |
Nick Browning 24.02.2018 21:06 |
My story takes place in 2012-2017 in a semi-rural Australian location, a Catholic school filled with snobby people was the best place to get mocked. People have said "Freddie deserved aids", the inappropriate hindsight "Freddie should've being more careful" and overall "Queen are shit" without giving me any reason. However, that didn't stop me for what I liked doing so I ignored them. |
Saint Jiub 24.02.2018 21:06 |
When I was in high school (76 or 77) two greasy pimply faced burnouts snatched one of my school pocket folders and wrote on it: "Queen suck donkey dicks ... even the red ones." Fortunately they did not have time to draw "tasteful" illustrations. |
Nick Browning 24.02.2018 21:07 |
Oh and many people in my school didn't take a particular liking to Freddie's personality but seem to respect Lil Wayne who a literacy level of a three year old. |
Jazz 78 24.02.2018 21:15 |
Oh hell yeah!!!! Well, not mocked but I had to hear a lot of gay slurs about them. And this is going back to 1978 when I was just getting into them! I DEFENDED that band!!!!! |
Star* 24.02.2018 21:18 |
Yes that is always the case, idiots get more respect than intelligent figures, take the Gallagher brothers from Oasis, those two use to break in to folks houses and smash the places up, Next minute they get called heroes but what for? They are only Beatle wannabes ! Freddie and the band were head and shoulders above other bands and it showed in there work and performances. |
Star* 24.02.2018 21:21 |
Jazz78 When my auntie had her silver wedding celebrations, the DJ was about to play a Queen record but before he did he made a homophobic remark about Freddie! He said over the mic, "Isnt Freddie Mercury suppose to be a bit funny" I nodded yeah and he shrugged his shoulders and played the record. I have defended Freddie my entire life! |
mike hunt 24.02.2018 21:23 |
Not really in school....I got into them later on in1989 I was a Junior In HS. I actually got praised for liking a classic band at such a young age. I did get a few Gay comments. Back then people thought the whole band was Gay. For young men That's a big deal, not me though....Now, fast forward to 1993 when Grunge was in style. Everything was Nirvana, I always disliked that band, so would wear my Queen shirt and get a few confused stares. These days my girlfriend got me two Queen Shirts that I occasionally wear to the gym and people look at me like It's good too see someone who likes classic Rock, not this crap they play today. They get more respect these days. Part of it is because all the so called cool bands, Metallica, Gun N Roses, Nirvana were all influenced by them. |
dysan 24.02.2018 21:35 |
Basically the same story. Everyone was into rave and house music. I was into Queen. Now they all have Greatest Hits in the car with their 10 kids. I do not have rave or house CDs in the car. I won. |
Saint Jiub 24.02.2018 22:00 |
I'll probably get shit for this, but back in the mid to late 70's when I was a teenager, I believed that Freddie was straight, based on a People Magazine article that showed loyal Mary Austin hanging off his arm. Little did I know that Freddie had already told Mary that he was gay, and it was all a ruse. |
mike hunt 24.02.2018 22:16 |
Panchgani, That's true.....I have older siblings that were teenagers in the late 70's that thought It was all an act, and thought Freddie was straight, citing that blond Freddie was married to. Of course that blond was Mary. |
dysan 24.02.2018 23:36 |
I remember one summer getting into Bowie and coming into school proudly pronouncing that my gay music liking days were behind me and I was all about Bowie now. 'He's EVEN GAYER!!!' came the collective reply. It didn't even dawn on me. Back to the drawing board. Even though looking back they were just repeating what they'd heard their dads spouting at the TV. |
Saint Jiub 25.02.2018 00:01 |
... but that's not true!!! Freddie is gayer because he did not sleep with Mick Jagger. |
The Real Wizard 25.02.2018 03:02 |
In the mid 90s during the grunge period, I cannot possibly quantify how uncool it was to like Queen where I grew up. |
mike hunt 25.02.2018 05:03 |
Wizard, you're from Canada right? |
ANAGRAMER 25.02.2018 08:40 |
I got into Queen in UK about 1977 It was distinctly uncool to like Queen at that time, essentially because of the roasting they got from the music press, regardless of what music they were producing Clear memories of being thoroughly embarrassed / nervous buying Mr Bad Guy and glad the 12" vinyl was carried home in a non see-through bag That all changed after Live Aid of course i don't really think it was related to the gay connotations, they were, for a time, a bit to corporate for the rugged music tastes of teenagers at that time Queen were the antithesis of the music ethic in the late 70s early 80s...and, from a UK perspective, seemed to be chasing the American market with every release. (Hot Space anyone?) |
Star* 25.02.2018 10:06 |
I was always in peoples faces with my Queen T-shirts and i remember i had the Queen crest on the back of my coat and under that it said : QUEEN THE GREATEST ROCK BAND IN THE WORLD! Some kids in town shouted at me " you have got to be jokin! I was so proud to be a Queen fan and i didnt care what folk thought about them, they made amazing music and had the greatest singer and guitarist ever! |
