Mr.Jingles 05.08.2007 06:09 |
OK, I asked this question on the Muse board and I got quite a lot of responses. Most of the responses from girls said that it's truly uncomfortable when guys just stare, but it seems like they understand why guys want to look and some of them don't mind when guys just take a little peek. This is the thread I started... link Now check pages 11 & 12, because even though I only asked for opinions on the subject, I ended up getting more than I bargained for. |
.DeaconJohn. 05.08.2007 06:34 |
I love how some girls get all offended about this kind of thing but more or less walk around with them hanging out. What else did they expect? |
The Mir@cle 05.08.2007 06:50 |
Don't expect to show off my cleavage... sorry. xD |
The Fairy King 05.08.2007 06:51 |
We all know whose reply we're eagerly waiting on... |
thomasquinn 32989 05.08.2007 07:16 |
Who would that be? |
Raf 05.08.2007 07:53 |
I'm slowly beginning to get worried that this thread will be full of perverted men and hardly any girl. |
thomasquinn 32989 05.08.2007 07:56 |
What did you expect, with a title like this? |
john bodega 05.08.2007 08:06 |
<b><font color="#FF1493">The Fairy King wrote: We all know whose reply we're eagerly waiting on...Let me get my camera... |
eenaweena 05.08.2007 08:18 |
wrong! girl #1. 1. i don't flash them 2. i have a non-existent chest 3. i get offended for other girls, though. |
Janet 05.08.2007 08:22 |
I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-) But if someone took a look, it wouldn't bother me. I wouldn't want some creep to continue leering at me, however. If a girl/woman doesn't want that extra attention from males, she should keep the "gals" under wraps! |
its_a_hard_life 26994 05.08.2007 08:25 |
I don't like it. Raffy is aloud, only him. :-D |
thomasquinn 32989 05.08.2007 08:30 |
Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. |
Janet 05.08.2007 08:33 |
<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Okay, how about "Old Girl" then?Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. |
Freya is quietly judging you. 05.08.2007 08:50 |
Hmmm. That's a difficult question to answer. I don't mind, as long as it isn't making me feel uncomfortable.. There have been a few occasions where I've felt like punching people in the face, but usually it doesn't get that far. I suppose I do have a large pair and I'm not exactly shy about showing cleavage, so I've got to expect it to some degree, but what always surprises me is when I'm walking along the road wearing jeans and a shirt and I still get men driving past beeping their horn or pulling down their window to make some pervy comment, what's with that? Anyway, I've got used to it now, it's been happening to me since I was about 13 and hey, my breasts got me into one of my favourite celebrity's dressing rooms which was... interesting. So yes... on the whole I don't mind, but sometimes it starts to annoy me a little. |
Raf 05.08.2007 09:02 |
<font color="#FF00FF">its_a_hard_life wrote: I don't like it. Raffy is aloud, only him. :-D*cough* ;D |
.DeaconJohn. 05.08.2007 09:32 |
Janet wrote:How about "Mad Cow" then?<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Okay, how about "Old Girl" then?Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. ;-) |
***Marial-B*** 05.08.2007 09:46 |
I do sometimes, depending how they're seeing them |
deleted user 05.08.2007 09:50 |
I don't mind people staring at me (unless it's because they find me truly repulsive) but if it was just my chest then I probably would be uncomfortable. |
Janet 05.08.2007 10:11 |
.DeaconJohn. wrote:Mooooooooooooooooooooooo!Janet wrote:How about "Mad Cow" then? ;-)<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Okay, how about "Old Girl" then?Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. |
steven 35638 05.08.2007 10:13 |
Now, this has to be one of the most, if not the most, perverted thread I've ever entered on Queenzone. As far as I'm aware most girls are quite displeased with the opposite sex, or in some cases the same sex, staring at their breasts. However, there are those select few who are just as perverted as the typical male. The one thing that annoys me, are those who purposely wear small clothing yet in the long run hate it when they're being stared at. They had it coming if you know what I mean. |