matt z 25.02.2018 12:32 |
I still have the comments in my yearbook saying"you're still gay"and one saying something like "i don't care what u say, Freddie mercury was a gay! " As if it had some bearing on myself. They weren't mean spirited "in my time" cause they came from inherited voices and through friends of mine. So. ....it was kinda just parroting things as the previous guy said |
Vocal harmony 25.02.2018 14:17 |
Growing up in the 70's there was a lot of finger pointing, he's a Queen fan. . So what! I was aware of the Deep Purple Led Zeppilin thing, most people liked one or the other, but what I als noticed with the people I knew was that the Zeppilin fans were more willing to accept my liking of Queen. The real dislike came with punk because the movement was so anti everything that had gone before and Queen and their fans were a target. |
Star* 25.02.2018 14:49 |
Yes Queen were even targets of discrimination even on BBC Top of the Pops, as they would ignore them even when they were going up in the charts and the nasty trick what they used to do is use Queens soundtrack to close the show, in other words stick two fingers up at Queen fans. The band were even snubbed at The British Rock & Pop Awards in the UK for years and years and it was only after Freddie died they then said they were going to put it all right and offer Queen The outstanding contribution to music award! I was fuming mad because it took a member to die before the powers that be acknowledged the bands talents. |
little foetus 25.02.2018 15:23 |
The Real Wizard wrote: In the mid 90s during the grunge period, I cannot possibly quantify how uncool it was to like Queen where I grew up.That's strange, we are quite the same age and i started being fond of Queen in 1993-1995 era and Queen was quite popular at school, kind of hype after Freddie Mercury death. I had a lot of friends who had the first GH and we were listening to Queen together. I'm a Nirvana fan too but it came much later, I had some friends who were Nirvana fans in 1993-95 and never had any problem with them. By the way, I have a funny anecdote. I remember that I have first heard the GH in my friend's home and loved it (was maybe 1993, i was 11-12 years old). I was convinced that the band was a modern band, I had no idea Mercury was dead since 2 years and that they had been existing since the 70ies and had a huge career. When my aunt (28 years old at the time) asked me what I wanted for my birthday, I told her "You certainly don't know this band (because you're too old?) but I would like a Queen disc". I can tell you she laughed a lot (and felt a bit old). But still she offered me the CD. :P |
Stick 25.02.2018 15:43 |
Grew up in the late nineties and never had a problem being mocked because I called myself a Queen fan. People at my school liked Queen and Freddie. I can't remember anyone being mocked because of what music they liked. It was a time of discovery so we we're all interested to explore different kinds of music. The only jokes that were ever made about Freddie to me were from my friends who, whenever I brought up that I liked Queen, used to ask me whatever happened to their singer? The joke being that they knew perfectly well what happened since I used to talk a lot about everything Queen. Just silliness between friends, nothing more. In fact, when Greatest Hits III came out a lot of people asked me if I already knew about it because they knew I would be interested in news like that. One time when the Wembley concert was on the telly, several people phoned me within 10 minutes to let me know. Of course I was already watching it but I thanked them nonetheless.. So no, no mocking at all. |
Star* 25.02.2018 15:51 |
Stick: You were so unfortunate to not have been slagged off about Queen but there again the 1990s were a very different generation and we were introduced about AIDS and that it affects everyone. People were starting to educate themselves about sexuality and gender. Only a year after Freddie passed away and they found a medication that stops death from Hiv, Poor Freddie had missed the boat, were others like Holly Johnson and Andy Bell are on medications and still with us. I am enjoying reading all the posts and experiences you guys have been through because of your love for Queen! |
people on streets 25.02.2018 16:50 |
Early nineties up to mid nineties when I grew up and discovered Queen, everyone was into Euro house music and Grunge. Queen was a very unpopulair band to like at the time. It started to change a bit after the Made In Heaven album. I never really got mocked for it, but most kids found my music taste a bit weird haha. Having said that, kids into metal always liked it when I was wearing a Queen t-shirt. Queen always got a huge amount of respect in the metal scene. |
Stick 25.02.2018 17:49 |
@ happystar Don't you mean fortunate? ;-) Yeah it must have helped that by the time I went to what some would call high school people were already knowledgeable about AIDS and pretty accepting of people who liked the same sex. At least where I grew up. Don't really understand what you mean by educating themselves about gender. I would have thought that no education was necessary after the genitals were spotted at birth. Of course, if both kinds were present, a little education might help understand why it happened. |
Stick 25.02.2018 17:52 |
@ people on streets In my experience I'm one of only a few people left who still enjoys euro house / happy hardcore on a daily basis. I've accepted how weird I am though. |
Star* 25.02.2018 21:45 |
Stick: My apologies yeah i meant fortunate lol When i mentioned gender i was meaning what peoples sexuality was like been Bi sexual or Gay. People were starting to accept other sexualities other than hetrosexual. Thank god to "stonewall" for standing up for the LGBT community and who knows if Freddie and Jim were still here they may have got married! |
people on streets 25.02.2018 23:21 |
Stick wrote: @ people on streets In my experience I'm one of only a few people left who still enjoys euro house / happy hardcore on a daily basis. I've accepted how weird I am though.I feel ya! Although I'm far away from enjoying it on a daily basis, I never shy away from a good euro house song or two! Strong female vocal, fake rapper, catchy beat. I love it. The nineties were the golden era of euro house music anyway. All this EDM these days is so fake... |
The Fairy King 26.02.2018 07:19 |
I got into Queen in 1991, when i was in 3rd grade and i must say that i have seen Queen go and out of fashion many times, especially in the 90's. In The Netherlands there was some hype around Innuendo, Freddie's death, The Tribute Concert, Made In Heaven and even the Dance Traxx album. They got a great deal of attention from Dutch television as well as MTV, documentaries, magazines and videos were shown regularly on MTV in the early nineties. I remember one day when i went to gymclass i had a Made in Heaven shirt on (which i got the with the album) kids were flocking to me giving me compliments and telling me their favorite songs off the album, which kind of amazed me as i thought they weren't popular at all. It was either house music or grunge in those days. The stories in this thread about being called whatever, the gay slurs etc are familiar i must say. One kid went as far as telling me (he was suprised i didn't know) that Roger and Freddie had a thing together and that the band broke up cuz of them...now ain't that something? Between the release of No-one But You and the 2002 one off Amsterdam gig they were basically out. I got the No-one But You single on my way to school one day and kids were basically asking me why? why bother? Freddie's gone. Move on. I wasn't done yet though, because i was still getting to know the catalogue by collecting their back catalogue. The Amsterdam gig in 2002 was another thing though, because i got the news that they were going to perform very late so i couldn't attend. So i watched it live on tv and i must say i had mixed feelings about it. The performance lacked soul, they seemed...off. Clearly missing something. Performances were hit and miss and the crowd didn't seem to care for most of the set. I also remember a class trip (must be mid 90's) when we went to some "amusement" park the busdriver had a mixtape on and all of a sudden '39 came on...i was over the fucking moon. Singing along, while kids were looking at me like i was out of it. I went to the busdriver and gave him some props for that and he himself was asking me how the hell i know this deep cut.. :D I never cared really that people thought they weren't cool or whatever, because in a way it made me stand out. |
Apocalipsis_Darko 26.02.2018 07:27 |
I remember I used to dress with t shirts of bands when I was 14/16l. R.E.M. Springsteen, Dylan...and of course Queen. One day, one stupid girl told me, Queen is great music, but is gay! She even doesn't know Queen was a band, se thought Queen was only Freddie! I answered, they were four membes, and yes the singer likes to penetrate another ass, so be carefull with your ass, ashole! |
The Fairy King 26.02.2018 07:37 |
Apocalipsis_Darko wrote: I remember I used to dress with t shirts of bands when I was 14/16l. R.E.M. Springsteen, Dylan...and of course Queen. One day, one stupid girl told me, Queen is great music, but is gay! She even doesn't know Queen was a band, se thought Queen was only Freddie! I answered, they were four membes, and yes the singer likes to penetrate another ass, so be carefull with your ass, ashole!Ah the classic "the guy with the moustache is Queen right" story. never gets old. :D |
Star* 26.02.2018 10:21 |
Fairy King: When you mentioned someone told you that Roger & Freddie had something going on together well i have heard those rumours too, but cannot confirm if that was true or false! A lot of 70s rockers seemed to experiment with men and woman back then, even Bowie & Jagger ended up in bed together! |
Vocal harmony 26.02.2018 14:17 |
Freddie and Roger. . . Really? When was this exactly? Maybe you'd like to share the story in more detail, rumour or not it might be interesting picking through what details you know. The Fairy Kings friend from the 90's I'd imagine must have read it some where or was told and passed the info on. Kids in school passing around stories is one thing but publicly writing you've heard the same story is worth delving into. When talking to any of the Queen crew and personal assistants it's clear that there was a huge difference between Freddie and Roger's accommodation arrangements both on tour or when working in over seas studios. |