AspiringPhilosophe 05.08.2007 10:20 |
After checking out page 11 as indicated by Dan, I now know why he started the thread there. You can pretend all you want Dan, but I know that somewhere down deep in yourself you were HOPING someone would do something like that. You can't fool me :-P As for the question, I used to get a lot of that...not so much anymore (for reasons that won't be discussed). Anyway, when I used to have that happen a lot, I can tell you it was more annoying than uncomfortable for me. I understand that guys are ruled by the penis, so I understood the looking to that area of my anatomy. But when they stared at it, it didn't make me uncomfortable, it made me annoyed because they were obviously in the male zone and not listening to anything. Although I had fun with it. If I was talking and a guy was staring at me that way, I'd just keep right on talking in the same tone and speed and slip in something like "and my boobs don't talk, you know, so if you could please pay attention I'd appreciate it." Then I'd stop and give them a pointed look. That usually embarrassed them enough that they'd stop. And the annoyance was only with straight men...gay men never bothered me because it was usually when we were clothes shopping and they were trying to answer a question directly related to the item of clothing I was going to purchase. Gay men can get away with a lot more than straight men can. |
Lisser 05.08.2007 10:22 |
Look all you want, but if I don't think you're worthy of looking you'll feel real stupid real quick. ;) |
Donna13 05.08.2007 11:45 |
As far as I can remember, having someone stare at my breasts while talking to me for a long time (talking to the breasts) only happened to me once. It was at work, and I was wearing a modest suit (skirt and jacket - buttoned up) and this particular man was always making silly comments about the girls in the office. So, really, it was just more pitiful than anything else. A bit shocking because I didn't know why he was doing it. I didn't hate him for it or try to make him feel bad - I just didn't expect the best from him after that point. |
thomasquinn 32989 05.08.2007 12:26 |
Janet wrote:I associate *that* with upper-class Englishmen referring to senile old women said men are about to inherit large sums of money from.<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Okay, how about "Old Girl" then?Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. |
Sherwood Forest 05.08.2007 12:34 |
yeah i aggree with the people from the muse forum, i dont mind but sstaring gets a little uncomfortable otherwise i could care less about looking, you can look at whatever the hell you guys want |
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wstüssyb 05.08.2007 13:09 |
Actually, I've had a girl tell me, "You should look at my face when I speak, not my chest" My response was, "Well, You should not have half a nipple sticking out" She was more embarrassed, as didn't know that it was showing. To make a long story short, I did get some that night :) |
Vincent. 05.08.2007 13:35 |
Filthy pervs! :P Er. I hed an almost boyfriend who quit talking to me so he could date a girl with bigger boobs. ;_; She was like...triple E. O_O |
sparrow 21754 05.08.2007 14:01 |
i dont have much of a chest, so i would actually feel better if someone noticed them -_- theyre quite nice actually!!! :( maybe i shouldnt have said that >.> lol i think the longest a guy stared at my chest was my tshirt of the definition of rock and roll. its basically the whole damn shirt. they usually feel awkward afterward. |
Poo, again 05.08.2007 14:22 |
I think Queenzone has a lot to learn from the Muse board. |
Janet 05.08.2007 14:30 |
<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Senile old woman sounds about right. Just call me Mad Cow.Janet wrote:I associate *that* with upper-class Englishmen referring to senile old women said men are about to inherit large sums of money from.<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Okay, how about "Old Girl" then?Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. |
Sergei. 05.08.2007 14:32 |
I haven't gotten an ounce of boob. However, I feel embarrassed for girls who do get comments and looks because it's pretty creepy and disgusting. It's sad that boobs are all some guys care about. But then again, it can't be any different than a girl liking a guy with a big penis or big muscles. XDD |