pittrek 26.02.2018 15:02 |
I used to get a lot of "ooh, I didn't know you're gay" type of comments back in the day. I learned how to not care |
Invisible Woman 26.02.2018 16:52 |
I remember when I was in high school, back in 1993, we were listening remix " Living On My Own " a lot. Then a couple of years later, we all were crazy about " You Don't Fool Me ". I don't know what this is so special about that Freddie was gay. Many musicians, writers, painters, actors, directors are gays ( or were ). I don't really care about it. I don't know why I would suddenly say " well, this is a great song but singer is gay and I don't intend to listen to it anymore " . That's nonsense! Are gay people listening only music of gay singers? I don't think so. I love Queen and Freddie's music and I don't care if someone has prejudice. |
dysan 26.02.2018 18:06 |
Like I say.. it's people just repeating what their dad's said in the 70s. Same as when Arsenal lose and the offspring of Arsenal fans smash up their TVs. And wives. |
Chief Mouse 26.02.2018 18:45 |
No, because I never told anyone. And I'm glad. That's because I made a mistake of telling people I liked Star Wars, and it was pretty bad. Now Star Wars is cool apparently. |
The Real Wizard 27.02.2018 19:18 |
mike hunt wrote: Wizard, you're from Canada right?Yep, sure am. Even here, homophobia was still pretty bad in the 90s. |
The Real Wizard 27.02.2018 19:19 |
ANAGRAMER wrote: early 80s...and, from a UK perspective, seemed to be chasing the American market with every release.If anything, tunes like Break Free, Ga Ga and Magic were attempts to be suitable for BBC radio. By that time, BBC certainly had "a sound", the same way most radio stations did then (and still do now). There's very little that was American about Queen's sound after The Game, as far as I can see. |
Star* 27.02.2018 19:24 |
America is such a religious place and the coloured people over there are head strong about sexuality, so if your anything but straight you get ignored or verbally abused and i know it still goes on today. 2018 and people are still outraged if two men love each other, and in places like Jamaica, Africa , Russia, vigilantes go around beaten the gay people up and in some instances killing them. China must now be miffed when Wham toured there country as they had no idea George Michael was a gay man! |
The Real Wizard 27.02.2018 19:28 |
little foetus wrote:You grew up in France. Europe is just far more forward thinking than most places in the world. Canada was still stuck in homophobia back then (and much of it still is).The Real Wizard wrote: In the mid 90s during the grunge period, I cannot possibly quantify how uncool it was to like Queen where I grew up.That's strange, we are quite the same age and i started being fond of Queen in 1993-1995 era and Queen was quite popular at school, kind of hype after Freddie Mercury death. I had a lot of friends who had the first GH and we were listening to Queen together. I'm a Nirvana fan too but it came much later, I had some friends who were Nirvana fans in 1993-95 and never had any problem with them. |
mike hunt 28.02.2018 02:16 |
I know Queen were huge Most of the world...I was curious what their popularity is in Canada. Aside from the 90's Grunge era, how big is Queen there In General? |
The Real Wizard 01.03.2018 18:39 |
mike hunt wrote: I know Queen were huge Most of the world...I was curious what their popularity is in Canada. Aside from the 90's Grunge era, how big is Queen there In General?As big as in the US for sure. They're in public consciousness still, and in the top 20 or 30 "older" acts that people know and like. Definitely more popular than they were 20 years ago. But still a far cry from being second to the Beatles in the UK. |
The Real Wizard 01.03.2018 18:41 |
happystar wrote: Fairy King: When you mentioned someone told you that Roger & Freddie had something going on together well i have heard those rumours too, but cannot confirm if that was true or false! A lot of 70s rockers seemed to experiment with men and woman back then, even Bowie & Jagger ended up in bed together!It honestly wouldn't surprise me. The 70s saw a major sexual revolution. It was chic for guys to look both ways - Bowie and the glam movement made it all acceptable. Tonnes of famous musicians and actors gave it a try, some even before then. But mostly very quietly. The Bowie and Jagger story got out, as did Marlon Brando and Richard Pryor - but most kept it under wraps. |
mike hunt 02.03.2018 14:15 |
Rush is from Canada, they must be pretty big over there. |
mike hunt 02.03.2018 14:17 |
I think Roger is a typical straight man...don't think he would go that route with Freddie lol....though nothing shocks me anymore. |
Star* 02.03.2018 15:17 |
Queen are still "Record Collectors" most popular band out there and bigger than The Beatles! |
mike hunt 02.03.2018 18:51 |
Your funny HappyStar....no one's bigger than the Beatles. |
Dr Magus 03.03.2018 10:34 |
#its not even a real country anyway# |
Star* 03.03.2018 16:06 |
What i meant Mike was Queen are the most collectable band as far as The Record Collector audience is concerned as there was a poll a few years back and Queen came out top at no1. The Beatles were no2 and Elvis no3. |
kosimodo 03.03.2018 18:37 |
I was kinda mocking others for not liking queen... depeche mode... still think its kids music :) but thry couldnt get enough. |
kosimodo 03.03.2018 18:41 |
Well... i was teased a bit: i always said just 'Freddie'.. which made my classmates ask: Freddie who? Your neighbour? Stil makes me smile :) |
someonewholikesadam 04.03.2018 01:14 |
I bet a lot of you on here were mocked in school. But I doubt it was for liking Queen. Hahaha! I amuse myself so. |
The Cross 04.03.2018 02:48 |
Funny. The date and time of this post are almost the same as link |
people on streets 04.03.2018 18:48 |
The Fairy King wrote: I got into Queen in 1991, when i was in 3rd grade and i must say that i have seen Queen go and out of fashion many times, especially in the 90's. In The Netherlands there was some hype around Innuendo, Freddie's death, The Tribute Concert, Made In Heaven and even the Dance Traxx album. They got a great deal of attention from Dutch television as well as MTV, documentaries, magazines and videos were shown regularly on MTV in the early nineties. I remember one day when i went to gymclass i had a Made in Heaven shirt on (which i got the with the album) kids were flocking to me giving me compliments and telling me their favorite songs off the album, which kind of amazed me as i thought they weren't popular at all. It was either house music or grunge in those days. The stories in this thread about being called whatever, the gay slurs etc are familiar i must say. One kid went as far as telling me (he was suprised i didn't know) that Roger and Freddie had a thing together and that the band broke up cuz of them...now ain't that something? Between the release of No-one But You and the 2002 one off Amsterdam gig they were basically out. I got the No-one But You single on my way to school one day and kids were basically asking me why? why bother? Freddie's gone. Move on. I wasn't done yet though, because i was still getting to know the catalogue by collecting their back catalogue. The Amsterdam gig in 2002 was another thing though, because i got the news that they were going to perform very late so i couldn't attend. So i watched it live on tv and i must say i had mixed feelings about it. The performance lacked soul, they seemed...off. Clearly missing something. Performances were hit and miss and the crowd didn't seem to care for most of the set. I also remember a class trip (must be mid 90's) when we went to some "amusement" park the busdriver had a mixtape on and all of a sudden '39 came on...i was over the fucking moon. Singing along, while kids were looking at me like i was out of it. I went to the busdriver and gave him some props for that and he himself was asking me how the hell i know this deep cut.. :D I never cared really that people thought they weren't cool or whatever, because in a way it made me stand out.Sounds very familiair :) |
bucsateflon 06.03.2018 08:46 |
but if you said you like "Led Zeppelin" sounded way cooler to everyone, although nobody knew shit about them |
Iron Butterfly 08.03.2018 10:08 |
The Real Wizard wrote: In the mid 90s during the grunge period, I cannot possibly quantify how uncool it was to like Queen where I grew up.Yes, it was very uncool to say the least at that time for me too. It began with teasing, and became worse. I literally had to move away from the town I once lived in because I was bullied so badly. |
Star* 11.03.2018 11:18 |
Bullet: That is awful what you had to go through just because you loved Queen's music. May i ask are you British or American? |
Pingfah 12.03.2018 16:53 |
Yes, certainly I got a bit of flack for it, I was at school in the 80s and early 90s. But really, not so much, because everybody knew Queen were an amazing band, even if it was easy to use Freddie's sexuality to tease fans of the band. |
Star* 12.03.2018 17:01 |
I honestly think if Freddie had not been gay then Queen would not have been so magnificent. Freddie was flamboyant and very stylish and his sexuality went a long way to get the showman that we had for Queen. |
Iron Butterfly 12.03.2018 21:24 |
happystar wrote: Bullet: That is awful what you had to go through just because you loved Queen's music. May i ask are you British or American?Canadian. It was awful. Dangerous even. |
tomchristie22 12.03.2018 22:27 |
Went to a Christian school so there was quite a bit of homophobia. Knew a couple people who outright refused to accept Queen as a good band because 'aren't they all gay?' |
Iron Butterfly 13.03.2018 07:53 |
tomchristie22 wrote: Went to a Christian school so there was quite a bit of homophobia. Knew a couple people who outright refused to accept Queen as a good band because 'aren't they all gay?'Isn't it messed up that so many people assumed all members of Queen were gay? Mind boggling. |
Star* 13.03.2018 10:36 |
Yeah a lot of kids at my school years ago, slagged me off for liking Queen, some kid said to the others "There all a bunch of poofs" very sad that kids back then judged groups by there sexuality to be accepted! |
Iron Butterfly 13.03.2018 23:56 |