magicalfreddiemercury 05.08.2007 14:38 |
Lisser wrote: Look all you want, but if I don't think you're worthy of looking you'll feel real stupid real quick. ;)Love it! :) |
Mr.Jingles 05.08.2007 14:52 |
<font color=teal>Cookies?<h6>A Scientist wrote: I haven't gotten an ounce of boob. However, I feel embarrassed for girls who do get comments and looks because it's pretty creepy and disgusting. It's sad that boobs are all some guys care about.HEY THAT'S NOT TRUE!! We also care about the ass |
rachael mae. 05.08.2007 15:12 |
I don't mind if it's a guy around my age, or someone who i quite like, but anyone else and it makes me feel a bit violated. Leering is a big no, too. I certainly don't flaunt them either, as i'm reeally too self-conscious about that area. |
Sergei. 05.08.2007 15:19 |
Mr.Jingles wrote:;P Luckily I haven't one of those either. xDD<font color=teal>Cookies?<h6>A Scientist wrote: I haven't gotten an ounce of boob. However, I feel embarrassed for girls who do get comments and looks because it's pretty creepy and disgusting. It's sad that boobs are all some guys care about.HEY THAT'S NOT TRUE!! We also care about the ass |
Raf 05.08.2007 15:20 |
Mr.Jingles wrote:Don't forget the camel toe, when available... ;)<font color=teal>Cookies?<h6>A Scientist wrote: I haven't gotten an ounce of boob. However, I feel embarrassed for girls who do get comments and looks because it's pretty creepy and disgusting. It's sad that boobs are all some guys care about.HEY THAT'S NOT TRUE!! We also care about the ass |
Freya is quietly judging you. 05.08.2007 15:23 |
Ewwww. |
QueenMercury46 05.08.2007 15:55 |
I walked out of Target with my friend one time and these two 30 year old men were looking at me. I saw them but when my friend told me I just denyed it because I find it to be really creepy and disgusting for a 30-something year old man looking at a 15 year old girl. It has disturbed me for awhile now. I guess I should have expected that from Target though... |
its_a_hard_life 26994 05.08.2007 16:13 |
I had some Spanish guy whistle at me while me and a friend walked away from the merchandise stall, at the Aerosmith gig in Hyde Park this June. He shouted, "Excellent ass, sexy!!!!" I stuck my middle finger up at him, mumbled to my friend, "RUNNNNNN!!!" and we ran till we couldn't see him anymore. LMAO. |
Mr.Jingles 05.08.2007 16:14 |
QueenMercury46 wrote: I walked out of Target with my friend one time and these two 30 year old men were looking at me. I saw them but when my friend told me I just denyed it because I find it to be really creepy and disgusting for a 30-something year old man looking at a 15 year old girl. It has disturbed me for awhile now. I guess I should have expected that from Target though...I think every single teenage girl who feels harassed by a much older guy deserves to have a clone of Chris Hansen. I would just love to see some douche bag saying something raunchy and inappropiate to a girl and out of nowhere comes Chris Hansen and says: - "Sit down, I want to talk to you for a minute". |
Raf 05.08.2007 16:15 |
<font color="#FF00FF">its_a_hard_life wrote: I had some Spanish guy whistle at me while me and a friend walked away from the merchandise stall, at the Aerosmith gig in Hyde Park this June. He shouted, "Excellent ass, sexy!!!!" I stuck my middle finger up at him, mumbled to my friend, "RUNNNNNN!!!" and we ran till we couldn't see him anymore. LMAO.If I get my hands on him, I'll do something to his lips and... Well, he won't ever be able to whistle again. ;) |
***Marial-B*** 05.08.2007 16:51 |
xD!!!!!!!!! |
Raf 05.08.2007 17:31 |
:P |
Winter Land Man 05.08.2007 18:19 |
If Leigha was still here... haha... she'd probably show you all photos of her and videos! |
Sweetie 05.08.2007 19:31 |
I'm blind now ;_; |
thomasquinn 32989 07.08.2007 07:25 |
Janet wrote:I'll never understand women. Last time I said that, I was unconscious for three days, and my kidneys are still missing in action.<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Senile old woman sounds about right. Just call me Mad Cow.Janet wrote:I associate *that* with upper-class Englishmen referring to senile old women said men are about to inherit large sums of money from.<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote:Okay, how about "Old Girl" then?Janet wrote: I am hardly a "girl" lol! ;-)You have two X-chromosomes, therefore, you are a girl. "Woman" only refers to a girl who pretends to have grown up. |