happystar wrote: Yeah a lot of kids at my school years ago, slagged me off for liking Queen, some kid said to the others "There all a bunch of poofs" very sad that kids back then judged groups by there sexuality to be accepted!Yep. How cruel and thoughless some people can be. |
MiracleTour1989 14.03.2018 16:48 |
I've shared before some of the shitty reactions and slights I've encountered over the years. Including the time a family member threw my Queen Greatest Hits cassette that I had just purchased out of disgust. Yeah, that happened. Queen is a massive band all over the world and I think the homophobia thing has died down a bit, at least in the US. I always wonder though how much bigger they'd be if Freddie was straight. Of course that changes the whole dynamic and I certainly don't need that, but it makes me wonder. Because there are a lot of people who will not give them a fair shake because of that one reason. And that's pretty sad. |
mike hunt 15.03.2018 19:49 |
That's not true these days....Queen are respected in the US, but for some reason bands with a more simple straight forward Rock sound are more popular. Nothing to do with being gay. These other bands have the cool factor going for them. Rock fans admit Queen were better than those bands, but they rather listen to the basic Rock sound than songs like The Million Watlz or Good Company. ACDC and Kiss will always be more popular than Yes, but who was better? |
Star* 16.03.2018 10:50 |
I was never attracted to listening to Kiss, Yes or AC/DC, i preferred to listen to bands that was had a Queen influence in them like The Sweet & Pilot and even ELO were a great band. |
MiracleTour1989 16.03.2018 12:29 |
I'd wager that part of the "for some reason" that other more straight-ahead rock bands are bigger in the US has to do with Freddie's sexuality. Classic rock stations are programming for men in their 40s-60s. A band like AC/DC, Led Zeppelin or Aerosmith is going to be a safer bet than Queen, even though I know they're more respected and popular than they were even 15 years ago. |
mike hunt 16.03.2018 12:41 |
Than why is Elton John an Icon? In the Metal world Priest are considered the Metal Gods? ..I agree in the 80's this was a problem. I remember being A huge priest fan in the 80's and people giving me a hard time about how gay Halford was....I still get that with Freddie a bit, but anyone over 40 don't or shouldn't care about that. With all the talk about Queens popularity in America....do people realize They're in the top 50 in record sales of all time? Not great, but not so bad either. |
Star* 16.03.2018 13:12 |
Yeah it is a joke that the Americans snubbed Queen because Freddie fancied Men, yet today Adam Lambert is even more outrageous than Freddie ever was with his gayness and over the top campnes. I wonder what the American homophones think about Lambert ? |
mike hunt 16.03.2018 20:19 |
Happystar, People in America don't talk much about Lambert...he's really a non factor. If he sells records here it's mostly teenage girls. I live in Ny, never do I hear anything about him. The real Rock fans of classic Queen think they turned into a Joke. |
mike hunt 16.03.2018 20:23 |
Just as a side note....when Rodgers played with them in NY....I remember hearing a conversation between two people who were saying they sounded pretty good, but they really need Freddie Mercury. Hinting they were good, but boring. This combo is ten times worse. Embarrassing is the word. |
Star* 17.03.2018 22:30 |
Yeah Lambert with Queen is embarrassing and limp. How May & Taylor wanted to replace Mercury who is regarded the best ever in the business with Lambert is beyond me. |
RS_Protos 19.03.2018 13:38 |
"Happystar, People in America don't talk much about Lambert...he's really a non factor. If he sells records here it's mostly teenage girls. I live in Ny, never do I hear anything about him. The real Rock fans of classic Queen think they turned into a Joke. " Totally agree and have heard the same |
Star* 19.03.2018 18:55 |
RS_Protos Yes Queen are one big joke now but they have no shame and dont care they have pissed off there long ardent fans. Its called arrogance and May & Taylor are full of it. |
RS_Protos 20.03.2018 14:08 |
Agree. It's all about the money................ |
Star* 20.03.2018 19:22 |
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Star* 20.03.2018 19:24 |
what hacks me off is that Brian whips up so much hype about Lambert and at one point he was saying Lambert is a better singer than Freddie ever was which is truly disrespectful to Freddies hard work in that band. May has become arrogant, crazy and self obsessed with Adam. |
tennagerfanofqueen 25.03.2018 06:58 |
Hi everyone. I am 13 and I am fan of Queen. I discovered this band 2 years ago. I am the only pupil of my school being a real fan of Queen. Most people of my school listen to rap but I don’t like this type of music so I told only my friends that I was fan of Queen but they don’t want to talk about it because they are not interesting. Outside school I have a friend that I made her discover Queen. She became a fan and every time we met we talk about Queen and Freddie Mercury . It’s so cool ! |
Star* 25.03.2018 09:21 |
TeenagerfanofQueen : Congrats for finding Queen! You have great taste in music and discovering Freddie Mercury and what he stands for in this day and age is pretty special. I can tell you Freddie was a very talented musician and a gentle soul off stage. He is more talented than any of the music artists of today, and he is classed as a rock legend and probably the greatest of them all. Enjoy Queens music, but dont abuse it by listening to Adam Lambert trying to sing Freddie's songs as that is just cruelty to music. |
tennagerfanofqueen 25.03.2018 14:45 |
Thank you. I agree with you . But I didn't know that Brian may said that Adam Lambert was a better singer than Freddie. That surprise me and I don't agree with him, for me Freddie is irreplaceable. A lot of singers can try to sing his songs and to imite him but they will never be as great as him. It's my opinion and it is not because Freddie died that one can be disrespectful towards him... |
Chief Mouse 25.03.2018 14:48 |
He never said Adam was a better singer. He basically said that Adam is able to consistently nail the high notes live whereas Freddie usually wouldn't & couldn't go there in a live situation. And he is right, Adam is great at doing the high notes and he is in shape every night. That said, I'm not a fan of Adam and I don't particularly like the sound of his voice. I just wish people stopped bashing him, it gets old. |
tennagerfanofqueen 25.03.2018 15:46 |
I don't know what to believe because I didn't saw Brian May saying that or saying what happystar said but I think people should stop bashing Adam too. I know in an interview Brian said : “People are going to say to us: ‘You know, is this really Queen without Freddie?,' “Well, I have no idea. I don’t know what the answer to that question is, but people want to hear Queen music and they want to hear it done great, and they want to have Roger and I play — and we love to play. So, having this opportunity is great.” I think Adam Lambert hasn't got a voice as amazing as Freddie Mercury but he is a good singer too. It's cool that there are still Queen concerts today but if I've got choice between go to a concert of Queen and Freddie or of Queen and Adam Lambert I'll choose Queen and Freddie of course. |
Star* 25.03.2018 16:02 |
Chiefmouse: Does not mean Lambert is a better singer than Freddie because he can screech a high note. Freddie brought the roof down at Wembley Arena for Live Aid back in 1985 and it was his greatest performance to date. Lambert is still a novice and a very different sort of singer to Freddie but not for the better. Freddie has ambience and feeling in his voice were Lambert puts nothing into his voice and its just bland. Sure we all like to see Brian & Roger playing live but not in this degrading way with an American Idol reject its so cheap and naff. |
tomchristie22 25.03.2018 21:33 |
Chief Mouse wrote: He never said Adam was a better singer. He basically said that Adam is able to consistently nail the high notes live whereas Freddie usually wouldn't & couldn't go there in a live situation.It's a true statement, but pretty shameless too - most of the time their official line is 'this isn't about comparison to Freddie'. Normally Adam's presence in the band doesn't incense me like it does for some people, however if Brian himself wants to make it a matter of comparison, then of course Adam is going to lose every time. Hitting the high notes doesn't mean all that much when it's done without any sense of dynamics or sensitivity, and his delivery is still incredibly overwrought across the board. Overall he has improved a lot since the beginning, but he's still a one trick pony whose voice can be incredibly grating. |
Chopin1995 26.03.2018 08:22 |
True. If what makes singer great is hitting high notes and vocal range then she should be consider the best singer in the history. Luckily this isn't the case: link |
Dr Magus 26.03.2018 12:05 |
Lambert is just a karaoke singer. Ten a penny. |
Star* 26.03.2018 12:43 |
Squealing like a fat pig more like and they call it reaching a high frequency! Its nothing to be proud of is it. Singing a song in tune is much more important and believing what you are singing. |
Jonorare 27.12.2019 10:25 |
Maybe I was just lucky with the class and school, but I never came across this. When I had just the back of psychology and I read this review of the Boomessays in an attempt to understand whether they can cope with such a topic. And this was probably the only time I found out about such a story that unfortunately turns out to happen quite often in schools |
stevelondon20 28.12.2019 17:24 |
Dr Magus wrote: Lambert is just a karaoke singer. Ten a penny.Rubbish. You are talking complete bollocks. |
MisterCosmicc 28.12.2019 19:43 |
mike hunt wrote: Happystar, People in America don't talk much about Lambert...he's really a non factor. If he sells records here it's mostly teenage girls. I live in Ny, never do I hear anything about him. The real Rock fans of classic Queen think they turned into a Joke.True story. The only time Adam is mentioned on the radio here, it’s Queen related. His solo stuff flopped everywhere. Not once have I heard a track by him on American radio... he’s more than likely on some commercialized bubblegum pop station. I’m not TOO far from you, and Queen has always been praised here. Adam Lambert isn’t rock, no one I know personally, even hardcore Queen fans, they don’t discuss Adam at all. He’s unimportant to them. It’s not a topic of conversation, even if a non-hardcore Queen fan mentions Queen to me. It’s strange how Adam Worshippers think he’s revived Queen. A lot of people thought my love of Queen has something to do with my sophistication and intelligence. Many rednecks around. I’ve been downright told by one, “I’m just not smart enough to understand Queen.” Queen here are viewed as a sophisticated, catchy, hard rock band, with great anthems. They are known by everyone. Funnily enough, before and after Freddie died, if you look in the senior class section in yearbooks, and read about the seniors, the biggest fans of Queen tend to be jocks and intellectuals. |