AspiringPhilosophe 07.08.2007 08:05 |
Caspar, you aren't supposed to understand women. That's our plan. Keep you guys in confusion so that we can be in control of everything without you guys actually knowing about it. :-P |
thomasquinn 32989 07.08.2007 08:12 |
Ah, but that explains EVERYTHING. Secretly, I like to believe I don't understand you lot because you just don't make any sense. And guys don't really care whether you are in charge...so long as they get to pretend THEY are when their mates are around. |
@ndy38 07.08.2007 08:27 |
HistoryGirl wrote: Caspar, you aren't supposed to understand women. That's our plan. Keep you guys in confusion so that we can be in control of everything without you guys actually knowing about it. :-PI KNEW IT! |
thomasquinn 32989 07.08.2007 08:42 |
<font color=black>@ndy<font color=red>38 wrote:SHHHH! We're supposed to keep them in the dark about that, or we're going to have to do the dishes after all!HistoryGirl wrote: Caspar, you aren't supposed to understand women. That's our plan. Keep you guys in confusion so that we can be in control of everything without you guys actually knowing about it. :-PI KNEW IT! |
@ndy38 07.08.2007 08:58 |
Sorry, got over-excited there.... *ahem* |
AspiringPhilosophe 07.08.2007 10:48 |
Too late. :-P Now all the girls know...so get ready to do those dishes, Caspar |
iGSM 07.08.2007 10:57 |
I generally don't. That being said there have been a couple of girls in my couple of years in customer service who have 'black hole cleavage' where your eyes are drawn there, no matter how hard you try. Think the Scrubs episode where JD sees Elliot in her bra/panties. Then there are others who have 'chin cleavage' where as even if you glance 1 cm away from their eyes you drift in to Boob Central. Lastly there's 'item' hangers. They hang a, for example, set of sunglasses in their top and just having a look at them gets you in big trouble. Sexual predaotr trouble. Me on the other hand... I like bottoms. |
iron eagle 07.08.2007 17:20 |
i stared at Janets once... they were covered in gummis..... peeped at Lissers too...... end of the day... still gay oh well i tried! ;-)) |
Winter Land Man 07.08.2007 18:01 |
iron eagle wrote: i stared at Janets once... they were covered in gummis..... peeped at Lissers too...... end of the day... still gay oh well i tried! ;-))I thought you were straight. |
thomasquinn 32989 08.08.2007 07:16 |
Right, we'll have to get this straight: are you gay? Sorry, couldn't resist the poor pun. |
Janet 08.08.2007 07:38 |
iron eagle wrote: i stared at Janets once... they were covered in gummis..... peeped at Lissers too...... end of the day... still gay oh well i tried! ;-))Paulie you devil you! And here I thought you were just trying to read my T shirt! ;-X |
iGSM 08.08.2007 08:47 |
Heh, *is reminded of Monty Python* |
john bodega 08.08.2007 11:08 |
It really sucks being a tallish guy with shortish female friends. I mean... you can't help but NOT see certain things, and it's almost obscene what an acute angle can reveal in a girl. I mean shit... you can't win. Where the hell do you look!?! |
Erin 08.08.2007 11:28 |
iron eagle wrote: i stared at Janets once... they were covered in gummis.....Was she wearing this by chance? ;-) link |
Janet 08.08.2007 11:30 |
Erin, you got me! ;-) |
JoxerTheDeityPirate 08.08.2007 11:48 |
Zebonka12 wrote: It really sucks being a tallish guy with shortish female friends. I mean... you can't help but NOT see certain things, and it's almost obscene what an acute angle can reveal in a girl. I mean shit... you can't win. Where the hell do you look!?!i know where you are coming from with this but i just look anyway,it would be rude not to and tact has never been a strong point with me so there would be no way i could blag my way out of it. i thought an ex-girlfriend had a hairy chest when i first met her but it turned out she just had a very low cleavage and Janet: a $2.97 gummy bra? i never realised you were so cheap :-] |
Janet 08.08.2007 12:13 |