MiracleTour1989 28.12.2019 20:01 |
There's no doubt that countless people held Freddie's sexuality against the band. Yes, millions didn't give a damn about it and rightfully so. But far too many did, here in the US and elsewhere. Two members of my family reacted badly to Queen because of Freddie's orientation. And there have been plenty of comments from others over the years. And the biggest shame to me is that so many people never gave the band a chance. And this is a band they might love. Out of sheer ignorance and prejudice and fear. Things are much better now and America is a more tolerant place. People seem to understand just how talented this band was. They weren't just a relic from the '70s. But without question this band has faced an uphill climb in lame, conservative areas. Keep in mind the very first time I ever saw a Queen video someone called Freddie an all-too-familiar slur. They've had a ton to overcome, and that's really quite sad. |
YAFF4EVER 30.12.2019 15:32 |
Yep. Around the time of IWTBF junior high kids would try to tell me "Queen are a gay band". I would just tell them to fuck off and that they weren't. I don't remember caring if they were tho'. |
Veyeynae 17.01.2020 15:41 |
I have not seen such actions in our society. Everything was normal and respectful of human hobbies. |
Veyeynae 23.01.2020 19:39 |
I've never seen this in my community. It may have happened somewhere, but not in front of me. |
Veyeynae 23.01.2020 19:40 |
I've never seen this in my community. It may have happened somewhere, but not in front of me. |
Veyeynae 23.01.2020 19:52 |
http://www.queenconcerts.com/queenzone/1562045.html |
Veyeynae 23.01.2020 19:53 |
http://www.queenconcerts.com/queenzone/1562045.html |
sundar 24.01.2020 03:26 |
Queen are gay champions of rock music. Seriously, after listening to the love songs by/of freddie, which are obviously true, if he is gay then he hid his homosexuality well. Such allegations only seem to be made by people envious of the musical prowess of Queen as individuals and as a group. They had barely even begun to scratch the surface of their huge musical talent and ability and potential, and yet even this little wetting of their feet has left behind such a rich legacy. Now that is a wealth and a treasure worth seeking, pillaging and plundering and looting and not just keeping but amassing, and the only way to do that is by making incredibly good music. |
Cello0 11.03.2020 13:14 |
Growing up in the mid 80s Queen were uncool at the Scottish high school I went to. But then The Beatles were probably even less cool to be into, so in hindsight I realise what a load of bollocks music "cool factor" is. |
Cello0 11.03.2020 13:22 |
Mocking someone's taste is a sign of insecurity though, so the more someone mocks, the more you can secretly laugh at their insecurity. |
AlbaNo1 11.03.2020 21:09 |
When I read the posts about homophobia in the US or Canada that surely must have hit sales among their target audience which was still broadly mainstream rock. Led Zeppelin or other bands who feature high on these certified sales lists posted by those wishing to denigrate Queen’s global status to spite other fans didnt have those issues. If we could take today’s more liberal social attitudes and somehow transport that into the 70s and 80s I wonder how much bigger Queen could have been. |
brENsKi 11.03.2020 22:30 |
AlbaNo1 wrote:When I read the posts about homophobia in the US or Canada that surely must have hit sales among their target audience which was still broadly mainstream rock. Led Zeppelin or other bands who feature high on these certified sales lists posted by those wishing to denigrate Queen’s global status to spite other fans didnt have those issues. If we could take today’s more liberal social attitudes and somehow transport that into the 70s and 80s I wonder how much bigger Queen could have been.posting Global sales figures isn't about denigrating anything. whenever, i've posted any - it's in the interests of accuracy. if an over-stating of Queen's sales figures is made and left unchallenged, these can quickly become "facts". well, i doubt they'd have been as big as Zep (worldwide) for (maybe) three reasons: >> Zep had five years head start and were at the peak of their powers when Queen came along. - so all there were, were comparisons early on. >> Zep were an album band - the album buying public is seen as more grown up than the single buyers...and more importantly, album sales generate far more than singles sales. more income = more promotion = more income etc etc. >> Grant was infinitely better at management than Sheffield was for Queen |
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