joxerthecornish-IT-boypirate wrote:I'm just full of surprises!Zebonka12 wrote: It really sucks being a tallish guy with shortish female friends. I mean... you can't help but NOT see certain things, and it's almost obscene what an acute angle can reveal in a girl. I mean shit... you can't win. Where the hell do you look!?!i know where you are coming from with this but i just look anyway,it would be rude not to and tact has never been a strong point with me so there would be no way i could blag my way out of it. i thought an ex-girlfriend had a hairy chest when i first met her but it turned out she just had a very low cleavage and Janet: a $2.97 gummy bra? i never realised you were so cheap :-] ;-) |
~im a fool~ 08.08.2007 18:17 |
it depends. if a guy is starring, then yes i mind. but if he just looks for like a second. i dont care. i look at guys in certain places once in a while. but its not like i care about any of that. (im not really old enough to care anyway.) there was one time when i got mad at these guys on the bus. i was just sitting there. and nobody was talking, and everybody was starring at me. (i didnt even have a low cut shirt. they were nerds, so thats probably why.) |
iron eagle 08.08.2007 19:46 |
oh dear i forgot about staring at erin's too pre pieter of course.... it was a record store in chicago--- brian and erin went left and i went right suddenly we both saw a Brian May Picture disc and we scrambled for it... <BAM> right into each other we go and to the floor i went-- she looked down at me..and i looked up damn.... still gay........ i tried mom i really did! *LOL* |
Erin 08.08.2007 19:51 |
iron eagle wrote: suddenly we both saw a Brian May Picture disc and we scrambled for it... <BAM> right into each other we go and to the floor i went-- she looked down at me..and i looked up damn.... still gay........ i tried mom i really did! *LOL*LOL!! I'll trade you that picture disc ANY day for that Night at the Warehouse, Paulie. If only I'd been a couple of seconds faster! ;-) |
Sergei. 08.08.2007 20:32 |
~im a fool~ wrote: if a guy is starringWhat play/show/event is he starring in? ~im a fool~ wrote: everybody was starring at me.Maybe they were producers who wanted you to STAR in their next Broadway musical! |
~im a fool~ 08.08.2007 21:12 |
<font color=teal>Cookies?<h6>A Scientist wrote:what?~im a fool~ wrote: if a guy is starringWhat play/show/event is he starring in?~im a fool~ wrote: everybody was starring at me.Maybe they were producers who wanted you to STAR in their next Broadway musical! |
iron eagle 08.08.2007 22:32 |
*LOL* no! |
Lisser 09.08.2007 15:26 |
iron eagle wrote: i stared at Janets once... they were covered in gummis..... peeped at Lissers too...... end of the day... still gay oh well i tried! ;-))You turd you! I knew I couldn't turn you over to the darkside, I'm just too old and saggy to go there these days. ;) |
Matias Merçeauroix 09.08.2007 15:34 |
Sometimes I find it hard to look at my girlfriend's eyes when I speak to her. VERY hard. xD |
Winter Land Man 09.08.2007 18:10 |
My girlfriend has a nice nice big chest, and I catch almost everyguy looking at her boobs. I'm not too mad though, because, I'm the only one who can touch those naturals. She's like 5'9 and her boobs are bigger than Samantha Fox's. Maybe she should get a million dollar policy on them as well, I've hinted. :-P I LOVE MY GIRLFRIENDS BODY! Right now she's pregnant and we're so happy to have baby soon. |
Miss Multiples aka colfarrell1 10.08.2007 12:44 |
joxerthepinkmohawkpirate wrote:I'm suprised you didn't make a comment about myself..me being 5"8 doesn't help matters..I've caught a lot of melon lookersZebonka12 wrote: It really sucks being a tallish guy with shortish female friends. I mean... you can't help but NOT see certain things, and it's almost obscene what an acute angle can reveal in a girl. I mean shit... you can't win. Where the hell do you look!?!i know where you are coming from with this but i just look anyway,it would be rude not to and tact has never been a strong point with me so there would be no way i could blag my way out of it. i thought an ex-girlfriend had a hairy chest when i first met her but it turned out she just had a very low cleavage and Janet: a $2.97 gummy bra? i never realised you were so cheap :-] |
john bodega 11.08.2007 00:39 |
Guys, just do what I do. Wear sunglasses. :) |